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re: what is your definition of adultery?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:20 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:20 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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off work, got time, no kids for a short while, pretty down at the moment. i'll bounce back up and my spirit will lift. i always do.
back to the topic.
obviously there is the jody definition. pretty self explanatory but also very basic. something lead up to jody.
since i asked, i'll go with mine. it may be different. it certainly contributed to why i am now divorced. no cheating, none of that stuff. each of us took care of ourselves not some digusting slob either and hygiene was never an issue. have good careers all that stuff. i really believe people who were close to us were shocked when they found out or figured out we weren't together anymore.
my understanding, whether right or wrong, of the defintion is a violation of the marriage contract. she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature, albeit a very different kind of adultery.
our religion and church don't tolerate her committing adultery by having sex with someone other than me. why should it tolerate her "adultery" of refusing to have sex with me?
basically, in a not so fancy way of describing it, i could count on two hands and still have enough fingers left over to tell you how many times i would have sex with my wife while married in a given year. it was miserable. it started off "good" and then evaporated. i suspect i was (or am) just like many of you in terms of the why (if replies are honest) such as poor communication, selfishness, disrepectful at times, kids, work, priorities unfortunately changed, all that stuff that we take for granted while caught up in it.
and for all that are on the dating apps slaying the puss, my hat is off to you. i just can't bring myself to do that (yet).
i have reservations that when i meet someone, this person may similar in some regards to my ex, because there are many great qualities that would be (and still be) attractive to me that i hope to find in another person. i realize each person and situation is different, but it is a concern. i know the line, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. is there some truth to that?
edited to add that i just reread this after typing it. today is a shite day for me.
also, i understand and agree with most people definition and admit i was wrong with my definiton. i'm not chagning my post, i'll leave it up as is.
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Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:22 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature
ummm , she may have committed adultery but, this aint it.
bending over for jody while you were at work. that was the adultery.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:23 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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i beleive God made us to have sex with our spouses two to three times per week and that each of us should reach fulfillment.
I would like to know what verse(s) this is. Asking for a friend.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:29 pm to Lincoln Dawson
I guess your girl did an ole rub and tug on an ex boyfriend? I don't blame her.... you sound pitiful!
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:29 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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basically, in a not so fancy way of describing it, i could count on two hands and still have enough fingers left over to tell you how many times i would have sex with my wife while married in a given year.
frick all that.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:47 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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you must not be married. havign a girlfriend is entirely different then having a wife
Me? Nah. I've never been married.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:59 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Here's how marriage goes Baw
The first 4 years you try to kill that pussy
The next 40 the pussy tries to kill you
The first 4 years you try to kill that pussy
The next 40 the pussy tries to kill you
Posted on 11/18/20 at 3:17 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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basically, in a not so fancy way of describing it, i could count on two hands and still have enough fingers left over to tell you how many times i would have sex with my wife while married in a given year. it was miserable. it started off "good" and then evaporated. i suspect i was (or am) just like many of you in terms of the why (if replies are honest) such as poor communication, selfishness, disrepectful at times, kids, work, priorities unfortunately changed, all that stuff that we take for granted while caught up in it.
Sexless marriages are miserable. I have no idea how men or women tolerate any relationship which features sex once a week (or less). You dont have to redefine adultery to justify leaving a sexless, cold, unsatisfying marriage.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:07 pm to Lincoln Dawson
If you don’t give it up to your spouse, eventually someone else will.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:09 pm to TaderSalad
If they sold sperm on the trading market, I could sell about 100 barrels. Haven’t had sex since 1996.
The sperm market dropped three points today as an increase of supply was found in Louisiana.
Because of covid19, economists
Speculate that the increase of vertility in new virgins could drive the price of pussy down to record lows.
The sperm market dropped three points today as an increase of supply was found in Louisiana.
Because of covid19, economists
Speculate that the increase of vertility in new virgins could drive the price of pussy down to record lows.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:13 pm to Klingler7
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Haven’t had sex since 1996.
A damn quarter of a century since the last time? I must say that's pretty damn incredible if it's the truth.
This post was edited on 11/18/20 at 4:14 pm
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:13 pm to Lincoln Dawson
I don' t think that withholding sex is adultery. If you are looking for biblical grounds for divorce, it would fall closer to abandonment of the marriage than adultery, imo.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:36 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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i could count on two hands and still have enough fingers left over to tell you how many times i would have sex with my wife while married in a given year.
This sounds like the result of actual real adultery on your wife's part honestly
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:43 pm to jchamil
Thats what I was thinking ^^^
If he ain't fricking her, someone is fricking her and she likes it
If he ain't fricking her, someone is fricking her and she likes it
Posted on 11/18/20 at 4:56 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Baw bring yourself to get on them dating apps. You'll discover the gift that is single mothers. Start knocking the bottoms out. And feel like a stud again
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:12 pm to mikelbr
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Wait. You left your wife and gave up 50% of your time with your kids all b/c you couldn't handle beating off in a sock when your wife didn't wanna frick?
WOW. This place never ceases to amaze.
No shite and gave up 50% of his shite, when more then likely all he had to do to get it atleast once a week was show her a little affection and a little attention.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:17 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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our religion and church don't tolerate her committing adultery by having sex with someone other than me. why should it tolerate her "adultery" of refusing to have sex with me?
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i beleive God made us to have sex with our spouses two to three times per week and that each of us should reach fulfillment.
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the male body produces a new batch of sperm about every 72 hours; that’s the way God made us men.
You mentioned God a lot in your posts yet in selfish gains. I'm not saying it's all you because a relationship requires two people but you sound like a religious man that lost sight in what God meant for marriage. Reading all your posts, it sounds like she put the kids and daily grind first and not her spouse's needs and you put the sex first and not your wife's needs.
But to answer your original question, her withholding sex is not adultery.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:23 pm to WDE24
quote:1 Corinthians 7:3-5
what verse is that
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:27 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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what is your definition of adultery?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:55 pm to Lincoln Dawson
"i actually have a different definition"
so you're creating your own reality
so you're creating your own reality
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