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re: Dating website phenomenon - stay at home mom?
Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:31 pm to StringedInstruments
Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:31 pm to StringedInstruments
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5000/month
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Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:32 pm to DownshiftAndFloorIt
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DownshiftAndFloorIt
I think her ex is a surgeon and cheated on her.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:32 pm to StringedInstruments
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I work with a lady who has bragged about her $5000/month in alimony she gets from her ex husband. And she works with great benefits.
SAHMs can easily live a life of leisure if their ex husband makes a lot of money.
I feel confident in saying this doesn’t apply to the women OP is referring to. They were never married and the fella wasnt a high earner.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:34 pm to SCgamecock2988
quote:Its not ideal if you want a girlfriend but there are some constants about single moms I have come to enjoy.
Who the hell wants to date a single mom.
1 you know they like sex
2 they dont have time to be all up in your shite
3 you will never be more important than their child
4 typically they are not looking for their next husband
Posted on 2/24/20 at 2:46 pm to SCgamecock2988
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Who the hell wants to date a single mom.
You, around age 38 when the 24 yr old recent grads stop biting on Tinder.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:00 pm to mikelbr
So what is more desirable on a dating site?
Single divorced mom in her 40s
Divorced woman in her 40s with no kids
Both same level of attractiveness and assuming guy is 40s or older and doesn’t want more kids
Single divorced mom in her 40s
Divorced woman in her 40s with no kids
Both same level of attractiveness and assuming guy is 40s or older and doesn’t want more kids
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:04 pm to lsunurse
I think what would be most desirable is someone being honest and true. You can't blanket a statement like that girl. Every guy is also different on what they find attractive.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:17 pm to lsunurse
Assuming their income and mental health is comparable, the lady with no kids.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:22 pm to HoustonChick86
Yeah but I was wanting the OT answer....not the rationally thought out one 
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:26 pm to lsunurse
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Single divorced mom in her 40s
At least I know she puts out.
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Divorced woman in her 40s with no kids
Mental health would be my biggest concern.
I am so very thankful that Mrs. Bad93ex puts up with my stupid arse because the dating world seems like a cesspool.
This post was edited on 2/24/20 at 3:27 pm
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:37 pm to bad93ex
So I went to high school with a girl that played this game perfectly. 5 kids by 3 different dads.
Dad #1 was a guy from our high school. Had two kids She got pregnant at like 19 and they got married and he worked a plant job. She divorced him.
Dad #2 was the dad of kid #3. He was a small town doctor. I don't think they were ever married, but child support still comes in.
Dad #3 was one of Dad #2's more successful friends from med school. He married her and moved to DFW and put all five kids in private school. He cheated on her and she divorced him.
The best I can tell, she's living it up as a single mom in the wealthy suburbs of Dallas these days. I know that kid #1 is at SMU now and kid #2 is a senior in high school. Youngest child is still not in school so she has a decade or better before she has to work on something else.
Dad #1 was a guy from our high school. Had two kids She got pregnant at like 19 and they got married and he worked a plant job. She divorced him.
Dad #2 was the dad of kid #3. He was a small town doctor. I don't think they were ever married, but child support still comes in.
Dad #3 was one of Dad #2's more successful friends from med school. He married her and moved to DFW and put all five kids in private school. He cheated on her and she divorced him.
The best I can tell, she's living it up as a single mom in the wealthy suburbs of Dallas these days. I know that kid #1 is at SMU now and kid #2 is a senior in high school. Youngest child is still not in school so she has a decade or better before she has to work on something else.
This post was edited on 2/24/20 at 3:38 pm
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:42 pm to bad93ex
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Mental health would be my biggest concern.
How so? What if she couldn’t have kids?
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I am so very thankful that Mrs. Bad93ex puts up with my stupid arse because the dating world seems like a cesspool.
It terrifies me to think I might be thrown back into it. Just curious how close to the bottom of the dating barrel a woman in my situation would end up. Or if I should just go ahead and buy a bunch of pugs if I do find myself single again.
This post was edited on 2/24/20 at 3:44 pm
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:46 pm to lsunurse
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Divorced woman in her 40s with no kids
What I wanted.
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Single divorced mom in her 40s
What I got.
Honestly, I learned, it's a lot more about the person than it is about their circumstances.
Step kids thrown in the mix complicates things. But it can be a positive too, if the kids like you and have no present father in their life.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:48 pm to lsunurse
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What if she couldn’t have kids?
Men that would message you more than likely have zero interest in having babies so no worries. Mentioning you want kids will be an easy way to send most packing.
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It terrifies me to think I might be thrown back into it.
Not terrifying but there are a lot of sluts and whores on there, both sexes. Makes it tough to find a good person.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:49 pm to The Pirate King
It’s a real shame the government doesn’t do more for single moms
They could give them free orange clothes and a job stamping license plates
They could give them free orange clothes and a job stamping license plates
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:49 pm to Festus
If I’m forced to start over I think I would want someone with kids this time
Then I could at least be a stepmom
My friend is my age and has no kids. She is marrying a guy with daughters who adore my friend. His ex wife gets along great with my friend as well (the two text each other all the time about the girls and their school stuff).
Then I could at least be a stepmom
My friend is my age and has no kids. She is marrying a guy with daughters who adore my friend. His ex wife gets along great with my friend as well (the two text each other all the time about the girls and their school stuff).
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:51 pm to Festus
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Honestly, I learned, it's a lot more about the person than it is about their circumstances.
Very true.
I think we are quick to stereotype 30+ single women because of the vocal ones that stick out in our minds, but tons of perfectly decent people are single by no choice of their own.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:54 pm to The Pirate King
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This post was edited on 1/18/21 at 7:32 pm
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:54 pm to lsunurse
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If I’m forced to start over I think I would want someone with kids this time
Another mixed bag of fun.
Good luck.
Posted on 2/24/20 at 3:54 pm to lsunurse
nm
This post was edited on 5/21/20 at 1:58 pm
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