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Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:56 am to REB BEER
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Are Asian massage parlors considered cheating?
They are not and Madam Wong enjoys taking care of you.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 9:59 am to Badman
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PS, I would never cheat on her.
Good for you, because marriage is a contract with God. I probably get some downvotes, but it is what we sign up for. Even if she gave you a pass, it would not be the right choice.
My wife has had her hormonal moments and she saw the doctor and had some levels checked. Hormones go pretty crazy in women and men, which lead to some crazy decisions. They can probably get those levels balanced, however it might not get better until gets to the other side of menopause transition
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/menopause/symptoms-causes/syc-20353397
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Sexual function. Vaginal dryness from decreased moisture production and loss of elasticity can cause discomfort and slight bleeding during sexual intercourse. Also, decreased sensation may reduce your desire for sexual activity (libido).
You could do a trial run for the OT with PT-141
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/life/a29628075/suzanne-somers-sex-shots/
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According to Suzanne, 73, she has sex twice a day with her husband Alan Hamel, 83, thanks to weekly shots of PT-141, a peptide that supposedly stimulates sexual arousal and helps with low libido and sex drive. (Um, yeah, definitely talk to your doctor before trying this one...)
Suzanne went into detail about how the shots make her feel. “I’m kind of in that groove, like when you were younger and you’re in the mood all the time, and so is he because he’s on hormone replacements,” she said.
Water-based vaginal moisturizers and lubricants may help. If a vaginal lubricant isn't enough, many women benefit from the use of local vaginal estrogen treatment, available as a vaginal cream, tablet or ring.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:08 am to CAD703X
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so i disagree that all women are vain bitches. i'm one of the very VERY lucky guys out there
Same here and I agree that I am “lucky” as well. That luck though usually takes some work. I know people say this all of the time but it is 1000% true. Communication is key. If either part of a relationship isn’t willing to be OPEN and HONEST then there is typically an underlying issue that needs to be addressed first.
Also, when the time does happen, put some effort out there. Your SO should feel/know you are enjoying the shite out of yourself. If you have sex in the same position every time or get turned down because timing may be bad for whatever reason then it may be time to switch things up. Keep it fun. Keep it interesting.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:09 am to Badman
I think she wants to be alone. She sounds like she wants to be alone. Leave her alone.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:10 am to stonedbegonias
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I think she wants to be alone. She sounds like she wants to be alone. Leave her alone.
ironically, if he did leave her she'd probably turn into a nymph, seent it before
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:14 am to Badman
She needs to talk to her gyno.
My wife's gyno is great as he knows sex is very important for a woman.
My wife was put on birth control and it decreased her drive significantly. She spoke to him about it and he made changes. Her drive went back to normal
My wife's gyno is great as he knows sex is very important for a woman.
My wife was put on birth control and it decreased her drive significantly. She spoke to him about it and he made changes. Her drive went back to normal
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:18 am to Badman
You go find someone else to have sex with.
Other than that, y’all are just roommates
Other than that, y’all are just roommates
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:23 am to Badman
Man, I'm 59, as is my wife, and we're still going strong. But I would be in the same boat as you if she hadn't started taking some hormones and stuff.
I was really worried when I was in my early 50's that yours would be my fate, and I'm thankful that it's worked out.
My suggestion would be to talk with her about how important it is to you and see if she could try to get the hormones fixed. If the answer ends up as "No", then it's a personal choice. I thought about it quite a bit, and I would have told my wife that I'm going to continue the journey with others. And I would not have considered it cheating.
I'm sorry you (and she) are going through this.
I was really worried when I was in my early 50's that yours would be my fate, and I'm thankful that it's worked out.
My suggestion would be to talk with her about how important it is to you and see if she could try to get the hormones fixed. If the answer ends up as "No", then it's a personal choice. I thought about it quite a bit, and I would have told my wife that I'm going to continue the journey with others. And I would not have considered it cheating.
I'm sorry you (and she) are going through this.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:24 am to Badman
It could be worse, my wife decided to open up shop.
To anyone that would buy her a drink or pay her any attention.
I put my foot in her arse but went through hell getting divorced.
I'd rather have one that didn't give it to anyone including me than everyone including me
To anyone that would buy her a drink or pay her any attention.
I put my foot in her arse but went through hell getting divorced.
I'd rather have one that didn't give it to anyone including me than everyone including me
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:25 am to UpToPar
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There’s something going on medically or she’s lying to you. Don’t let her convince you that this is “normal.”
Kids! It is certainly normal. It's called menopause.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:26 am to Badman
Will she have a “going out of business sale”?
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:35 am to Badman
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This post was edited on 12/17/21 at 7:56 pm
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:37 am to The Torch
quote:sorry to hear about it baw.
I put my foot in her arse but went through hell getting divorced.
been there done that
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:37 am to Badman
I’d just remind her that she doesn’t own the only pussy in the world
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:40 am to CAD703X
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i don't schedule nearly enough dates.
Guilty. Our kids are still young (and still having them), so we are on the go constantly and it takes a some effort on our part to kid someone to watch all 3 kids. We try but not nearly enough and need to try more. Luckily our marriage hasn't suffered from it.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:43 am to Badman
It's called menopause and she would probably benefit from some hormone replacement therapy.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:44 am to Penrod
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It is certainly normal. It's called menopause.
Eh. Normal would be having the conversation that due to menopause the desire may not be the same or that y’all may need to accommodate at times.
It’s not normal to say you’re shutting shite down permanently. May still be menopause but that doesn’t mean her response is normal. Especially without some kind of intervention to improve the situation.
This post was edited on 11/15/21 at 10:45 am
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:44 am to SuperSaint
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This post has been marked as unreadable!
I bet this was a good post.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 10:45 am to TheRouxGuru
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Women are some of the most closeted-selfish creatures that walk this planet
Hey guys! We found the InCel
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