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re: What's Up With Kid's Birthday Parties These Days?

Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:12 pm to
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:12 pm to
You got any pics that you can post?
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:13 pm to
Birthday parties are lame, I know that. We used to skate and bowl as kids. Now, we go to someone's house who rents a big water-slide that 12-year-olds and 4-year-olds, alike, are somehow supposed to navigate. That is why they want you there...because they took on too much and need helpers. Just in case some 5'8" 12-year old knocks the piss out of a kid who is still pooping in his britches.

Back in the day, you had the host(s) and close friends. We were dropped off and picked up.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:13 pm to
Birthday parties are lame, I know that. We used to skate and bowl as kids. Now, we go to someone's house who rents a big water-slide that 12-year-olds and 4-year-olds, alike, are somehow supposed to navigate. That is why they want you there...because they took on too much and need helpers. Just in case some 5'8" 12-year old knocks the piss out of a kid who is still pooping in his britches.

Back in the day, you had the host(s) and close friends. We were dropped off and picked up.
Posted by Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Lafayette LA
Member since Nov 2005
14090 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:21 pm to
quote:

Maybe they like to watch their kids grow up



Your child doesn’t want you at every practice. It’s not healthy for the child.
This post was edited on 1/18/18 at 5:23 pm
Posted by Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Lafayette LA
Member since Nov 2005
14090 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 5:24 pm to
quote:

That is why they want you there...because they took on too much and need helpers. Just in case some 5'8" 12-year old knocks the piss out of a kid who is still pooping in his britches.


All of this
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 1/18/18 at 6:00 pm to
My muthafrickin mama!

Posted by Tigers4Lyfe
Member since Nov 2010
6818 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 9:44 am to
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This is a lawsuit thing? Scared of being sued... don't have said party... pretty simple or make folks sign waivers if you are that nervous. 

If I throw a birthday party I am not expecting 30 parents to be involved with it. Adult/Parent should be able to handle a few hour party without lawyers becoming involved and parents hovering. Sure a few parents could stay and help out... but everyone of them? How big are these party places supposed to be? 

We are doing our children and future a disservice for acting this way. I suppose we should bunk up with them for a month when they head off to college just to make sure everything will be peaches and cream, right?
I wonder if you would feel this way and what you would do if you dropped your kid off at a party and he/she wandered off and was taken or even writes killed somehow. Would you blame anyone but yourself?

And yeah, there is a difference between a 10 yr old and 18 yr old. Although there are even 18 yr old who aren't mature enough to go off to college rather than staying home and attending a local college.
This post was edited on 1/19/18 at 9:47 am
Posted by danfraz
San Antonio TX
Member since Apr 2008
24550 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 9:54 am to
Birthday parties in my day were in the backyard or at Fun Fair Park (the real one).


Both were always drop-offs. If parents had to stay at a kids birthday party then no one would have shown up.

Dangerous? I laugh at the trampoline danger when we had this stuff at parties. Usually with one haggard parent trying to control 10 wild kids

The way it should be.






Give a bunch of kids heavy ceramic balls and mallets and let the fun begin!!

Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 9:58 am to
I agree, it does seem like they're all pussies nowadays. I'm just waiting for the pendulum to swing back in the other direction. The world is safer now than it was in the 80's and a whole generation survived it without being giant pussies.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 10:03 am to
I personally don’t have a problem when parents do this. Makes me feel more comfortable to discipline their kids (if need be) when they are not there, rather than present but not paying attention to their own child.
Posted by Rocco Lampone
Raleigh, NC
Member since Nov 2010
3113 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 10:16 am to
I would say not normal after kindergarten.
Posted by Donkeypunch
Georgia
Member since Jun 2007
1428 posts
Posted on 1/19/18 at 11:08 am to
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It isn't just birthday parties. You ever been to a kids' sports PRACTICE? My dad or mom always just dropped me off at practice. Or I rode with a friend. Now, at least one parent is there and many times both. At fckng PRACTICE.




When I coached Rec Softball & Baseball it was Rec Dept policy that at least parent or older sibling( or if another parent agreed to be responsible for that child) be present during practice/games.

Unofficial policy was that it was at the Coaches discretion whether to enforce it of not.
The main reasons for the rule were to keep parents from dropping them off and then being late picking them up and to keep a coach from being alone with a child.
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