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re: What's Up With Kid's Birthday Parties These Days?

Posted on 1/18/18 at 2:49 pm to
Posted by MonicaLewinsky
Member since Jan 2018
68 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 2:49 pm to
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Why should other parents have to supervise your kids??


Because they are throwing the party.

As a kid I was dropped off at parties. And my friends dropped off at mine. I'm younger than you.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 2:50 pm to
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/why did they have your phone number in the first place?


I'm assuming my nephew gave it to her when she asked where his parents were
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76143 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:15 pm to
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SirSaintly



Uncle Buck



Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:16 pm to
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at 10+, parents generally did not stay at bday parties for my friends or me. Maybe a close friend of the family, but definitely not every parent. that's gay and lame.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
173808 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:16 pm to
Peter Piper GOAT party establishment
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7662 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:35 pm to
It's pretty tacky of the mom to call and demand you come back, IMO. Even if she is a helicopter mom and expects everyone else to be as well, when she asked your nephew where his mom was and he told her you brought him because she is out of town, she should have assumed you didnt know her parenting rules and let it go. Watching one extra kid wouldn't have killed her. People love to feel righteous though. Even if they look uncouth in the process.

The moms totally talked about you and your sister, btw.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38241 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:37 pm to
Kudos to you for trying to teach your kids some independence and self-reliance. Seems to be a lost art for most.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76143 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:39 pm to
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It's pretty tacky of the mom to call and demand you come back, IMO. Even if she is a helicopter mom and expects everyone else to be as well, when she asked your nephew where his mom was and he told her you brought him because she is out of town, she should have assumed you didnt know her parenting rules and let it go. Watching one extra kid wouldn't have killed her. People love to feel righteous though. Even if they look uncouth in the process.



100% fact.
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7662 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:44 pm to
My sons have autism. The real kind, before it was cool. Independent living skills are my number one priority as a parent. I don't get to live forever, and I don't get to take time for granted. 18 yeats isn't that many, especially when you start from behind the line.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26348 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 3:55 pm to
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It's not like much supervision was going on either. Most of the parents were ignoring the kids anyway and hanging out with each other or bored out of their mind playing on their phone.

More importantly. Nailed any hot moms?
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76143 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:00 pm to
OP.... so we know you aren't full of shite...

What were her exact words when she called you, and why did you answer the phone from an unknown number?

And for entertainment purposes, what were you planning to do instead, before turning around and hanging out at a little boy's birthday party?

Also, how did your nephew feel about the whole situation? What did he say, specifically, about it?
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16797 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:15 pm to
Did the OP even go in and sign all the necessary forms for the nephew to even take part in the activity before dropping the kid off? I'm saying no, I wouldn't want to watch some kid that can't even take part in the party either, nor would I want the liability of watching a kid at a location with a high probability of injury as well. Don't take your nephew to parties if you don't want to babysit him there.

Sounds like random kid wasn't even good friends with the kid having the party.
This post was edited on 1/18/18 at 4:17 pm
Posted by hawaiiantiger
KANEOHE, HI
Member since Jan 2010
365 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:29 pm to
I have a 10 year old boy, all his day parties have been drop offs. And he seems to go to one a week.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:34 pm to
I never thought about that. Going to friend's kids & niece and nephews birthday parties.. You are right, all the parents go with the kids. When I was young (3, 4-6 yrs old maybe) I think my mom would take me. It seems sexist today, but when I was growing up that was something it seemed like the dads/husbands didn't mess with.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61734 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:57 pm to
You are correct. I was scoffed at for wanting to drop my 8 year old off and run a few errands.

He is 8. He can bounce around on his own. He can chew food, wipe his arse, say no to leaving w strangers and knows all the words to happy birthday. I was going to be gone an hour.

Note to parents: at his birthday, if you want, you can gtfo. I can handle em.

I stayed but was an a-hole the entire time, spoke to no one.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61734 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:58 pm to
You are a presumptive mother fricker.
Posted by Grit-Eating Shin
You're an Idiot
Member since May 2013
8583 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 4:59 pm to
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I stayed but was an a-hole the entire time, spoke to no o
You really showed them. I bet they change their ways now.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24485 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:04 pm to
Hell I wish some of the parents would leave our 4 year old's party. Weird arse parents from the school hanging out and creeping kids out.

This deserves a thread of its own, but one of the dad's told my wife that his wife didn't come because it was a pool party and it was her time of the month, we'd never met this guy before. lol.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61734 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:04 pm to
I could give a damn. I find it odd. If we were at a lake or something I would understand.
Posted by TheMailman
Member since Jul 2017
1550 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:07 pm to
That's why I have a bar and hire a bartender at my kids parties.
This post was edited on 1/18/18 at 5:10 pm
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