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What to do about mother's cat.

Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:49 am
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
58028 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:49 am
Had to put my mother in a home. Her cat is 17 years old. and has been miserable for the several months she has been away. he is now peeing on things.

He is declawed so I can't keep him outside. He is mean as hell. My mother was his favorite and he tries to bite the rest of us if we try to pet him.

To put him down or not put him down? I don't think he will be happy in a shelter place. I can't take him as he hates my dog and would probably attack my much smaller cat .

So what is the OT's advice besides antifreeze?
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52552 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:50 am to
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put him down
this is the answer for most cat situations
Posted by Old Character
Member since Jan 2018
1561 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:52 am to
Just go drop his mean arse off in the woods somewhere. He sounds like an a-hole
Posted by Dingeaux
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2005
5776 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:52 am to
17 years is a good life. put him to sleep
Posted by forkedintheroad
Member since Feb 2025
2150 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:53 am to
Posted by sledgehammer
SWLA
Member since Oct 2020
7050 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:53 am to
I had to put my cat down last week after she broke her hip fighting with another cat. I couldn’t pick her up to take her to the vet so I had to put her down myself. It’s a difficult thing to do.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
129672 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:54 am to
This is your mother's cat that she loved. It is innocent and 17 years old. It doesn't understand what is happening to it.

If you love your mother, then you'll do what you can to love the things she loved. Work with a trainer and a vet to figure the situation out and care for it.
Posted by Sho Nuff
Oahu
Member since Feb 2009
13903 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:54 am to
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Just go drop his mean arse off in the woods somewhere
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
20587 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:55 am to
Tough one.

Some homes utilize pets to keep the old folks engaged and happy... ask your mom's place if they want it.

Posted by El Segundo Guy
1-866-DHS-2-ICE
Member since Aug 2014
11592 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 11:56 am to
.22 bullet to the back of its grape. And i generally like cats. Have two inside/outside myself. But 17 is old and not going to have any quality of life and won't get adopted at a shelter.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
61619 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:04 pm to
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What to do about mother's cat.


How close is the nearest Asian restaurant?
Posted by FCP
Delta State Univ. - Fightin' Okra
Member since Sep 2010
5156 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:13 pm to
17 years? I’m generally in favor of cats, but that’s like 100 in human years. Quality of life is not getting better from here. Put the poor SOB to sleep.
Posted by CrazyTigerFan
Member since Nov 2003
3612 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:22 pm to
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17 years old
quote:

he is now peeing on things.
It may have failing kidneys on top of adjusting to missing your mother.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
32623 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:22 pm to
Unless your mother is utterly mentally not there, I would talk to her about it and follow her wishes, regardless of what they are, within reason.
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
16103 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:24 pm to
Is “my mother’s cat” a clever euphemism for something?
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
149922 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:25 pm to
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mother's cat.
pics?
Posted by Chromdome35
Fast lane, behind a slow driver
Member since Nov 2010
8148 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:28 pm to
Amen!

The cat will likely not last much longer, the oldest cat we've ever had lasted to 19. Most pass in the 15-17 year old range.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
13930 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:29 pm to
From a recently arrived cat fancier I would have it put down. It is 17 years old, it is not going to get better its going to get worse. It is confused and frightened and its going to continue to be both....its the humane thing to do.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
84403 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:29 pm to
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138464 posts
Posted on 4/15/26 at 12:29 pm to
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he tries to bite the rest of us if we try to pet him.



Then don't pet the cat

quote:

he is now peeing on things.


Gate and keep the cat in the kitchen

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