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re: Tales of a single father in EBR

Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:06 am to
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
50258 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:06 am to
That’s terrible
Never been married / divorced so I can’t relate other than when my Uncle divorced his wife & fought for custody one of the orders was they remain in their current school system.
She promptly moved about an hour away with no repercussions


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Take the high road and when he is 18, hopefully the ex wife will have many lonely holidays wondering why the kids have picked your house over hers.


Kids are now adults & both have as little to do with her as possible
This post was edited on 9/16/23 at 7:08 am
Posted by Demonbengal
Ruston
Member since May 2015
3555 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:06 am to
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What did you do during the “fast forward” to get a disturbing the peace charge?


He did nothing. I had a cousin with a psycho ex who was heavily involved with drugs and they got divorced. She was arrested for drugs, disturbing peace, etc. multiple times, yet continued to have custody. She finally went away for awhile and he was able to get custody. That was 30 years ago. I’m sure it’s way worse now.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
25469 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:07 am to
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Where do y'all find these psychos?


In their defense, their dicks find them.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59946 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:16 am to
Trashy story.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11535 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:19 am to
It often ends up boiling down to which parent has more money for lawyers and more endurance for bullshite. It’s sad. I will never, ever understand trying to keep a child from having an equal relationship with a loving parent.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
47671 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:19 am to
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So what did you do to earn a disturbing the peace charge?




Mom or the grandfather called the police.

Poster should have called the police before he went over there and notified them about the call he got from his son.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
20130 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:20 am to
That still doesn’t explain anything. She very well may be trash and deserve to lose the kids, but we’re missing part of the story.

If he’s dealing with all that I could see him losing his cool
Posted by dale10
The Red Stick
Member since May 2006
944 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:24 am to
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What did you do during the “fast forward” to get a disturbing the peace charge?


My son and I sat on my tailgate, about 50 yards from the house and talked. When my daughters realized I was there, they ran out and came to me for their own safety as they were scared. We stayed there and never went a step towards anyone until the wonderful officers showed up and made them go back to their mom and charged me. Stated the mom and grandfather said I threatened him when I got there.

Maybe the best part is after my son talked to the officer specifically why he was scared and recounted all the abuse he and his sisters have been through,
The cop comes back and states the mom said none of that was true, like she was actually supposed to admit it.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
20130 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:26 am to
You denied threatening him as well? That’s some bullshite
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
60812 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:26 am to
I'm having trouble believing you got hit with this based on what you have posted. You didn't yell at the ex or her family or cause a scene in any way?
Wouldn't blame you if you did and it all sounds like a crappy situation.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48650 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:30 am to
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Divorce Reform is desperately needed in this country.

it's sad.

Amen. Got my shite pushed in during a hearing to have child support increased back in 2011.
The judge heard my side and sincerely apologized to me in front of everyone in the courtroom but his hands were tied. He then suggested I write my La Representative and tell them exactly what I told the court. That's the only way things will ever change for the better for divorced dads. Was a moral victory that even the judge knew my ex was greedyfor that bullshite.

Fwiw my side: I was going through a 2nd divorce at the time and living in a leaky 1br duplex and delivering pizza at night. And my support to her was raised $200.
Meanwhile she had recently quit her attorney job to be a stay home mom while she and her husband were building a $380k house in Pelican Point.
frick Dem hoes.
This post was edited on 9/16/23 at 9:52 am
Posted by dale10
The Red Stick
Member since May 2006
944 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:33 am to
Never once raised my voice….. was at a strangers house who was trying to help my son. I had no idea was what going so just wanted to get him and find out. I am the calmest person you will meet, but don’t F with my children.

From the best I could i determine from the 4 world class officers is that I should not have came over during her custody time. I asked what kind of father would get a call like that and not respond.
Posted by questionable
FL
Member since Apr 2008
1192 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:36 am to
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Where do y’all find these psychos?

Law school for me. I know it’s hard to believe but sometimes women lose their minds in the middle of a marriage and not before. My ex has shown some Amber Heard tendencies lately so I’ve now required all kid exchanges to be at a public location with cameras. It’s sad man, don’t judge someone until you’ve walked in their shoes.
Posted by TROLA
BATON ROUGE
Member since Apr 2004
13932 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:45 am to
You need to request all body camera footage and from now on. Record every int we action with her and her family. You should get your attorney involved to use their connections to talk with the courts in squashing the disturbing the peace. You absolutely can’t let that stand.. it will damage you in this within the court process.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
20130 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:46 am to
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Law school for me.

You and mikel have something in common. I’m one also but don’t think I’d want to date another
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
4420 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:57 am to
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she and her husband were building a $380k house in Pelican Point.


Ah, the good ole days
Posted by tigeraddict
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2007
13398 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:57 am to
I was on The other end of the spectrum.

As the father I won sole custody and was awarded child support (which I am still owed around $40k which I will never see). Ex got visitation (when kids were younger she always had excuses on why she wasn’t getting taking them) every other weekend.

I was awarded custody even with the judge being a woman.



Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
54900 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 7:59 am to
Where you screwed up was not turning the recorder on your phone when you got out of truck.
Posted by Lickitty Split
Inside
Member since Apr 2017
4085 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 8:09 am to
There’s a female LSU professor by the last name Spaht that you can blame for a large part of what is messed up in Louisiana. She helped write laws that basically give the woman everything and the man gets nothing in these child custody proceedings. Such a strong liberal woman that worked to tear down the family unit and hurt children of divorced parents.

Oh but people will be here soon to champion her cause. It’s all by design.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48650 posts
Posted on 9/16/23 at 8:19 am to
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Ah, the good ole days

Right. They made 100k on it but it's worth 75% more than that now.
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