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re: Three months salary for the ring.

Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:49 am to
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
34520 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:49 am to
frick that. Mine wanted an inexpensive ring for now. Once the little ones get older and get out, we'll upsize.

Her plan, not mine.
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:50 am to
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Just buy a lab grown diamond. 100% real diamond. Just cheaper.


Like buying a Fake Rolex... No thanks
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
30070 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:53 am to
Sales has great financing plans up to 25 years at 19% apr. buy the most you can afford because it’s a great investment.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:55 am to
Anyone who spends 3 months salary on a ring is either really rich or really stupid.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:23 am to
That's still typically the "standard" that would be suggested if asked of a jeweler etc...

I honestly believe the true standard is whatever your particular choice in woman demands as the standard. If you are marrying someone that is a social media attention whore that takes endless selfies, pictures of her meals, and washes peoples faces with vacations etc, then you are fricking doomed. This whore will break the bank.

If you happen to find someone that is grounded, and not into the materialistic side of things (but still likes nice things), then you are going to get out of it relatively unscathed.

How she was raised, what she grew up "having", and just what kind of person she is will tell you what you are going to have to do to please her. And that's just the ring. Once you have to please a whore like #1 example, it will NEVER stop. EVER.
Posted by Cannon style
Homer,La.
Member since Sep 2018
1582 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:28 am to
bullshite. She will take what you can afford. If not she ain't the one. All she cares about is money. It's about love. Move on
This post was edited on 1/23/19 at 8:30 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37463 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:33 am to
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Good friend says buy a nice ring but not too nice because in 10 years when you are making good money she will want a bigger one


I did the opposite, I bought her a ring so nice that in 10 years she still won't want a bigger/nicer one.
Posted by BaddestAndvari
That Overweight Racist State
Member since Mar 2011
18700 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:35 am to
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:35 am to
It’s strange to replace an ENGAGEMENT ring. Getting her a different ring is cool, but you don’t replace something that is literally a one time thing.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37463 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:40 am to
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It’s strange to replace an ENGAGEMENT ring. Getting her a different ring is cool, but you don’t replace something that is literally a one time thing.

I agree.

I would also like to know the trucks notes of all of these fools balking at spending more than 3k on a ring.

I personally know someone who drove a 75k truck and didn't spend more than 2.5k on an engagement ring
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:41 am to
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I personally know someone who drove a 75k truck and didn't spend more than 2.5k on an engagement ring



Let's not forget $50k Skeeter, camp, hunting lease, etc.
Posted by Montezuma
Member since Apr 2013
3682 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:47 am to
"Walk-in closet or a diamond ring?"

Posted by MLCLyons
Member since Nov 2012
4790 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:33 am to
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Is that still the norm?



It's the norm only because De Beers marketed that to jack up the price on diamonds. Diamonds aren't that rare but somehow De Beers convinced everyone they are the most valuable stone you can buy and have to get one for an engagement ring.
Posted by gplayerjr
Lafayette, La
Member since Sep 2008
1171 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 10:56 am to
manufactured diamond and don't look back...she gets the size and bling, you get to keep your cash. And NONE of her gf's will ever know the difference. This is coming from a guy who dated the head of bridal division for Stuller settings. She always said what a waste of $$$ on the real deal. Just another angle for ya!
Posted by rickyh
Positiger Nation
Member since Dec 2003
13187 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 10:58 am to
That is insanity.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 11:08 am to
Month and a half and the ring is custom-made. You can either care about the cartel or you can care about what your wife likes and wants.
Posted by CoachMoorGut
Member since Sep 2018
725 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 11:23 am to
I saved three months gross salary and spent less than one month gross salary. By the time I saved up I knew I was making the right decision and had some extra funds to take care of the honeymoon.

If she needs a carat then you need to go elsewhere, because she'll need half your shite in a couple years.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32881 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:59 pm to
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Nothing like starting out life together tens of thousands in debt for a ring and a big wedding


There was zero chance I was financing the ring. Even my fiance would've been pissed.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:03 pm to
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Like buying a Fake Rolex... No thanks

A bunch of dudes with no standards. Trying to pull a fast one on their wives
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29674 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:04 pm to
Depends on the girl. If she is very materialistic I’d spend the money or she would be disappointed. My GF isn’t so I’ll spend 6-800 probably and she will be fine. She likes small rings anyways. All depends on the girl and your income
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