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re: When did society normalize standing people up?

Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:20 am to
Posted by dexy82
Madison, WI
Member since Sep 2004
2206 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:20 am to
Maybe word got back to her that you have an inadequate “Wee Wee”?
Posted by Pierre
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2005
5456 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:22 am to
I mean I would try one more time. Hit and ghost
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46365 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:22 am to
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and how did you respond to that? I assume you told her that her behavior was not acceptable to you and to lose your number?


Her response pissed me off more than getting stood up did. I have not responded yet.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78511 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:24 am to
Either don’t respond or respond with a flippant statement, like “sounds good”, “ok”, or the thumbs up emoji.
This post was edited on 10/12/26 at 9:25 am
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
5871 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:24 am to
People suck today. I hope you blocked and moved on without responding.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46365 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:25 am to
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ETA: Forgot to mention that she sent nudes before not showing. To hell with her then, post em


How do I do that without getting banned?
Posted by SUB
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Member since Jan 2009
26773 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:33 am to
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Nope. She confirmed that she decided over an hour before the date that she was not going and didn’t let me know.


So, the person who stood you up, and didn't text you til the next day should just be taken at her word?

It's absolutely possible that she showed up, saw you, and left. I hope not for your sake, but if the woman is sending you nudes, then didn't show up for your date, either this happened or you are getting catfished.
Posted by RobertFootball
SC
Member since Mar 2021
3128 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:35 am to
Dude the more details you reveal about this girl the more it’s clear what the issue is. Borderline personality disorder. She’s got it in spades. The problem with online dating is it’s a magnet for unstable women. I promise you 9/10 woman on online dating has some sort of mental issue.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46365 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:37 am to
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People suck today. I hope you blocked and moved on without responding.


I haven’t responded yet. I am leaning towards responding with something like you’re not hot enough to pull off such a bitch move. Enjoy being a lonely old cat lady. Then blocking
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
7693 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:38 am to
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Nope. She confirmed that she decided over an hour before the date that she was not going and didn’t let me know.

ETA: Forgot to mention that she sent nudes before not showing.


Ok, you were catfished. A normal girl doesnt send nudes to a stranger on a dating site, and a forever type girl doesnt send them at all, she has respect.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
142858 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:39 am to
Proper society has already crumbled, we just haven't reached civil war status yet. Nothing should surprise you.
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
12213 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:39 am to
You were a placeholder and she found a better option in her mind
Posted by RoyalWe
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2018
5550 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:39 am to
There are nice women out there, they mostly just don’t live in the U.S.
Posted by LSUbacchus
Portland, Oregon
Member since Jul 2012
1874 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:40 am to
That was my first thought. She’s got a wee wee
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78511 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:40 am to
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I am leaning towards responding with something like you’re not hot enough to pull off such a bitch move. Enjoy being a lonely old cat lady. Then blocking
Don’t do that.

Show no emotion. You’ll drive her insane by simply responding with a comment giving the idea that you truly didn’t care.
Posted by hoopde
Member since Sep 2026
216 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:41 am to


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She sent nudes before the date

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This is why she’s 35 and single. Normal people don’t do this
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46365 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:41 am to
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Nope. She confirmed that she decided over an hour before the date that she was not going and didn’t let me know. So, the person who stood you up, and didn't text you til the next day should just be taken at her word? It's absolutely possible that she showed up, saw you, and left. I hope not for your sake, but if the woman is sending you nudes, then didn't show up for your date, either this happened or you are getting catfished.


It’s possible but I was sitting at a table with a good view of the door.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
181018 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:42 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date


Maybe don’t get nudes before dates?
Posted by CapitalTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Sep 2019
796 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:43 am to
Am I getting old and prude that I'm turned off to the idea of dating a woman that would willingly send nudes to someone she hasn't met and doesn't know?
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78511 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:44 am to
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Am I getting old and prude that I'm turned off to the idea of dating a woman that would willingly send nudes to someone she hasn't met and doesn't know?
No.

I would be in the same boat.

Wouldn’t date someone who did that.
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