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re: Why do married couples swing?

Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:46 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
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Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:46 pm to
True, which is why I said most.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
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Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:47 pm to
Literally different strokes...
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35495 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:47 pm to
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More pressure than desire.
Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48560 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:49 pm to
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Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it

With your wife? I've had 2 threesomes in my life and both were random and alcohol or drug induced.
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:50 pm to
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A smart swinger has the wife only do other women but he can join


Sounds like this is what was going on. Friend is
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35495 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:51 pm to
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With your wife? I've had 2 threesomes in my life and both were random and alcohol or drug induced.

Yeah. We lived in overseas military housing at the time. The swinging runs deep in those places.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260611 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:51 pm to
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quote:
More pressure than desire.
Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it.


Yep.

I also found my desire for regular ole sex was stunted for a long time. Whenever you fulfill desires, what's considered normal changes. I had a really hard time with regular relationships for a while
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48560 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 8:56 pm to
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Yeah. We lived in overseas military housing at the time. The swinging runs deep in those places

Best thing that I'm willing to tell the OT is that one of mine was with a graduate assistant/TA at LSU. Queue the "I wished they had teachers like that when I was in school".

I got an A in the class but I probably deserved a C- as wasted as I was

ETA - can't say I'd be down with that at 41
This post was edited on 2/10/19 at 8:59 pm
Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
19058 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:03 pm to
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Why do married couples swing?


Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating... anytime I’ve ever been approached about it, I just head the other way. I want no part of that mind fricked lifestyle.
Posted by Chasin Tail
Grassy Key
Member since Feb 2019
1081 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:04 pm to
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35495 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:10 pm to
We did a few FFM threesomes but that's harder to pull off. We mostly did 'soft swap'. The craziest thing we ever did was go to a German swinger club. The Germans really know how to get weird.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29532 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:15 pm to
It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG. Once we had kids it vanished like a fart in the wind.

No regrets while it lasted.

Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136811 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:16 pm to
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Literally different strokes...
whatchu talkin' bout, Willis?
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
49352 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:21 pm to
The ones I don't understand are the guys that like watching me plow their wives.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35495 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:21 pm to
quote:

Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating...

What you just described isn't swinging. It's called an open marriage.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37333 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 9:28 pm to
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It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG.


I saw her pics.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5348 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 10:58 pm to
Are you in to both men and women, Liz?
This post was edited on 2/10/19 at 10:59 pm
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9148 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 11:11 pm to
quote:

Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating... anytime I’ve ever been approached about it, I just head the other way. I want no part of that mind fricked lifestyle.


So,it's not for you. No big deal, it isn't for most people. I'm curious about why you appear to have a little anger towards it?
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5348 posts
Posted on 2/10/19 at 11:16 pm to
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It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG. Once we had kids it vanished like a fart in the wind. No regrets while it lasted.


So now her wild phase is over and she’s just a regular wife and mom?
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6368 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 1:08 am to
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Wow, that is so bitchy


quote:

And you’re retort was fluff


The only type of “retort” that’s fluff in this case is when a woman winds up dropping the b word on another because she can’t provide anything meaningful to what could have been a fantastic, thought provoking thread.

Instead, you highjacked it, and made this about YOU.

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