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re: Dad dumps 80,000 pennies for child support; daughter donates it to domestic abuse shelter

Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:44 pm to
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61479 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:44 pm to
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No, I get it.


You say you do but you really don't.

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But, when a family has so ostracized you, for so long.


If your kid stops talking to you how int he world does doing this change things?

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You have no facts to say what he endured in the divorce or along the way.


They aren't needed when he's proven himself to be an insane child.

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Crucify him, but there is always more to the story.


The story is he's an a-hole moron who claims he doesn't want to hurt his relationship with his child but did something that was obviously planned out over time and would obviously hurt his relationship with his child.
Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
18042 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:45 pm to
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You don't need to do any brainwashing to turn a kid against an a-hole who dumps 80,000 pennies on a lawn. He fricked up his relationship with his daughter all by himself.


This is a ridiculous statement. What actions made him feel this was necessary? Years of not seeing his daughter and paying? Possibly not because of anything but his vindictive wife's actions. Welcome to the real world.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:46 pm to
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No but your kids will remember how you handled it. Yeah, dick move by her though




I bit my tongue and busted arse for years working two jobs and never missing a payment.

I always tell this story:

Walked out the support hearing in 2011 mumbling to myself, "This bullshite right here is why hardworking good dads snap and end up in prison"

Then I went fill out an application at Papa Johns to deliver pizzas at night for the next 5 years while she moved into a $500k house and bought several $40k+ SUVs.




Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
17430 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:46 pm to
I forget the amount but a NASCAR driver, Rusty Wallace I believe, paid a fine the same way years back.
Posted by Water
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2020
1158 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:47 pm to
THIS. It doesn’t matter that ‘he paid’ because that doesn’t excuse being a scumbag. This wasn’t a spur of the moment, loss of self control. It was PLANNED REVENGE.

Given the donation to a domestic abuse shelter, I think there is a very good chance this guy was an abusive POS. These kids have every right to refuse contact with him if this is his behavior and choices.

If you truly are a good parent, you take the fricking high road and grow the frick up. You work hard to be a role model for kids and THAT proves who you are regardless of what others may claim. Acting like a bratty kid with the SOLE PURPOSE OF CAUSING DISTRESS VIA THEATRICS is BS.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:48 pm to
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Given the donation to a domestic abuse shelter, I think there is a very good chance this guy was an abusive POS. These kids have every right to refuse contact with him if this is his behavior and choices.



Someone needs to pull their court records. It's all public. I gotta know now.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10734 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:49 pm to
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He was making a statement to mom
What does caring for a child he also created have to do with the mom?
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
78458 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:50 pm to
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If you truly are a good parent, you take the fricking high road and grow the frick up.


This. Get pissed and kick and scream away from the kids.

Shitty actions like this do nothing to help or win them over. The truth always comes out.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61479 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:50 pm to
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Welcome to the real world.




In the real world a rational, responsible, caring parent who wants an estranged child to have relationship with them doesn't dump 80,000 pennies on his ex wife's lawn.

Get a clue.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:50 pm to
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What does caring for a child he also created have to do with the mom?

Aww how cute to believe his money was going to caring for a child.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10734 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:51 pm to
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Dude is my fricking hero.
Says exactly what kind of person you are. Thanks for telling us.
Posted by dsides
Member since Jan 2013
6161 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:51 pm to
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That’s only like $800. Trashy


Look at the big brain on Brad
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:52 pm to
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In the real world a rational, responsible, caring parent who wants an estranged child to have relationship with them doesn't dump 80,000 pennies on his ex wife's lawn.

Get a clue.


I'm doing this in 2023 and will post the video here as a bump.

Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
18042 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:52 pm to
Um, yes, I do.

Because they have made their mind up, thanks to Mom poisoning them.

No, he is fed up with their abuse.

You clearly have no real world experience with this.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61479 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:54 pm to


You need to grow the hell up.
Posted by Cuz413
Member since Nov 2007
11310 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:54 pm to
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At least his children know how to be kind and generous to others.


It's easy to give away other people's money.

If they felt so righteous, why weren't they donating all of his payments?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:55 pm to
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Says exactly what kind of person you are. Thanks for telling us.


We know what kinda person you are. Well I do at least.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49072 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 7:57 pm to
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You need to grow the hell up.


Team Liz.

And


Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
27778 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:00 pm to
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Oh, and there are no moms who turn their children against Dad because they are vindictive and play the victim? I have seen this MANY times. You have no idea how women can be in brainwashing their children against their ex-husbands.

This guy at work claims to have paid child support, out of state to Texas, for 16 + years without ever seeing the child because the mom made up a host of "inaccuracies about him being unfit human being" He spent a year in/out of court when the DNA test came back positive to him before giving up on visitation rights

He came to my office on the day the kid turned 18 to make sure no more payments were made. He was bittersweet ....payments were over but he never met his kid.

Who is at fault here?
This post was edited on 6/9/21 at 8:00 pm
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
78458 posts
Posted on 6/9/21 at 8:00 pm to
Also, the last thing the mother or daughters should have done was go to the press.

But is sounds like a bunch of trashballs involved in the situation.
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