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re: What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:14 pm to Slippy
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:14 pm to Slippy
My wife has friends where I'm not a fan of the husband and vice versa. When did it become so hard to act like an adult and find common ground with someone to make it through a get together?
For example, one of her friends husband is unbearable and a complete a-hole unless you're talking about something he wants to talk about. Then he is laid back, passing out beer, and less of an a-hole. Just ask about shite he wants to talk about and drink his booze
For example, one of her friends husband is unbearable and a complete a-hole unless you're talking about something he wants to talk about. Then he is laid back, passing out beer, and less of an a-hole. Just ask about shite he wants to talk about and drink his booze
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:17 pm to Slippy
Your wife probably thinks you're gay for hanging out with dudes after you're married and for letting her have an opinion on who you can hang out with.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:21 pm to Slippy
It a tough road. Maybe you can sometimes sell your wife on the occasional hangout with promises, threats or rough anal, but women are so weird about these social things.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 10:21 pm to Slippy
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What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?
From now on you’re going to have to meet your buddy’s wife at a hotel. Don’t ever make your wife uncomfortable.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 11:34 pm to Slippy
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What do you do when your wife hates your friend’s wife?
She fine isn’t she?
Posted on 10/19/24 at 12:59 am to Slippy
Consider it her trying to separate friends. What would you do if her friend's boyfriend was a tool? Expect her to act the same way.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:31 am to HoustonChick86
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He gets a few hours of no nagging or whatever men call females just talking.
Yacking c*nts.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 1:56 am to Slippy
Universally, women don't like each other. They get sideways with each other very easily - jealously, shite talking, how they raise their kids, they very similar to felines.
I have been in this situation. You can get away with this isolation policy where you and your boy hang out without the wives - for a little while.
Eventually, the fact that your family is no longer involved ..... as you get older, your family starts meaning more and that time is better spent with them. When it becomes work to remain friends, its just easier not to deal it over time.
I have been in this situation. You can get away with this isolation policy where you and your boy hang out without the wives - for a little while.
Eventually, the fact that your family is no longer involved ..... as you get older, your family starts meaning more and that time is better spent with them. When it becomes work to remain friends, its just easier not to deal it over time.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 2:09 am to Slippy
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Bossy, won’t shut up, thinks the world revolves around her, her problems are always worse than yours, etc.
Soooo basically, your wife just doesn't like hanging out with women.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 3:46 am to Slippy
Tell your friend the truth pussy
Posted on 10/19/24 at 4:54 am to Slippy
quote:I didn't know you were friends with my in-laws
Bossy, won’t shut up, thinks the world revolves around her, her problems are always worse than yours, etc.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 7:07 am to Slippy
Inform her that she is abusing the 50-50 rule of conversation. 50% is about your family and 50% is about their family. Conversations flow much more easily when this rule is applied.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:02 am to Slippy
Who’s prettier? Be honest, it’s your friend’s wife isn’t it?
There’s the issue.
There’s the issue.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:04 am to Slippy
Leave the wife at home and bring a date.
Now, let me give you the science:
Women “ruin everything “ because they are neurotic. They are prone to experiencing NEGATIVE emotions in a way we can’t really comprehend.And women with psychological issues it might be by a factor of ten.
Now let me give you the opinion based on decades of observing women:
Throughout her day, she has more negative thoughts than you might have in a month. And if you don’t affirm those emotions, it will only push her further into her neuroticism. And she will likely aim it at you. She will actually look for opportunities to transfer all her negative emotions onto you. Which will annoy you and if it’s been severe enough, even push you into a PTSD state of fight or flight. And you of course will then ask her to keep things positive ( the calm down trap) which will only exponentially increase her negativity and she will transfer all of it laser - focused onto you and suddenly she’s having an existential crisis and it’s all YOUR fault. . And now you are the problem. And all you wanted to do was maybe watch a ball game and enjoy a relaxing night. And suddenly it’s WW3 and you haven’t done anything. You have literally not moved on the couch and you’ve gone from a peaceful night to being the source of all evil on planet earth.
And never will she ever hold herself accountable for disrespecting you and never will you ever receive an apology. In her mind, it is normal, that you be the person responsible for her moods, and anything that results from her moods. You have basically been assigned the role of managing her negative emotions, and your job is to always affirm them or face the consequences.
This is the fate of men in America and The West. As depression and anxiety and technology and TDS and work place stress increases, this increases.
My advice is just nod your head or go fishing. And lots of prayer. And whisky. And a tin of edibles.
Now, let me give you the science:
Women “ruin everything “ because they are neurotic. They are prone to experiencing NEGATIVE emotions in a way we can’t really comprehend.And women with psychological issues it might be by a factor of ten.
Now let me give you the opinion based on decades of observing women:
Throughout her day, she has more negative thoughts than you might have in a month. And if you don’t affirm those emotions, it will only push her further into her neuroticism. And she will likely aim it at you. She will actually look for opportunities to transfer all her negative emotions onto you. Which will annoy you and if it’s been severe enough, even push you into a PTSD state of fight or flight. And you of course will then ask her to keep things positive ( the calm down trap) which will only exponentially increase her negativity and she will transfer all of it laser - focused onto you and suddenly she’s having an existential crisis and it’s all YOUR fault. . And now you are the problem. And all you wanted to do was maybe watch a ball game and enjoy a relaxing night. And suddenly it’s WW3 and you haven’t done anything. You have literally not moved on the couch and you’ve gone from a peaceful night to being the source of all evil on planet earth.
And never will she ever hold herself accountable for disrespecting you and never will you ever receive an apology. In her mind, it is normal, that you be the person responsible for her moods, and anything that results from her moods. You have basically been assigned the role of managing her negative emotions, and your job is to always affirm them or face the consequences.
This is the fate of men in America and The West. As depression and anxiety and technology and TDS and work place stress increases, this increases.
My advice is just nod your head or go fishing. And lots of prayer. And whisky. And a tin of edibles.
Posted on 10/19/24 at 8:23 am to Slippy
Bang your friends wife. She already hates her. How much worse can it get?
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