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re: Wife has decided to close up shop

Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:49 am to
Posted by Jack Bauer7
Member since Jun 2012
5174 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:49 am to
Find a side piece.
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21220 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:53 am to
PIIHB
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
10284 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 11:53 am to
If she loves you, then she’ll know that your satisfaction is part of the marriage. A wife that loves her husband won’t look at it as a chore.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21240 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 11:59 am to
How about her mom or her sister?
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6378 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:01 pm to
Sounds like she has the hots for Uncle Si.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22342 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:05 pm to
And here I thought this thread would have been about the OP deciding to move out of Baton Rouge and the wife gave the ok before clicking on it
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
62079 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:11 pm to

1 Corinthians 7:5

Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
21647 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:24 pm to
How’s her head game? Might be a win win
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
7848 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:24 pm to
Does she drive a Jeep ?
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
6582 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:34 pm to
You're going to get some downvotes because "muhh bible" but this really is spot on. Differing sex drives doesn't mean a marriage has to dissolve, but it must be worked at to find an agreeable compromise. To just close down the store on your spouse is frankly cruel.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
6337 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:37 pm to
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If your wife consents to you making other arrangements, then it's not cheating.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
69081 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:37 pm to
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She has told me that she just doesn't feel like she wants sex any more.


Get her some vodka and cocaine and I bet she changes her tune.
Posted by Dawgholio
Bugtussle
Member since Oct 2015
13047 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:40 pm to
She should expect you to make other arrangements for sex if she doesn’t want to. Fair is fair.
Posted by Cards Suck
Member since Oct 2021
48 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:47 pm to
This doesn't always work. My wife went to one of these bio-identical hormone docs about 5 years ago, slightly overweight but with a decent libido. Now she is pretty close to "ideal" weight, but is ultra-bitchy and has no interest in sex.

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She should consult with a doctor who specializes in bio-identical hormone replacement therapy. In most cases your family doctor will NOT be this person. Also don't be dissuaded by the common mantra of "it's normal". No, it's COMMON, which not the same thing.

A good corrective regimen of bHRT will not only help her libido but will minimize her other menopause to post-menopause symptoms.
Posted by massilsu
Oz
Member since Sep 2020
1947 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:50 pm to
i would try to refind your romantic side . do the little things that you both did when you first started dating . send her flowers . bring her candy. even grab her a starbucks skinny vanilla latte and surprise her at work . she may just need to be romanced again . then that flame will flickr again .Good luck God Bless ( The New and Improved MassiLSU)
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27780 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 12:58 pm to
f your wife consents to you making other arrangements, then it's not cheating.

This. Or as was mentioned. Go to the hand.

There is something else wrong with the wife IMO. Maybe she needs the hormones checked.

She can’t possibly expect a 50 year old man to never frick again.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150312 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 1:00 pm to
quote:

you came
not any longer
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
6582 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 1:01 pm to
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She should expect you to make other arrangements for sex if she doesn’t want to. Fair is fair.



I just can't get down with " just frick other people" logic. It opens up so many possibilities for massive headaches and problems down the road. What about your frick buddy? What if they get knocked up? Now you have that dynamic to deal with. What if she's crazy and goes full on insane? It just seems like a massive risk to me and honestly, if my wife and I are having the discussion of "let's just frick other people" the marriage is in dire position already. Either work out a solution with your husband or wife or split from the marriage. Introducing additional variables to the equation almost never makes the equation simpler.
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2407 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 1:01 pm to
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if that's your life it's a very sad situation for you


young kids, full time jobs shite definitely has slowed down. It is what it is.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10732 posts
Posted on 11/15/21 at 1:02 pm to
As a woman, I have the opposite problem. I can’t get enough.
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