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re: What random small thing do you appreciate like never before after having a wife and kids.

Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:35 am to
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35980 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:35 am to
I love and appreciate quiet solo rides now. Funnily enough my favorite moments are also car rides with everyone. I guess I just really like being in the car
Posted by parrothead
big salty ham
Member since Mar 2010
4908 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:35 am to
No kids but married. Biggest thing I miss sometimes is making a selfish on the spot decision. Sure, I may make the same decision but there’s an added layer to the process now. Nothing that would change my mind on marriage but it’s a thing for sure.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
15865 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:37 am to
Getting laid as the sun comes up. Maybe not a small thing, but random.
Posted by Indfanfromcol
LSU
Member since Jan 2011
14774 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:38 am to
Silence.

Back in the day I’d crank tunes to and from work. Now, just silence. All music off. Just pure, blissful silence to and from. Get in the far right lane and just go with the flow.

Probably has something to do with my daughters being 4 and 2 also.
Posted by Mstate
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2009
10161 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:38 am to
As someone with a 2 week old (our first child) it’s easily having 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51784 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:41 am to
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This, once they can cart themselves around it’s a game changer,

Agreed. She's gone half of the time so my wife and I pretty much do whatever we want at this point.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
18112 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:42 am to
Peace and quiet.
Posted by JodyPlauche
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2009
9605 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:43 am to
Not having a wife and kids
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
18112 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 9:48 am to
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Empty nesting has been the greatest time of my life. That’s all I got.



This. The wife and I had it for about 3 years but then her daughter----my stepdaughter-----started having psychotic episodes and has been diagnosed as "Schizo-effective" and from my understanding, that is like being bi-polar and schizophrenic at the same time.

She's been back home for 4 years now, on her meds and doing OK, but it was a hell of a ride getting to this point.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14491 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:00 am to
Solo road trips while crushing tall boys and listening to the radio.
This post was edited on 5/20/23 at 10:02 am
Posted by Turnblad85
Member since Sep 2022
3222 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:03 am to
Finally, a thread that makes us lonely selfish folks feel better about our poor life choices.
Posted by Screaming Viking
Member since Jul 2013
5298 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:03 am to
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This, once they can cart themselves around it’s a game changer,


My oldest can drive now. Created a few hours each week.

As has been said, silence, or the random day with nothing scheduled.

Parental “achievements”
Kid eating on his own.
Going to the bathroom on his own
Able to swim in a pool without you
Homework on his own.
Driving
Moving out/leaving for college.
Them getting married
Grandkids.

Not sure if I left anything out.

OP good question/thread topic.
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:09 am to
My wife can turn an hour early into 5 minutes late
Posted by OldCat55
Member since Apr 2021
701 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:18 am to
I understand your feelings. I remember those days well.

Often, it seems too quiet for me now. I miss the days off following my kids around and spending what seems like an eternity at the ball park.

I’m looking forward to grandkids one day. Little ones to look after and help raise with the greatest perk of all, being able to send them home when you’re worn out.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
70402 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:23 am to
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I'm not very good and I hear about it. But I love it.
I had an older GF for a while that made me step-up my game.

Pressure makes diamonds.
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
4443 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:45 am to
Letting people slide with shite… from skipping in lines, hard stares, being rude, etc… lot of stuff the younger me would have met with the same energy… now not so much…
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
8993 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:49 am to
Random 4ball golf tourneys. Used to play 6 or 7 a year. If I play in 2 this year it will feel excessive.
Posted by 94LSU
Member since May 2023
637 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:51 am to
"What random small thing do you appreciate like never before after having a wife and kids."

Not having a wife and kids!!!
Posted by TigerintheNO
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2004
42900 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 10:58 am to
3rd Sunday in June is cool
This post was edited on 5/20/23 at 11:00 am
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
14078 posts
Posted on 5/20/23 at 11:00 am to
Sanity
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