re: Why do married couples swing?

This thread has more catfighting between women than I’ve seen in any other OT thread.

Also, I didn’t know that so many women do NOT believe in monogamy.

Wait, what?

Men hit on my wife all the damn time, why the frick...I don’t get it. You think you’re going to like her more seeing some dude throat frick her. Goddamn.

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Judge all you want, but we're sharing in a fetish while most couple can't even share their true feelings.

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Assuming it works for you, I don't judge. My wife and I have talked about it extensively but she thinks its a terrible idea so we aren't going to do it.

Part of me agrees with her, we have seen a bunch of marriages and relationships fail due to agreements like swinging, or other variations of it. What generally happens is that something happens to move the needle between two people not in their primary relationship. (subtle brag) and we already have this as a bit of a problem in our relationship, where maybe a few of her friends are a bit too into me.

so your going to tag team your wife with another dude?

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so your going to tag team your wife with another dude?

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She expressed that she only wants touching on the first time.

Possible that this idea never materialized into anything, but my wife has been an absolute badger in the bed since we started discussing it. Most women love the idea of being comfortable enough with their spouse to exchange fantasies. We'll continue to talk about it for that reason alone.

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She expressed that she only wants touching on the first time. Possible that this idea never materialized into anything, but my wife has been an absolute badger in the bed since we started discussing it. Most women love the idea of being comfortable enough with their spouse to exchange fantasies. We'll continue to talk about it for that reason alone.

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I have a question:


How did the subject of swinging happen?

so is she telling you she wants a bigger D, etc?

just cant possibly seeing this end well doing the whole hotwifing lifestyle but it works for some

For clarification, we have no intention of visiting any swinger clubs and massive orgy parties. Neither seem intimate and are for people we feel are in the lifestyle for different reasons than us.

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How did the subject of swinging happen?

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We were hanging out at different bars in Nashville one night, when she pulled me into a darker corner to have sex. The next night, we were having more drinks, talking about deeper seeded fantasies, and she made a comment how she was hoping that someone would have seen us the night before. Conversation kept evolving and before we knew it, we both expressed interest into possibly introducing a 3rd. Obviously a lot more to that conversation than I can type out here.

It was more of a hotel lounge we fricked in that offered some darker, more secluded areas.

I had her casually list some qualities in guys she would be interested in, from age, body build, and yes... dick size. FWIW, two months worth of passive searching and only one or two guys we've come across have deserved even a second thought, and we passed on both of those.

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Possible that this idea never materialized into anything, but my wife has been an absolute badger in the bed since we started discussing it. Most women love the idea of being comfortable enough with their spouse to exchange fantasies. We'll continue to talk about it for that reason alone.

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They have 3 holes for a reason and it ain't for fartin and talkin during sex with one dude.