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re: what is your definition of adultery?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:58 pm to Gee Grenouille
Posted on 11/18/20 at 5:58 pm to Gee Grenouille
quote:
"i actually have a different definition"
so you're creating your own reality
There’s a lot of that going around
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Posted on 11/18/20 at 6:50 pm to Lincoln Dawson
quote:
Not a verse, but science
The female body ovulates approximately once every 28 days. Not a verse, just science...
See how that goes both ways?
I don’t think sex is why you’re divorced.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 7:06 pm to Lincoln Dawson
I’m sorry to all but the OP is right. A spouse refusing to engage in physical love is not being faithful, especially if you’re looking at a biblical marriage definition. Now that doesn’t mean that the Bible says “Thou shalt do the nasty at least 3 times per week.”
But also OP, if she’s not getting it from you, she’s getting it from someone else. I know you may not think that, but it’s true. Women are emotional creatures, and if you can have a marriage where you are sharing a house and a bed and cordial but aren’t having sex and there’s never any desire from her to do so, she’s making that connection elsewhere. If she was truly emotionally devoid in your relationship she would’ve been taking it out on you constantly to make up for that void, even if negative energy is all she got.
But also OP, if she’s not getting it from you, she’s getting it from someone else. I know you may not think that, but it’s true. Women are emotional creatures, and if you can have a marriage where you are sharing a house and a bed and cordial but aren’t having sex and there’s never any desire from her to do so, she’s making that connection elsewhere. If she was truly emotionally devoid in your relationship she would’ve been taking it out on you constantly to make up for that void, even if negative energy is all she got.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 7:11 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Despite all of the bravado of the OT, I doubt many here are having sex with their wives 3x/week, especially with kids in the picture (assuming young kids).
Did your wife have post-partum depression? Did you go to counseling before the divorce? Did you masterbate?
Did your wife have post-partum depression? Did you go to counseling before the divorce? Did you masterbate?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 7:22 pm to Wolfhound45
quote:
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
Paul's advice to the Corinthians was to avoid marriage and sex altogether.
But if you felt compelled to go down that road he said you should have sex with your spouse and vice versa to avoid the temptation of others.
Since the OP is now not married, and feels like he needs some sort of Christian advice, he should stop thinking of sex and devote himself to the Lord.
And don't marry or fornicate with any divorced women, because that is adultery.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 7:22 pm to Lincoln Dawson
The frick
Posted on 11/18/20 at 7:52 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Friend,
As Jesus taught if you think about a person in a lustful way you have committed adultery. Certainly if you commit an act of sexual gratification while married with a person who is not your spouse that too is adultery. Moreover, if you divorce and remarry for any reason other than your spouse committed adultery against you, you have also committed adultery.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
As Jesus taught if you think about a person in a lustful way you have committed adultery. Certainly if you commit an act of sexual gratification while married with a person who is not your spouse that too is adultery. Moreover, if you divorce and remarry for any reason other than your spouse committed adultery against you, you have also committed adultery.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted on 11/18/20 at 8:14 pm to Lincoln Dawson
I am an expert with the women. And yes, she was cheating on you. The real having sex with another person way. Probably someone you have met before. A person at work is my bet.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 8:15 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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. she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature, albeit a very different kind of adultery.
Lol. You are really doing some mental gymnastics here to rationalize why you’re divorced. She didn’t commit adultery.
She might be a prude, a shrew, even a bitch. But an adulterer she’s not.
You sound too immature to have married to begin with. Stay single. Find yourself, have some fun ... and grow the frick up.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 8:18 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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my understanding, whether right or wrong, of the defintion is a violation of the marriage contract. she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature, albeit a very different kind of adultery.
our religion and church don't tolerate her committing adultery by having sex with someone other than me. why should it tolerate her "adultery" of refusing to have sex with me?
Because it's not adultery.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 8:23 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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our religion and church
So lets speak on that for a hot minute.
Ephesians 5:25 says, in essence, that you should love your wife as Christ loves the Church.
Did you do this?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 8:44 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Having sex with someone beside your wife without her approval..
Posted on 11/18/20 at 9:01 pm to Lincoln Dawson
I’d say when the nipple makes an appearance
Posted on 11/18/20 at 9:05 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:
Ephesians 5:25 says, in essence, that you should love your wife as Christ loves the Church.
He was trying to love her 3x/week. Is he Baptist? Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night prayer meeting?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 9:24 pm to mikelbr
quote:. Dude said 6 yrs dry man. Men aren’t built to tolerate women without getting that puss baw. The divorce courts have figured this out unfortunately... for us.
Wait. You left your wife and gave up 50% of your time with your kids all b/c you couldn't handle beating off in a sock when your wife didn't wanna frick?
WOW. This place never ceases to amaze.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 9:26 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:. Define please.
as Christ loves the Church.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 9:42 pm to Lincoln Dawson
If me and the wife go longer than 2 weeks without, which isn’t that often, I let her know I’m going to the Asian spa place, and we laugh and knock it out. I think it’s important to not ever get into the habit of not sharing that time consistently whether or not conditions are ideal.
Posted on 11/19/20 at 1:05 pm to White Bear
The ultimate act of love was Christ giving himself totally and completely for us. The Cross. For husbands to love their wives in that way, they must be willing to give every last bit of themselves for her good.
Now she vows the same thing in matrimony, but it is expected of the husband to give his life for her good and her salvation.
Now she vows the same thing in matrimony, but it is expected of the husband to give his life for her good and her salvation.
Posted on 11/19/20 at 1:07 pm to White Bear
quote:
quote:
as Christ loves the Church.
. Define please
Posted on 11/19/20 at 1:29 pm to RedPop4
Thx.
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