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RogerTheShrubber
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re: Why do married couples swing?
True, which is why I said most.


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BellaTigre18
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re: Why do married couples swing?
Literally different strokes...


northshorebamaman
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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More pressure than desire.
Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it.


fallguy_1978
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it

With your wife? I've had 2 threesomes in my life and both were random and alcohol or drug induced.


SoulGlo
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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A smart swinger has the wife only do other women but he can join


Sounds like this is what was going on. Friend is


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northshorebamaman
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With your wife? I've had 2 threesomes in my life and both were random and alcohol or drug induced.

Yeah. We lived in overseas military housing at the time. The swinging runs deep in those places.


RogerTheShrubber
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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More pressure than desire.
Unfortunately all too common in that scene. One of the reasons we fell out of it.


Yep.

I also found my desire for regular ole sex was stunted for a long time. Whenever you fulfill desires, what's considered normal changes. I had a really hard time with regular relationships for a while


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fallguy_1978
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Yeah. We lived in overseas military housing at the time. The swinging runs deep in those places

Best thing that I'm willing to tell the OT is that one of mine was with a graduate assistant/TA at LSU. Queue the "I wished they had teachers like that when I was in school".

I got an A in the class but I probably deserved a C- as wasted as I was

ETA - can't say I'd be down with that at 41
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Blizzard of Chizz
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Why do married couples swing?


Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating... anytime I’ve ever been approached about it, I just head the other way. I want no part of that mind fricked lifestyle.


Chasin Tail
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northshorebamaman
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re: Why do married couples swing?
We did a few FFM threesomes but that's harder to pull off. We mostly did 'soft swap'. The craziest thing we ever did was go to a German swinger club. The Germans really know how to get weird.


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HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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re: Why do married couples swing?
It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG. Once we had kids it vanished like a fart in the wind.

No regrets while it lasted.



Rouge
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Literally different strokes...
whatchu talkin' bout, Willis?


BuckyCheese
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re: Why do married couples swing?
The ones I don't understand are the guys that like watching me plow their wives.


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northshorebamaman
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating...

What you just described isn't swinging. It's called an open marriage.


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4LSU2
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG.


I saw her pics.


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cbree88
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re: Why do married couples swing?
Are you in to both men and women, Liz?
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Beessnax
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Because in their warped minds they are afraid their SO is going to cheat on them, so for some they engage in swinging as a way of trying to control and prevent it. Ask a swinger about all the “rules” they have set up between them and their SO. The basic deal is I’ll let you frick who you want and you let me frick who I want, but we have to agree to these terms first. That might include anything from who is allowed to contact you and when to accounting for all condom usage. Any unaccounted for condoms or extra condoms not purchased together would be considered evidence of cheating... anytime I’ve ever been approached about it, I just head the other way. I want no part of that mind fricked lifestyle.


So,it's not for you. No big deal, it isn't for most people. I'm curious about why you appear to have a little anger towards it?


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cbree88
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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It was an intenae but quick phase for Mrs HGG. Once we had kids it vanished like a fart in the wind. No regrets while it lasted.


So now her wild phase is over and she’s just a regular wife and mom?


ladyluckUGA
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re: Why do married couples swing?
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Wow, that is so bitchy


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And you’re retort was fluff


The only type of “retort” that’s fluff in this case is when a woman winds up dropping the b word on another because she can’t provide anything meaningful to what could have been a fantastic, thought provoking thread.

Instead, you highjacked it, and made this about YOU.



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