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re: When did society normalize standing people up?

Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:44 am to
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:44 am to
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There are nice women out there, they mostly just don’t live in the U.S.


I know. I always meet women who have class and basic human decency skills whenever I go to eastern Europe.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
22766 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:47 am to
Major red flag. Just hit and keep moving
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
38221 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:48 am to
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I know. I always meet women who have class and basic human decency skills whenever I go to eastern Europe.


I was on your side but you are beginning to give off Incel vibes
Posted by OU812ME2
Earth
Member since Jun 2021
1437 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:49 am to
Did you at least order some door dash for her and her chillins so they could eat?!? Just because she stood you up, doesn't mean you have to let her kids starve.
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
6989 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:51 am to
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So I had a date planned for last Saturday with a woman. I get to the restaurant and she doesn’t show up. No call or text saying something came up. I ended up having a damn good meal and then went to the bar next door to watch the games. I was talking with some other men at the bar and they had noticed this increasing as well. One of the bartenders told me that not a Saturday goes by that he doesn’t hear a similar story. The girl texted me this morning to explain and she just said “I caught a weird vibe while getting ready and decided not to show.” No apology or even an acknowledgment of wrongdoing. My question to the board happened to make people but especially women decide to ignore the rules of basic human decency?

ETA: She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.



God I hope I die before my wife. Getting back in the dating pool sounds absolutely miserable.
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
99960 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:51 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.



Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
37117 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:54 am to
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People suck today. I hope you blocked and moved on without responding.


What’s the point of blocking someone? Do you have zero ignore game?

I wouldn’t respond but I’ll save the #. Plenty of women come back around. If she does, bang her out and then ghost her
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
35342 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:54 am to
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Her anxiety was so bad that she would spend all day baking or preparing stuff for church the next day only to throw it away because she got nervous that people at church would not like it.


Sounds like a self esteem issue...

Throw a couple of drinks in her, and things could change.
Posted by Bamadog75
Alabama
Member since Mar 2017
1798 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:56 am to
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She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.


If she sent nudes , more than likely you did too.
Going by your name , she probably wasn't satisfied with the product you were putting on the table . She laughed so hard she pulled a muscle and was in the ER all night .

Just kidding she probably was bat shite crazy and your lucky.
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
37117 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:56 am to
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Wouldn’t date someone who did that.


There’s dating and then there’s “dating”.

I’d certainly “date” this one for a minute if she’s throwing out nudes before meeting. You just know she isn’t anything beyond orgasms.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:01 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date Maybe don’t get nudes before dates?


I was already at the restaurant and waiting on her when I received the nudes.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61994 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:01 am to
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Every average looking woman has had their egos inflated so much
some of them actually think they look like the chick in their selfie with all the filters applied.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
14013 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:01 am to
Women on dating apps are talking to like 25 men at once. They are sleeping with half of them. Most also just want attention and adulation even if its over text. Moral of the story is to get off dating apps and go out and meet women in person. I'm sure the bar you were at had plenty of women in there. Talk to them. What percentage of women on dating apps even look like the pictures they post? Is it even 20%?
Posted by sgallo3
Lake Charles
Member since Sep 2008
28796 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:04 am to
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The reason she stood you up is because her booty call showed up and had sex with her while you ate your dinner alone.

it's this
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
38221 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:04 am to
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I was already at the restaurant and waiting on her when I received the nudes.


So she decided an hour before she wasn’t coming because the vibe was off and didn’t let you know that until the next day, but she also sent you nudes when you were already at the restaurant?

There are two options here:
1. You are full of shite (this is the correct option)
2. You arrived to a date multiple hours early
Posted by SUB
Silver Tier TD Premium
Member since Jan 2009
26773 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:07 am to
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It’s possible but I was sitting at a table with a good view of the door.


You think you are being catfished?
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35666 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:09 am to
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She sent nudes before the date but didn’t show up.


I think I’d be more concerned about this as a societal norm than the standing up.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
70844 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:11 am to
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ETA: She sent nudes before the date.

Some friendly advice from personal experience, this was doomed from from the moment this happened. I won't get into the psychology of it all, but if you're actually looking for something serious, don't engage in this before you meet.

Women usually have men in two buckets in online dating, those they just want to fool around with and those they would date. Once you breach that territory, you're in the fool around bucket, and no offense, but there's probably better-looking guys reaching out to her for that.
This post was edited on 10/12/26 at 10:14 am
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
46366 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:12 am to
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Her anxiety was so bad that she would spend all day baking or preparing stuff for church the next day only to throw it away because she got nervous that people at church would not like it. Sounds like a self esteem issue... Throw a couple of drinks in her, and things could change.


Oh she was hot AF but nuttier than a shithouse rat. She didn’t drink or take medication. She believed Jesus would take care of her issues. Luckily she left on a year long mission trip to Madagascar so that relationship ended without conflict except for my nurse being pissed at me for not waiting on her.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
39515 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 10:13 am to
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what she really meant was she went out with another guy and it didnt go well so now she is back to you for dinner at a later date.



This. She had another option that was better and now you can fill some free time she has. Move on. She doesn't respect you. I would tell her that you will not be doing anything unless you have sex first
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