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re: When did society normalize standing people up?

Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:14 am to
Posted by ChatGPT of LA
Member since Mar 2023
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Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:14 am to
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women decide to ignore the rules of basic human decency?


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She sent nudes before the date


Youre the problem, you jackass

You beg for poor character and slutty actions pre date, but then are confused that the date has low character and reliability?

There were probably 5 of you with those pics, and all offering different choices that night. She chose the better one. So yeah, youre the problem

Dinner? LOL. Shes a road whore spreading photos. Invite her over, at the most. Why put effort?
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:15 am to
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It’s possible but I was sitting at a table with a good view of the door. You think you are being catfished?


I don’t know what that means. All I know is that I had a damn good meal and enjoyed watching football instead of doing the first date charade.
Posted by slidingstop
Member since Jan 2025
2785 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:16 am to
maybe she's coming down with the plague?
Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
58169 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:16 am to
Subtle I picked up a man at the bar instead
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:18 am to
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Lots of men do the same thing with online dating. Set up dates and cancel them if they find someone they prefer. Also agree about the point of cell phones having made it lot more common to cancel everything at the last minute.


The bitch didn’t cancel. She just didn’t show up. Now she is acting like she did not do anything wrong.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:21 am to
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Am I getting old and prude that I'm turned off to the idea of dating a woman that would willingly send nudes to someone she hasn't met and doesn't know?


It’s actually a growing trend among women. Which conversely means that there are less and less women who are actually worth dating and marrying. However on the other hand the one night stand game is easier than ever.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
126194 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:26 am to
You planned to take a girl who sent you nudes before ever meeting to dinner? This was always doomed. That’s a late night drink meeting at best.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:26 am to
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I was already at the restaurant and waiting on her when I received the nudes. So she decided an hour before she wasn’t coming because the vibe was off and didn’t let you know that until the next day, but she also sent you nudes when you were already at the restaurant? There are two options here: 1. You are full of shite (this is the correct option) 2. You arrived to a date multiple hours early


Date was at 8:00. I got to the restaurant around 7:30. Received the nudes around 7:45 ish. By 8:15 I realized that she was not coming and ordered a steak.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:27 am to
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Date was at 8:00. I got to the restaurant around 7:30. Received the nudes around 7:45 ish. By 8:15 I realized that she was not coming and ordered a steak.


You said she told you this morning she decided she wasn’t coming an hour before but now you are saying you heard from her 15 minutes before she was supposed to be there.

Your timeline doesn’t add up
Posted by SUB
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Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:28 am to
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I don’t know what that means.


It means that the person who you've been in contact with is not actually that person. It's either some morbidly obese woman or a dude who gets off on flirting with guys, often scheduling meet ups but never actually meeting up because it would blow up their whole charade. If they still try to continue to talk to you and flirt, then that's a pretty big giveaway. I assume you never face timed this person? How many pics have you seen of her? Maybe try a reverse google image search and see where that takes you.
This post was edited on 10/12/26 at 10:29 am
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
5871 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:28 am to
I just wouldn’t care to be contacted again. Nor is she worthy for me to respond. But whatever works for someone is fine.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:33 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.
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Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
14013 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:33 am to
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It’s actually a growing trend among women.


Its been going on since MMS was enabled on smart phones. Welcome to like 2008.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Arrogant Dickweed
Member since Jun 2004
199369 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:37 am to
I think in general, there's a generation, maybe two generations of people that just don't have good manners, not only in dating.

In business, a lot of people don't have good manners when it comes to professionalism. There are a lot of things that people consider professionalism that just boil down to a good manners

Like notifying someone you're supposed to meet that you're running late or you're not gonna make it.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
42025 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:38 am to
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My question to the board happened to make people but especially women decide to ignore the rules of basic human decency?


She can be a hideous beast and still have 30 guys swooning after her

That’s why it happens

Until men start to enforce standards this will continue to happen
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
63835 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:44 am to
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When did society normalize standing people up?



I don’t know, but it appears to be totally acceptable now.

I used to sell spare tickets to football games at my cost, just so they wouldn’t go unused. Fully half of the people never showed up after they said they wanted the tickets….and these were almost always posters on this board.

Nowadays, if I have spare tickets, if my buds don’t want them I just donate them to the military.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:48 am to
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Date was at 8:00. I got to the restaurant around 7:30. Received the nudes around 7:45 ish. By 8:15 I realized that she was not coming and ordered a steak. You said she told you this morning she decided she wasn’t coming an hour before but now you are saying you heard from her 15 minutes before she was supposed to be there. Your timeline doesn’t add up


That’s why it was so infuriating. It’s not the first time that I have been stood up and it’s probably not the last. However it is the strangest.
Posted by jwalk38
Member since Nov 2021
258 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:49 am to
A woman sent a man she barely knows photographs of her naked body, and you’re surprised by her inconsiderate management of your time?
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
13152 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:51 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.


Wait. Wait.

She sent you nudes before your first date and you expect her to have class?

Come on.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
13152 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:52 am to
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She can be a hideous beast and still have 30 guys swooning after her


Which is what is happening in another thread in the OT. She’s not hideous but she’s no supermodel with all the slobbering going on in it.
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