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re: Wife's "guy" friend from college
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:39 pm to FlowMaster
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:39 pm to FlowMaster
quote:
I should just accept tgat she gappens
Your wife gappens nicely.
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:40 pm to Scoop
All true as frick
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:42 pm to Hammertime
Is that ex-gf who got plowed like a corn field the one you bought the nice computer for?
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:44 pm to FlowMaster
Sorry for your loss.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:47 pm to soccerfüt
This smells like a troll job but women are total hypocrites when it comes to this stuff. Better to call her out on her on her BS and come across looking a little insecure (and if so, so what?) than constantly be wondering "what if?"
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:52 pm to FlowMaster
not enough info. I prob wouldnt care but it depends on your gut feeling.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 5:57 pm to LNCHBOX
quote:
She will realize it at some point
No she won't.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:01 pm to FlowMaster
quote:
Turn the tables with a female "friend" of your own.
Yes. Use some dread game on your wife.
quote:
"You either stop talking to this guy or we're done. Period."
You have to be very level headed when dealing with women so this wouldn't help OP.
Inviting him over isn't a bad idea. IMO, it's a great plan.
This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 6:03 pm
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:11 pm to FlowMaster
Best troll I've seen in a while. 
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:15 pm to FlowMaster
quote:
She says it's innocent, I'm insecure and I should just accept tgat she gappens to have a friend who is a guy.
It could have been innocent up until here. She's projecting and defensive. He's munching on the roast beef. Sorry bro.
Seriously.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:16 pm to FlowMaster
quote:
FlowMaster
Time to find an attorney. if she hasn't cheated with him, she'll be cheating w/ someone else soon
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:25 pm to The Pirate King
Yep ole wife of the OP is using the double standards female free pass. Now if husband or bf tries this with a female. He is skum and everyone of her friends knows about it. FACT
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:29 pm to Old Money
quote:
nviting him over isn't a bad idea. IMO, it's a great plan
Absolutely the best course of action. Multiple times. He could really flesh out the situation. Body language, etc
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:36 pm to bgtiger
I'll be honest it doesn't sound good but let me play devils advocate.
She told you about the relationship already without you promoting it correct? And she didn't delete the messages so she probably didn't think too much of it. If she was truly cheating in you already, her guilt would have shown her cards and she would have deleted it. She would be more discrete. Unless she is looking for a reason to get rid of you in which case you're screwed either way.
She told you about the relationship already without you promoting it correct? And she didn't delete the messages so she probably didn't think too much of it. If she was truly cheating in you already, her guilt would have shown her cards and she would have deleted it. She would be more discrete. Unless she is looking for a reason to get rid of you in which case you're screwed either way.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:50 pm to TulaneUVA
She cares more about the other guy's feeling than the OP's. That's the kicker IMO. In a healthy marriage, if a spouse is being hurt by the other, they should want to stop that activity.....but I digress.
There's nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends when married, but the fact she restarted this friendship means she's not being fulfilled at home
There's nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends when married, but the fact she restarted this friendship means she's not being fulfilled at home
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:51 pm to FlowMaster
It's too late.
She already knows you have no testicles.
She already knows you have no testicles.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:51 pm to The Pirate King
quote:
She cares more about the other guy's feeling than the OP's. That's the kicker IMO. In a healthy marriage, if a spouse is being hurt by the other, they should want to stop that activity.....but I digress.
Boom. This guy gets it.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:53 pm to FlowMaster
Stand your ground. If he is real, he will respect you. I have friends I was friends with since college, when they marry it changes. I've found as long as you respect the husband, fewer problems. That means no secrets, not too much communication, and assume he sees every email or text. Marriage changes everything
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:54 pm to LSU Tiger Bob
Doesn't matter if it's a troll. Most guys on here have had to deal with nonsense like this. The female's tendency to justify shady behavior based on some contrived deficiency of the male is amazing -- especially when a couple has been together a long time. Anyway, I agree with most of the advice here -- I would rather be insecure with balls than a doormat.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:54 pm to FlowMaster
You sound like a huge pussy
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