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re: Would you date a girl with a “softball build”?

Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:45 am to
Posted by Boudreaux35
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Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:45 am to
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Would you date a girl with a “softball build”?


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one that you can tell would look like Livvy Dunne in the face if she lost 30-40 pounds?


You trying to find a justification to date a fatty?

Dating a softball player night increase your odds on a 3some, but that 3some might be 60-80 pounds more than you like in your case.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
15561 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:47 am to
Just wondering if anyone has ever told a girl they’d date them but they need to go on a diet for it to work out

And how’d that conversation go
Posted by eljefe85
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Member since Oct 2022
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Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:47 am to
Yes, yes, and yes.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
15561 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:49 am to
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just got to get them interested in the gym and eating like you do. Those girls are usually 50/50 after the playing days are over. they either blow the frick up or they get really into lifting and aesthetics...just have to make sure you get here into the latter.

Definitely agree with this. It feels like a slippery slope as people age
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
9211 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 8:50 am to
Based off how many "I've done worse" comments from people here when some tatted up fatass pic pops up, I'd say this crowd would frick anything slightly better than Golock the Destroyer.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:03 am to
My brother married someone who was built like a linebacker but she played softball

Is that the same thing?
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:07 am to
I’ve dated two girls who I helped lose weight. Both were absolutely stunning and received so much attention after.
Posted by Locoguan0
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2017
4316 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:08 am to
Nothing wrong with Christina "Wild Thing" Hamilton.


Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
11214 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:14 am to
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just got to get them interested in the gym and eating like you do. Those girls are usually 50/50 after the playing days are over. they either blow the frick up or they get really into lifting and aesthetics...j

When you factor in having kids I promise the ratio isn’t 50/50, it’s more like 85/15 fat to fit.

Americans who don’t value fitness before kids and marriage statistically just don’t end up skinny post children unless they find themselves divorced and feel the need to get fit again to attract a new SO.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:18 am to
If her mom is cute and she is heading to med school....hell yeah.
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36427 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:18 am to
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Just wondering if anyone has ever told a girl they’d date them but they need to go on a diet for it to work out

And how’d that conversation go


It’s not a hard conversation to have if she is into you. They definitely won’t want to hear it but will eventually thank you for it as you were the man that helped them lose the weight and become who they wanted to be.

I did this with my ex. They may not want to hear it, but they need to live in reality at some point. Their family and friends enabling them to be overweight and their own constant coping is unhealthy both physically and mentally. Every girl wants to be thin/attractive. You just have to sell it to them, but they also have to truly want that. This girl was always chubby/fat because she had lazy parents. Told her that was not her fault growing up, but now you are an adult and it’s 100% on you to take ownership of your body and health. Stop coping.

I also warned her that her friends and family would probably dislike her once she lost weight and became very attractive. And that’s exactly what happened. At least she is hot now.
This post was edited on 3/1/24 at 9:25 am
Posted by BIGJLAW
Member since Mar 2013
8435 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:24 am to
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I did this with my ex.

Yeah, LOL.
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36427 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:25 am to
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Yeah, LOL.


Whats so funny? I broke up with her because I wanted to chase tail.
Posted by SmelvinRat
Slumwoody
Member since Oct 2015
1397 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:32 am to
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it would only take 3 months of strict dieting but how would you talk her into it?




Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11311 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:34 am to
Wouldn’t they naturally pitch for the other team? Better up your lingual game.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31310 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:38 am to
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When you factor in having kids I promise the ratio isn’t 50/50, it’s more like 85/15 fat to fit.

Americans who don’t value fitness before kids and marriage statistically just don’t end up skinny post children unless they find themselves divorced and feel the need to get fit again to attract a new SO.


na, not with former athletes who are keeping the weight on for performance reasons. i mean some can just be fat and not keeping the weight for performance..those girls usually blow up
Posted by trident
Member since Jul 2007
4754 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:40 am to
Bro, we talking 1st baseman/cacther at D1 school or shortstop/2nd baseman

2 completely different people

first base


SS
Posted by sqerty
AP
Member since May 2022
5035 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:40 am to
I would for the crazy good old fashion handies.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31310 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:43 am to
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Just wondering if anyone has ever told a girl they’d date them but they need to go on a diet for it to work out

And how’d that conversation go


used to be fwb with a girl before i met my wife and it was kind of that situation. she knew i wouldnt date her unless she lost the weight...i started dating other girls and we stopped the fwb and i met my wife. saw her about 2 years later and she had lost all the weight and was really pretty.


so to answer your question...convo didnt go very well. she cried alot
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
8317 posts
Posted on 3/1/24 at 9:54 am to
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if she lost 30-40 pounds?

the only thing bigger than softball girls are former softball girls.
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