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Youths complaining about a lack of "third places" lately

Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:27 am
Posted by Thundercles
Mars
Member since Sep 2010
5229 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:27 am
It seems like in the last couple years everyone under the age of 30 discovered the term "third place" which refers to a location that's not work or home where people socialize. It's the button Gen Z pushes to sound sophisticated. Parks, libraries, bowling alley, church coffee shops, social clubs, et al. Young people lament that society is collapsing because they don't have another place to gather in anymore.

The thing that I don't get is that all these places still exist and they just choose not to go to them. So they're just complaining about not taking advantage of the resources available.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5668 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:31 am to
Your mom likes it in her third place.
Posted by poochie
Houma, la
Member since Apr 2007
6445 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:36 am to
third places get turned to absolute shite by the public. think of all the fun places when we were younger. hang out at the mall, astroworld for vacation, local parks and hang outs. culture and vandalism closes those places down or makes them undesirable.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18968 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:41 am to
Adults have a bar and that's that.

Go to Europe. Every neighborhood has a pub or beer garden within two blocks. You can't throw a dead cat and not hit one.

I wish we had that here, outside of New Orleans, so I wouldn't have to drive home from mine.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
54369 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:42 am to
quote:

"third place"


Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
24483 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:44 am to
Maybe they are referring to places affected by cultcha?

Ex: Super Bowl Championship Celebrations
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63577 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:49 am to
My 3rd and 4th places were destroyed by Dora the Explorer during her COVID reign of terror.

Now I just have the golf club.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:50 am to
I think it's more a problem with technology and society. Everyone is so unapproachable these days. People have their faces buried in their phones and/or ear buds in their ears.

People in public places all put out this vibe that says "leave me the frick alone" most of the time.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81327 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to
I'm sure third places are not quite as prominent as they used to be, but mostly I'm with you. They're there. The younger generations just don't go.

Bar I went to last night was packed to the gills. Just with older people who enjoy bars and not younger people who never got into them.

I definitely could see private clubs/country clubs on the decline. The place we go is absolutely BEGGING young people to join, to the point where I doubt you even need to be sponsored by a member anymore. Young people just aren't as interested in that stuff for fun, and even young professionals aren't as concerned with rubbing elbows outside of work hours.
Posted by Klondikekajun
Member since Jun 2020
1304 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:51 am to
quote:

because they don't have another place to gather in anymore.



As the stare at their phones,text but never actually "talk" to anybody, stay inside online, do nothing but play video games as a kid (except Braxxson & Jaxxson of course), and celebrate allowing criminals to run free and trash the once nice public spaces....

rant over....

NOW GET OFF MY LAWN!!!!
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79533 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:52 am to
The brewery boom was great for this. Packed with singles, families, etc.

Often outside, and often with little to do other than socialize with neighbors.

ETA: And they're often unremarkable or even dumpy, which makes them completely unattractive to the crowds that end up exchanging gunfire in the parking lot. In the Southeast, the flashier the communal space, the more likely it'll be on the nightly news. People from other parts of the country don't understand this at all.
This post was edited on 2/16/24 at 9:56 am
Posted by adamau
Member since Oct 2020
3588 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:53 am to
Recent Generations are gigantic doucherockets...

More News at 9
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14292 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:53 am to
Gyms are always good. If you want to avoid culcha, you just have to go to one expensive enough to keep undesirables out. Those $10/month places will be covered up in thugs just there to play basketball and cause problems.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
66306 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:55 am to
quote:

Youths complaining about a lack of "third places" lately
Your Mom likes it ALOT in her third place.
Posted by cdcleary
Member since Mar 2013
237 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:55 am to
I've never heard this phrase uttered in my life.
Posted by Dandy Chiggins
Member since Jan 2021
522 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:57 am to
In the US; "Third Places", especially free "third places", tend to attract a certain element that make them "Bad Places" in short order.

Europe and Asia have less of those elements.
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
1295 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 9:59 am to
“Third places” have become incredibly dangerous places these days, mainly because of………….well BooBoo, you know.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37333 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 10:26 am to
quote:

It seems like in the last couple years everyone under the age of 30 discovered the term "third place" which refers to a location that's not work or home where people socialize. It's the button Gen Z pushes to sound sophisticated. Parks, libraries, bowling alley, church coffee shops, social clubs, et al. Young people lament that society is collapsing because they don't have another place to gather in anymore.



IF we are talking about teenagers, I think this is legit complaint. Most malls are gone. Parks are mostly trashed and many closed at night. No teen clubs cause they turned ghetto. The few bowling alleys are full of weird old people. Most skating rinks have closed.

Most of the places I hung out as a teenager are no longer around and were not replaced.

Now if you are taking 20-somethings, they have more options... but they are generally limited to a bar or a bar-type environment.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
50158 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 10:42 am to
The daiquiri shop nearby is always full. Donuts in the parking lot too. What's the problem?
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
14357 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 10:45 am to
That’s what happens when you let the malls go to shite.
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