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re: Why do married couples swing?

Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:01 pm to
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102345 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:01 pm to
Oh sure it is, just as much as deciding to sit down to take a piss instead of standing, same thing they call swinging which is disguised as good old fashioned cheating on your spouse.
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:02 pm to
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It's the same as couples going out and trying new restaurants


Yeah. No, not like that at all. A restaurant isn’t humping your wife while you bang some other girl.

And my wife isn’t going to get insanely jealous of my trout almandine just because she’s having steak tartar.

Posted by Arkapigdiesel
Faulkner County
Member since Jun 2009
15765 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:05 pm to
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Well... at the end of the day, we aren't meant to be monogamous

As Rodney Carrington said....I'm tired of eating the same red M&M, I want a green one. Marriage is such a farce.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85471 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:09 pm to
You’re wondering why people want to have sex with different people? Monogamy is the real curiosity.
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
57778 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:12 pm to
Pics of the wife might clear some of this up.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:13 pm to
I recently discovered a swinging community in a local subdivision.. Its crazy stuff but to each their own.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53808 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:14 pm to
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As Rodney Carrington said....I'm tired of eating the same red M&M, I want a green one. Marriage is such a farce.

I was watching a documentary about Yellowstone the other day. The biggest moose takes a harem of 20-30 females, fights off other males and impregnates all of them.

On the one hand that sounds fun, but realistically I would have probably opened a vein years ago after having to put up with all of them for even a short period of time.
Posted by TIGER2
Mandeville.La
Member since Jan 2006
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Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:15 pm to
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
60984 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:15 pm to
I know several, they enjoy the thrill of it. Having threesomes and orgies works for them.
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
22438 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:18 pm to
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Why do couples swing?
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
69635 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:18 pm to
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It's the same as couples going out and trying new restaurants or traveling to new places together.


No, not really....
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
61775 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:22 pm to
Is there a swingers board, now?
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
29107 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:22 pm to
They swing because they are in the early stages of divorce.
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6432 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:28 pm to
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It really doesn’t make sense


It does make sense when you understand how we evolved. Human beings are polygamous by nature. If we weren’t, we would have been extinct a long time ago. In order to populate the Earth, men had to take many mates. Society and rules aren’t going to come along millions of years later and change men’s nature.

Monogamy didn’t come along until the agricultural era to establish property and paternity rights.

And the whole notion of marrying for romantic love and happily ever after? 20th Century phenomenon perpetuated by an egalitarian society and Hollywood in which one person is supposed to provide everything physically, emotionally and financially for a lifetime. Perhaps when life expectancy was into the 30s, now we’re living into our 80s. It’s unrealistic.

And we wonder why divorces rates are what they are, and 20 million other marriages are classified as ‘sexless’.

Google the Coolidge Effect for more info on the subject.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:31 pm to
I guess if I ever got to the point where i didnt gaf about my wife anymore and didnt wanna split the family up.. Other than that, hell no. Ive never seen these stories end well.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:47 pm to
Female meese be bitches
Posted by JOHNN
Prairieville
Member since Nov 2008
4513 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:48 pm to
Because there are some couples out there who are both secure with themselves and trust their spouse enough to know that there can be “just sex” with others without any emotional involvement. I think we can all agree that when you know “its just sex” you can have no emotions involved.
Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
18131 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:50 pm to
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A smart swinger has the wife only do other women but he can join in


This
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 4:57 pm to
because sex isnt love and love isnt sex

some people learn this fact early in life and are ok sharing outside lovers because ITS JUST SEX

it can also make the couple have better sex with each other after seeing what its like having sex with others
Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
18131 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 5:02 pm to
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because sex isnt love and love isnt sex


The puritans on here disagree. I agree 100%. Some people just aren't jealous and if the situation is something everyone is ok with, what's the issue?
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