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re: What's Up With Kid's Birthday Parties These Days?

Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:10 pm to
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:10 pm to
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Because they hosted th


This. When I had parties as a kid, I invited my friends. They got dropped off by their parents and my parents and maybe a relative or two were around to supervise, do the cake/food etc.

It's not just b/c it was a trampoline place either. I was talking to some of the parents and apparently this is common whether or a party at your house or venue.
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:12 pm to
I’m never having kids. Like ever. Too much BS that comes along with them.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:12 pm to
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a very subtle flaw in the storyline


I never asked, but I'm gonna use my brilliant powers of deduction and assume from my nephew.
Posted by 19
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Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:13 pm to
If the party is at a kid's house, then sticking around should be optional (ok, with cut-off age being 8 or so)

Now, if they're shooting skeet and shite at an empty pasture, I will hang out.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:13 pm to
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I’m never having kids. Like ever. Too much BS that comes along with them

Also lack of opportunities, right?
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:13 pm to
You want one set of parents watching over 30 kids in a public place? I'll bet you would want to throw them under the jail if one of those kids got snatched up.
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:14 pm to
Lack of a life in general.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:15 pm to
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6 year old bday parties are when it starts getting bad. That’s when they’re old enough to start inviting their friends from school instead of u inviting your friends who have kids the same age. Then u gotta sit around with a buncha parents that you’ve never met.


Started at 4 for us with pre k.

It's classmates so I know all the parents from school functions, sports, Cub scouts, etc.

I leave them sometimes but always make arrangements with another parent to watch my kid.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:16 pm to
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You want one set of parents watching over 30 kids in a public place? I'll bet you would want to throw them under the jail if one of those kids got snatched up.




No, not 1 set of parents, but parents and whoever they choose to help like relatives, grandparents etc....Geez parents must spend every weekend going to birthday parties these days

And I do get it for little kids, but by 10, I don't think they need constant supervision. I rode by bike all over Metairie with my friends when I was 10 and the world is a safer place nowadays. I'm guessing just another example of helicopter parenting. At what age does the supervision come to an end? My sister's kids luckily are being raised to be independent. My brother's son, on the other hand, is a giant pussy thanks to my sister-in-law
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Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
5162 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:20 pm to
quote:

This

Im pretty sure 10% of my childhood was spent waiting for my mom to come get me from baseball/football/soccer/etc.



shite 10% more like 25. My brother left my arse at the field house for 4 hours one day after practice because he forgot to come pick me up when my parents were out of town. This was before cell phones and was my first week at my new school when we moved. Coach locked everything up and left my arse sitting there
Posted by El Magnifico
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Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:20 pm to
We didn't even have these all out birthday parties when I was growing up. A couple friends/cousins would come to the house and we'd eat cake and ice cream/party. As far as practice goes, sometimes my dad would stay and watch but for the most part I was just dropped off and picked up later.
Posted by Jack Daniel
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Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:22 pm to
The birthday kid parents are paying for your nephew to just and eat, you want them to babysit him too while throwing a party?
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:23 pm to
Sounds like a great place to score some poon.

quote:

This was normal for me 25 years ago

but my parents actually loved me so that might be the difference

So your parents stayed up the coaches arse so you could get extra playing time?
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38241 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:23 pm to
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quote:

Geez parents must spend every weekend going to birthday parties these days


apparently. And practices, and travel ball, and every other kind of miserable, time consuming, life sucking event kids participate in these days.
one more reason not to have kids. Having to helicopter over them 24/7 must be horrible.
Posted by Ash Williams
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Member since May 2009
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:25 pm to
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This was before cell phones


There were several times where I didn’t know where my parents were or practice ended early but I didn’t have change for the pay phone so I would call my mom collect and quickly say “come pick me up” when they asked who the collect call was from.

I just remembered that when reading this thread.

Good times.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16797 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:27 pm to
Only time I recall being parentless for a birthday party was when friends had a small group of friends go to ball games and such. Never when it was just a random party with lots of kids.

I wouldn't want to watch other kids for my kid's birthday parties unless it was a small group that I agreed to watch. I would call you back as well. Not my responsibility to make sure your or your family's kid doesn't crack his skull or get kidnapped at the jump park.
Posted by Triple Bogey
19th Green
Member since May 2017
6857 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:28 pm to
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I’m never having kids. Like ever. Too much BS that comes along with them.



They give you a great alibi/excuse all the time and nobody ever questions it. It's one of the very few benefits.
Posted by Breesus
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:29 pm to
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Coach locked everything up and left my arse sitting there


I think I Today's world he'd fired and jailed for child endangerment and your parents would get a settlement from the school and you brother would be expelled for 0 tolerance rules.
Posted by Impotent Waffle
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2007
10140 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:31 pm to
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Because they hosted the party. Don't want to watch a bunch of kids then don't throw a birthday party.


Or be a responsible parent and watch your own damn kid.
Posted by Crawdaddy
Slidell. The jewel of Louisiana
Member since Sep 2006
19376 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 12:34 pm to
sounds like this kid wasn't really frineds with the birthday kid. Shcool class grouped together kind of invite.

I know all my kids close frineds parents.
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