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RogerTheShrubber
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Juneau, AK
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re: Why do married couples swing?
She thought she would like it but she really didn't. I never pushed it, the whole swinging hint was kinda her idea but that's also pretty much the circumstances that brought us together.


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ladyluckUGA
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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, I am a woman and compartmentalize everything


Is this your way of saying you’re the exception to the rule? Congrats. However it’s not how we’re wired. Perhaps you’re confusing compartmentalization with multitasking. It’s different.

The stats are on my side. Women initiate divorce based on infedelity way more often then men do.


Cheese Grits
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re: Why do married couples swing?
Because if you grew up in a small town the swing was where the action started



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liz18lsu
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Naples, FL
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Is this your way of saying you’re the exception to the rule? Congrats. However it’s not how we’re wired. Perhaps you’re confusing compartmentalization with multitasking. It’s different. The stats are on my side. Women initiate divorce based on infedelity way more often then men do.


Not quite sure what you are trying to convey here. How "we" are wired? Women, humans? There is not one schematic for any "group's" brain. We are all wired differently. Compartmentalization and multi-tasking are vastly different things. And you can't get divorced if you never get married.


JOHNN
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Covington
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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You believe most females want some girl on girl action?


A wise woman told me many many years ago, "Honey, despite what they may tell you, every woman in this world is one drink away from her first girl on girl experience. You just have to figure out the magic number of drinks to get her there"


RogerTheShrubber
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Juneau, AK
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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You just have to figure out the magic number of drinks to get her there"


Never was a big deal with me. We did threesomes and moresomes but I wasn't interested in watching


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fallguy_1978
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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A wise woman told me many many years ago, "Honey, despite what they may tell you, every woman in this world is one drink away from her first girl on girl experience. You just have to figure out the magic number of drinks to get her there" 

Yep. My experience was quite the surprise when it happened


liz18lsu
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Ponchy Tiger
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re: Why do married couples swing?
so how many drinks for you?


Rouge
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re: Why do married couples swing?
Double BJ and fmf Eiffel tower ftw


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northshorebamaman
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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They swing because they are in the early stages of divorce.
Maybe. But plenty of couples that don't swing are also in various stages of divorce. We experimented with it in the first few years of our marriage and quit a few years later. Well, not so much 'quit' as just kind of fell out of it after the newness wore off. We're still going strong almost 20 years later.


RogerTheShrubber
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Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Well, not so much 'quit' as just kind of fell out of it after the newness wore off


Same here. Once I had done a lot of the things I wanted to do, I got bored with it and the people involved.


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liz18lsu
LSU Fan
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
11565 posts

re: Why do married couples swing?
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so how many drinks for you?


Not enough to fully swing


ladyluckUGA
Georgia Fan
Member since Feb 2014
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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We are all wired differently


Uh, yeah, I made that point already

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Compartmentalization and multi-tasking are vastly different thing


Yes, I already made that point as well. Try to keep up, sweetie

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And you can't get divorced if you never get married.


Did you not read the OP? Married people swinging didn’t make sense to him but from an evolutionary standpoint it could make sense due to our evolutionary gender strategies.






northshorebamaman
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Unicorns are mythical for a reason.

Unicorn is a swinger term. I think you know more than you're letting on.


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liz18lsu
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Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
11565 posts

re: Why do married couples swing?
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sweetie


Wow, that is so bitchy. You should reduce the level of c-tiness in your response. And your retort was fluff. But good job on
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gender strategies
. That sounded almost intelligent.


Ponchy Tiger
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Ponchatoula
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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fully
. The key word here.


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BellaTigre18
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
14620 posts

re: Why do married couples swing?
This does not apply to all women.


RogerTheShrubber
LSU Fan
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
162902 posts

re: Why do married couples swing?
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This does not apply to all women.


Most of the women I talked to during my swinging days did things with other women because they felt it was expected. More pressure than desire.


liz18lsu
LSU Fan
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
11565 posts

re: Why do married couples swing?
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Most of the women I talked to during my swinging days did things with other women because they felt it was expected. More pressure than desire.


And some actually enjoy it. To every season...


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