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re: What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?

Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:14 pm to
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
7354 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:14 pm to
My wife has friends where I'm not a fan of the husband and vice versa. When did it become so hard to act like an adult and find common ground with someone to make it through a get together?

For example, one of her friends husband is unbearable and a complete a-hole unless you're talking about something he wants to talk about. Then he is laid back, passing out beer, and less of an a-hole. Just ask about shite he wants to talk about and drink his booze
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6394 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:17 pm to
Your wife probably thinks you're gay for hanging out with dudes after you're married and for letting her have an opinion on who you can hang out with.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39283 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:21 pm to
It a tough road. Maybe you can sometimes sell your wife on the occasional hangout with promises, threats or rough anal, but women are so weird about these social things.
Posted by TBoy
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Member since Dec 2007
28594 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:21 pm to
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What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?

From now on you’re going to have to meet your buddy’s wife at a hotel. Don’t ever make your wife uncomfortable.
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2980 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 11:34 pm to
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What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?


She fine isn’t she?
Posted by 75503Tiger
Member since Sep 2015
4821 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 12:59 am to
Consider it her trying to separate friends. What would you do if her friend's boyfriend was a tool? Expect her to act the same way.
Posted by MMauler
Primary This RINO Traitor
Member since Jun 2013
24489 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:31 am to
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He gets a few hours of no nagging or whatever men call females just talking.


Yacking c*nts.
Posted by Da #1 Stunna
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:56 am to
Universally, women don't like each other. They get sideways with each other very easily - jealously, shite talking, how they raise their kids, they very similar to felines.

I have been in this situation. You can get away with this isolation policy where you and your boy hang out without the wives - for a little while.

Eventually, the fact that your family is no longer involved ..... as you get older, your family starts meaning more and that time is better spent with them. When it becomes work to remain friends, its just easier not to deal it over time.
Posted by adamau
Member since Oct 2020
4304 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:09 am to
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Bossy, won’t shut up, thinks the world revolves around her, her problems are always worse than yours, etc.


Soooo basically, your wife just doesn't like hanging out with women.
Posted by Boboss504
Member since Mar 2022
179 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 3:46 am to
Tell your friend the truth pussy
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
12462 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 4:54 am to
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Bossy, won’t shut up, thinks the world revolves around her, her problems are always worse than yours, etc.
I didn't know you were friends with my in-laws
Posted by fischd1
Mandeville
Member since Dec 2007
3439 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 7:07 am to
Inform her that she is abusing the 50-50 rule of conversation. 50% is about your family and 50% is about their family. Conversations flow much more easily when this rule is applied.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45125 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:02 am to
Who’s prettier? Be honest, it’s your friend’s wife isn’t it?

There’s the issue.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86173 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:04 am to
Leave the wife at home and bring a date.

Now, let me give you the science:

Women “ruin everything “ because they are neurotic. They are prone to experiencing NEGATIVE emotions in a way we can’t really comprehend.And women with psychological issues it might be by a factor of ten.

Now let me give you the opinion based on decades of observing women:

Throughout her day, she has more negative thoughts than you might have in a month. And if you don’t affirm those emotions, it will only push her further into her neuroticism. And she will likely aim it at you. She will actually look for opportunities to transfer all her negative emotions onto you. Which will annoy you and if it’s been severe enough, even push you into a PTSD state of fight or flight. And you of course will then ask her to keep things positive ( the calm down trap) which will only exponentially increase her negativity and she will transfer all of it laser - focused onto you and suddenly she’s having an existential crisis and it’s all YOUR fault. . And now you are the problem. And all you wanted to do was maybe watch a ball game and enjoy a relaxing night. And suddenly it’s WW3 and you haven’t done anything. You have literally not moved on the couch and you’ve gone from a peaceful night to being the source of all evil on planet earth.

And never will she ever hold herself accountable for disrespecting you and never will you ever receive an apology. In her mind, it is normal, that you be the person responsible for her moods, and anything that results from her moods. You have basically been assigned the role of managing her negative emotions, and your job is to always affirm them or face the consequences.

This is the fate of men in America and The West. As depression and anxiety and technology and TDS and work place stress increases, this increases.

My advice is just nod your head or go fishing. And lots of prayer. And whisky. And a tin of edibles.
Posted by BayouBaw84
Member since Oct 2016
3317 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:23 am to
Bang your friends wife. She already hates her. How much worse can it get?
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64242 posts
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:26 am to
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