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re: What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?

Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:33 pm to
Posted by TJack
BR
Member since Dec 2018
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Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:33 pm to
Ho before bro
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
4198 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:34 pm to
Hang out in large groups where she can avoid or ignore her. At least it’s a friend’s wife and not close family. Does your friend’s wife’s appearance threaten your wife?
Posted by MMauler
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Member since Jun 2013
24489 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:34 pm to
Three way.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59239 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:37 pm to
I mean this sounds like I get a few hours unbothered to me and a fresh manicure.

He gets a few hours of no nagging or whatever men call females just talking.
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 7:38 pm
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
46369 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:40 pm to
Only way to handle those situations. Makes me wonder what’s wrong with his best friend to marry a self absorbed, vapid dull woman but whatever.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20103 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:45 pm to
First, find out why. And not some half butt explanation.

I then talk to my boy about it straight up at lunch one day.

I didn’t marry a woman that was petty enough to hate anyone so what do I know.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20103 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:49 pm to
Is the annoying wife hot?
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
24215 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:06 pm to
My wife is the friendliest person I’ve ever met, if anything there’s some of her friends I hate. There’s less than 5 people she has ever actually greatly disliked and all of them she basically dead or at least flat out never wanted to see again, and I don’t really blame her. But as a couple, if it’s just because they are a complete douche but not flat out a terrible person, a-hole, etc then I’ll still hang out if my wife wants to.

Part of being a couple is supporting the other person.

You also need to ask yourself why your wife hates her
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
11941 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:21 pm to
When you both like the husband and the wife really finds the other wife (among other things) loud, trashy, bossy.
Odds are the nice husband will die of a heart attack and the wife becomes more unbearable. You keep up appearances until neither can stand her.
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
3091 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to
quote:

You can’t really tell your friend that your own wife is a bitch and hates his wife


Why not?

quote:

Your wife hates his wife and refuses to go to their house or even go out in a group with them


I leave the wife at home when I go over there.
Posted by LSUDUCKMAN67
DTB
Member since Sep 2020
1649 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:27 pm to
Tell ur ole lady to get over it and that u are going with or without her. And if she does come she might get a new purse out the deal! Or even heaven forbid she might have a good time.
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
3091 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:29 pm to
quote:

He gets a few hours of no nagging or whatever men call females just talking

You pretty well nailed it.
Posted by I20goon
about 7mi down a dirt road
Member since Aug 2013
19829 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:36 pm to
1. Bikinis
2. Baby Oil
3. an 8-ball and some tequila

Let them fight it out wraslin'
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:42 pm to
I would drag my wife out with us and dare her to frick it up. I do shite with my wife that I don't want to do all of the time, so she's gonna acquiese, and have a good time and keep her mouth shut. Then as a reward, when we get home, I'm gonna bend her over and give her the best 24 seconds she's ever had.
Posted by Espritdescorps
Member since Nov 2020
2761 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:44 pm to
She needs to suck it up.. she can’t be THAT bad
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 8:45 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
139484 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:55 pm to
Hang out with him separately
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
11549 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:58 pm to
Been there, my best friend's wife is insufferable alcoholic and addicted to gambling. After the first drink she is loud and obnoxious. My wife hates to socialize with them, but suffers through it.

My friend and I have been though a lot together, we are tight and know the other will always be there for each other.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 9:15 pm to
quote:

Or even heaven forbid she might have a good time.
maybe - my husband’s best friend’s wife was insufferable - however she’s his ex wife now

We’d go out to dinner or have a bbq and she’d always talk about how terrible the other wives were. When I didn’t play along, she’d make fun of my clothes, or take jabs at my weight. So, I didn’t say anything, just smile. She ran off other husbands and wives of the friend group and loved to start drama. She was a mess.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
20049 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 9:41 pm to
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Bossy, won’t shut up, thinks the world revolves around her, her problems are always worse than yours, etc.



If that's the case, let your wife call her out on it and see if she changes her tune. If it gets ugly, nothing lost since your wife doesn't like being around her anyway.

At least that way your friend's wife will know where she stands with your wife.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
3194 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:14 pm to
It's not about your friend's wife. Your wife is trying to separate YOU from YOUR friend; she's just using the wife as a manipulation tool.
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