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re: Would you tell your friend if his significant other is going to destroy him?
Posted on 1/29/25 at 10:53 am to RaoulDuke504
Posted on 1/29/25 at 10:53 am to RaoulDuke504
I’d say something if I overheard that specific conversation. He needs to know that.
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Posted on 1/29/25 at 10:59 am to MorbidTheClown
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Just cause problems between you 2.
Not necessarily. I warned my friend of a similar situation. He didn’t listen of course but it didn’t affect our friendship
After divorce a year later he told me I was right and he should have listened
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:02 am to RaoulDuke504
I’ve given up trying to help people that are making bad decisions with spouses. I have tried to tell certain family members, both male and female that they are making a mistake, but they don’t listen. Especially the men. There’s a reason that pussy is undefeated. It gets frustrating as hell
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:03 am to RaoulDuke504
yes
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:04 am to Topwater Trout
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I had a buddy that was dating a girl that was TD famous on here for being a whore (Prop Stop)
No name or link to thread?
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:05 am to RaoulDuke504
How's her arse look?
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:07 am to zippyputt
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I’d say something if I overheard that specific conversation. He needs to know that.
He should have called the whore out right then. Told her he was going to tell his buddy.
She's a worthless gold digger. They'll be broken up soon enough
Posted on 1/29/25 at 11:31 am to RaoulDuke504
I have a friend that was engaged. She was a complete idiot and an ex stripper. But she was NOT super attractive. He is very very wealthy thru family business.
My wife back then, was a bartender and frequently went in to that club when they called needing a Bartender to step in.
She became friends with " Bambie"
Fast forward a year and she's goes to my home crying, begging my wife to call a Dr friend and line up a morning after type pill, saying she was cheating on him and got pregnant from a guy at her church.
And she informed my wife that her and my friend were eloping to Hawaii 2 weeks later.
I absolutely called him, met with him with a mutual best friend, and laid out exactly what I had been told. I also explained that I would discuss zero of the situation again, and if he so chose, would be as supportive of his marriage as I could be.
He made the choice to stay, believed her cover lies, and they are still married 20 yrs later.
BUT, there was NO WAY I wasn't going to tell him what I knew as true.
Be a man, and give him the info and let him work thru it in his own way.
My wife back then, was a bartender and frequently went in to that club when they called needing a Bartender to step in.
She became friends with " Bambie"
Fast forward a year and she's goes to my home crying, begging my wife to call a Dr friend and line up a morning after type pill, saying she was cheating on him and got pregnant from a guy at her church.
And she informed my wife that her and my friend were eloping to Hawaii 2 weeks later.
I absolutely called him, met with him with a mutual best friend, and laid out exactly what I had been told. I also explained that I would discuss zero of the situation again, and if he so chose, would be as supportive of his marriage as I could be.
He made the choice to stay, believed her cover lies, and they are still married 20 yrs later.
BUT, there was NO WAY I wasn't going to tell him what I knew as true.
Be a man, and give him the info and let him work thru it in his own way.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:06 pm to ChatGPT of LA
Chat has your answer.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:09 pm to RaoulDuke504
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I agree she definitely helped him in that regards and push him to get a better job. However she just doesn’t want to work even quit her job and has a crazy high rent she makes him pay after convincing him to move in.
maybe he doesnt want her to work because when he gets home she is ready to throw that arse on him. who knows, but thats his business imo.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:12 pm to Topwater Trout
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I had a buddy that was dating a girl that was TD famous on here for being a whore (Prop Stop) and I am sure he saw the thread with her in it
I missed this. We need a link man.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:15 pm to RaoulDuke504
I would 100% tell any of my close guy friends. There are only 1 or 2 female friends I would tell bc they would be able to hear me out without ending our friendship.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:19 pm to RaoulDuke504
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Would you tell your friend if his significant other is going to destroy him?
I didn't read the details of your thread because I didn't need to based on the subject title. Word of advice, stay out of other married people affairs unless he reaches out to you directly. Even then I would proceed with caution and only be there as an ear to listen as a friend.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:20 pm to RaoulDuke504
He will still marry her and you will lose a friend. And even if you are later proven right, he still won't forgive you.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:22 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
If you personally heard the conversation - I’d go to him.
But you also said secrets him terribly otherwise… so if you didn’t hear the conversation, the next time she degrades him i would say a “why do you put up with that nonsense?” would be fair game and just see how he reacts. From there either let it lay as his decision or if he opens the door you can try to help him walk out of it.
But you also said secrets him terribly otherwise… so if you didn’t hear the conversation, the next time she degrades him i would say a “why do you put up with that nonsense?” would be fair game and just see how he reacts. From there either let it lay as his decision or if he opens the door you can try to help him walk out of it.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:24 pm to Bjorn Cyborg
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He will still marry her and you will lose a friend. And even if you are later proven right, he still won't forgive you.
Not necessarily. OP could just tell his buddy what he heard, offer no opinion on the matter and leave it at that. Let buddy do what he’s going to do and continue to be a friend.
This post was edited on 1/29/25 at 12:26 pm
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:27 pm to RaoulDuke504
Do it but understand he is going to be upset w/ you and your relationship w/ probably end he will still marry her an a they will get divorced and he will apologize in about 7 years once the divorce is done.
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:27 pm to RaoulDuke504
You should have butted in and said to her, "Well, he'd prefer a chick with bigger tits and a tighter pussy but here we are."
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:33 pm to Topwater Trout
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sometimes it's just best to let them find out on their own.
Wut lol
Posted on 1/29/25 at 12:46 pm to RaoulDuke504
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Would you tell your friend if his significant other is going to destroy him?
Why would you even have to ask this question?
Of course you have to tell him what you heard.
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