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re: Open letter from dad who was kicked out with his daughter from Olive Garden

Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:16 am to
Posted by 10thyrsr
Texas
Member since Oct 2020
1152 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:16 am to
I can say with 100 percent certainty that there is a man who works at the CS Olive garden who matches the description of this server.
Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
13525 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:17 am to
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I'm against the woke bull shite as much as anyone, but this dude kind of seems like the a-hole in this case. He claims to be against tyranny, but he also feels that his server shouldn't be able to have that job if they don't conform to the image that he prefers.


I'm pretty much in the same place with this.
Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
13525 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:21 am to
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In most encounters between a bigot and another person, it IS indeed the bigot who is the a-hole.



Hmmm...here's the first definition of the word "bigot" I found:

"obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group."

I don't think that the opinion is unreasonable. If you do, how so?
Posted by Cajun75
Member since Mar 2022
917 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:23 am to
Just ate there last week for the second time lately in Pensacola, FL.....food was good, and service was good.
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
5054 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:27 am to
Sounds like they didn't punish the girl, they protected her by removing her from a situation that frightened her. Something the father would have done if he cared about her feelings.
Posted by Motownsix
NOLA
Member since Oct 2022
3274 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:29 am to
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can say with 100 percent certainty that there is a man who works at the CS Olive garden who matches the description of this server.



If you’re trying to make this letter and the events sound credible, then why has the letter been passed around for a month with only slight changes?
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
44345 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:29 am to
quote:

Hmmm...here's the first definition of the word "bigot" I found:

"obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group."

I don't think that the opinion is unreasonable. If you do, how so?
If faux-Kevin was truly motivated solely by his young daughter being terrified of their server, it might not be "unreasonable" to request a different server. Of course, he could also have just told his daughter than some men like to dress like women and there was nothing to fear. That too would have been "reasonable."

But the remainder of faux-Kevin's rant makes it pretty clear that his faux-daughter's faux-fear was barely a secondary consideration, when measured against his ... vociferous ... feelings about transgender folks.

Agree with their lifestyle or not, you are not being placed in danger when a MTFTG hands you the pasta primavera and iced tea.
This post was edited on 8/10/23 at 11:37 am
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
5054 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:31 am to
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The waiter sounded like a man but looked like a woman.
Did the nametag say, "Lola" ?
ETA: I see this has been covered. Carry on.
This post was edited on 8/10/23 at 11:40 am
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
5054 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:36 am to
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Not nearly as much as I hate groomers who want to force children to assimilate to their perversions
You mean like people who take their daughter to a restaurant and call it a 'date' ?
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
26512 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:40 am to
What are the odds that that was the manager's gay lover?
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
44345 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:44 am to
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Not nearly as much as I hate groomers who want to force children to assimilate to their perversions
quote:

You mean like people who take their daughter to a restaurant and call it a 'date' ?

sad.
Posted by SippyCup
Gulf Coast
Member since Sep 2008
7005 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:47 am to
Mine asked "Why that boy got a dress on".
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
21120 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:51 am to
quote:

He made a request. They said no.


Yeah if they just stopped at "no" it would be different...but they chose to kick him out based upon his request. Problem!
Posted by captainFid
Never apologize to barbarism
Member since Dec 2014
10583 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 11:52 am to
Perfect... I've gone 20 years not stepping inside an Olive Garden, I'll try to go the distance now. [Local restaurant has much better food anyway].
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
9372 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:07 pm to
quote:

per chance do you live in College Station? Do you frequent or work at Olive Garden?


The last time I ate at an Olive Garden, there was actually a trans woman interviewing at a table close by. After that meal I vowed never to return..not because of their trans positive hiring practices...but because the food is just terrible.
Posted by Diamondawg
Mississippi
Member since Oct 2006
38378 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:12 pm to
quote:

Just ate there last week for the second time lately in Pensacola, FL.....food was good, and service was good.

Probably haven't eaten at ours since before Covid but when I did, loved their breadsticks and endless salad (do they still do that), plus their pasta dishes (typically an alfredo sauce of some kind) weren't bad at all.
Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
28540 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:14 pm to
quote:

Darden Restaurants




I played golf a few times with a couple of the Darden grandkids. They hardly struck me as left-wing loonies but I doubt if they play much of a role in hiring or grooming standards. If they even still own the company.
Posted by jrobic4
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
13288 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:16 pm to
quote:

just can't help himself


In this instance, I'll allow it. You would defend your "significant other" too
Posted by jrobic4
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
13288 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:18 pm to
quote:

insisted that he not overtly discriminate against their employee


Asking to change tables, without insulting or degrading the server, is not an unreadonable request. He didn't ask for it to get fired, or be sent home!
Posted by WildTchoupitoulas
Member since Jan 2010
44071 posts
Posted on 8/10/23 at 12:21 pm to
This open letter begs the question:

If a man is a drama queen, does that make him a gender bender?
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