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Why on Earth would parents choose to home school their children?

Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:19 pm
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:19 pm
A friend of mine told me he and his wife (mostly his wife) are considering home schooling their son. They both went to traditional schools growing up and both are college graduates. He didn't really provide any reason, nor is he obligated to.

Mom using it as an excuse to not get a job?
No trust in public education?
Sheltering child from society?

Seems like more cons than pros.

Are there any scenarios/benefits that I'm not seeing?

Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
37751 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:21 pm to
If they live in Alabama, the teacher/student relationship Makes more sense when homeschooled
Posted by gazelles
Member since Apr 2011
1324 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:21 pm to
this is why I never agreed to be your friend
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
23434 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:22 pm to
quote:

No trust in public education?
Sheltering child from society?


These two sum it up perfectly.

I think under certain circumstances there's nothing wrong with it. Say dad's got a great income with a lot of time off and they want to travel.

Homeschooling can give you LOADS more time off for say vacation with more flexibility. You really only have to teach and do school work for 3-4 hours a day with more focused learning.

But most people do it for IMO wrong reasons.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:23 pm to
because schools are propaganda centers for indoctrinating kids into socialism, hating america, suppressing free speech, and recruiting snowflakes and antifa activists
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41519 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:24 pm to
There’s a read on politalk right now about some 8th grade boy who got #metoo’d by a bunch of girls who didn’t like an avatar he used on Snapchat.

While me and my wife will never homeschool our kids, I think keeping your kids home to properly instill the virtues you want them to have is a valid reason to avaoid public school.

Also let’s say you live in a terrible public school district and you can’t affodnprivate school, but you know you can homeschool. If done properly, and this is the key, it can be a great educational system.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77849 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:24 pm to
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because schools are propaganda centers for indoctrinating kids into socialism, hating america, suppressing free speech, and recruiting snowflakes and antifa activists




Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120319 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:25 pm to
The people I knew, growing up, who were homeschooled, were homeschooled for religious purposes.

One family in particular, sent their kids to Catholic school. Long story short, the dad opened up his own non-denominational church and they took all three kids out of Catholic school and homeschooled them.

There were two other families I knew, who were members of this church, who ended up homeschooling their kids. One of the families had 6 kids, it wasn't until after the first 3 graduated HS before they decided to homeschool the others.

WIth that said, I am sure there are multiple reasons why people decide to do this. I do not know much about how it all works, but isn't there a program for homeschooled kids in which they do things with other homeschooled kids?
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
58529 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:25 pm to
When your kid ends up on drugs and listening to rap music you’ll wish you homeschooled
Posted by GoHoGsGo06
Member since Nov 2006
5739 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:26 pm to
I’m pretty sure my kid would be a lot smarter if homeschooled.

And the notion that homeschoolers miss out on social interaction is wrong in my opinion. This idea that homeschoolers are locked in their house from 8-5 with no outside interaction is wrong. Many homeschoolers have organized social events. They take field trips (in different ways) too.
Posted by messyjesse
Member since Nov 2015
2227 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:28 pm to
Because public schools fricking suck, that's why.
Posted by deaconjones35
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2009
9878 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:28 pm to
We homeschooled our oldest son who is now 22. He made a 29 on his ACT and got a full ride to LSU. He could do his schoolwork in about 2 hours a day. Best part about homeschooling is we could take off and go on vacation whenever we wanted to and gave us freedom to have our own schedule. We didn’t have a particular reason to homeschool, my wife just wanted to try it. That being said, we have 2 year old twins and their asses are getting institutionalized, cause ain’t nobody got time to homeschool that.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43073 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

A school principal is undisputedly an agent of the State of Texas. Yet the rules that apply to police officers interrogating your child do not apply to school principals. Even if the police officer detaiprincipalns your child and takes them to the principal, as long as the police officer leaves the room prior to the interrogation by the school principal, the rights granted to any person when interrogated by the police do not apply. In the Matter of V.P., 55 S.W.3d 25. This includes the right to an attorney and the right to remain silent. So even though the principal is an agent of the State, they are not law enforcement and the questioning by a school principal is not a custodial interrogation as it would have been had a police officer conducted the questioning of your child. So now school administrators and police officers are trained to have the principal take all statements or confessions from the child to avoid the constitutional protections afforded all persons when questioned by law enforcement. They will question your child, without notice to you, and anything your child says can be used against them in court. It is a sad day when our schools and law enforcement work together with the intent to deny our children their rights provided to them by both the U.S. and Texas Constitutions along with the Texas Family Code.




This is a good reason
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9128 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:29 pm to
In purely educational terms, at this point I would probably rather home school my kids then send them to a public school.

The only reason I'd send them to school is for the socialization and opportunities to play sports.

But I feel like traditional structures are starting to give way to more flexible socialization opportunities. I believe in lots of cities, there are groups/associations where home-schooled children can get together for these kinds of things.

The dichotomy of school=normal kids/homeschool=weird kids is dissolving.
This post was edited on 9/21/18 at 12:31 pm
Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9956 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:29 pm to
Let me ask you. What do you think is more valuable with regards to education.

A 1-on-1 environment where the teacher, usually the mom, demands the most out of their student (child) or a public school teacher who is underpaid babysitting 30 kids with cell phones eating tide-pods?

And before you say it, home school kids of have loads of activities outside with other home schooled kids and are well rounded in a social setting.

What do you think is better for development?
This post was edited on 9/21/18 at 12:30 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120319 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:30 pm to
quote:

If they live in Alabama, the teacher/student relationship Makes more sense when homeschooled


Posted by Dlawnboy
Member since May 2008
720 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:31 pm to
My neighbors down the street did it. 7 kids. All are high functioning very socialized individuals. More so than probably 98% of the idiots on the OT. They traveled often and seem to have a great family life.
Posted by Slippy
Across the rivah
Member since Aug 2005
7469 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:31 pm to
Jesus.

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Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31342 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:31 pm to
They are overly protective and generally very religious. They’re scared little Bobby might be exposed to something and be corrupted. These parents do mean well so I’ll definitely give em that, better than not being involved at all. But they deprive their kids of the chance to be independent and develop in that regard.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
25752 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:32 pm to
Of the people I've met who were homeschooled, the majority were weirdos. I don't know if they were homeschooled because they were weirdos, or being homeschooled turned them into weirdos. But it seems to me that a child misses out on a lot of socialization - which includes learning to be a normal, productive member of society - when homeschooled.
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