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Posted on 10/9/24 at 12:38 pm to 777Tiger
Understand, I’m not advocating anything one way or another. But like I said, if he already knows she’s fricking the BF, then it’s kind of silly to get hung up on location.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 12:38 pm to Godfather1
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Who says you have to know anything about it?
that’s part of the college education :lol. you’ve got to learn discretion and diplomacy, I was a wild man in college and my parents knew it, I didn’t flaunt it in their faces and observed/respected their morals/principals when around them
Posted on 10/9/24 at 12:50 pm to Tvilletiger
Solution to your problem: Why not compromise? She can stay with me, an unaligned third party. And if she needs financial help with schooling, I may be able to do something for her. Looks like her mom I hope.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:47 pm to TCO
Until she’s financially independent, nope.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 3:31 pm to Tvilletiger
Does she own the house? NO? Then you aren't wrong. frick all these classless idiots ITT that complain about society crumbling but shite on you for holding to a standard.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 3:35 pm to Tvilletiger
What percentage of the bill will you be footing for your bastard child when he knocks her up and bails? That dictates how much say you have.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 3:39 pm to bgtiger
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Does she own the house? NO? Then you aren't wrong. frick all these classless idiots ITT that complain about society crumbling but shite on you for holding to a standard.
Hell yeah brother, let's take all agency away from our adult kids and then wonder why they can't make a life decision for themselves when they are in their mid-20's!
Posted on 10/9/24 at 3:57 pm to Tvilletiger
Just accept that she is getting the D and move on.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:04 pm to HouseMom
She left Tally because the last storm was going over there and they closed down. That’s why she was there. Could not control it. Now this storm closer to Gainesville she went and got him and they came back home basically.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:24 pm to Tvilletiger
I have not read all 8 pages so my thoughts may be redundant:
It is our job as parents to help our kids become independent adults. Adults that learn how to balance risks and benefits.
The issue I would have focused on was the idiocy of driving south with a major storm headed that way and an entire state evacuation in process. Her actions there tell me she acts in emotion (I need my boyfriend) and not logic (I can’t make things better for him in a wise manner).
I assume her having sex with him takes on the same decision process. The fact that her mother “took her side” just reinforces the fact that she has been taught by an emotional mother to be an emotional adult.
OP: your biggest mistake was getting in an argument with your daughter and for that you need to take the lead and apologize (for anything you said out of anger). But tell her you will never apologize for being overprotective of her safety (driving south) or overprotective of her future (having sex while young which could transform her life).
For those of you who say “everybody has sex that young and dad needs to chill out”. You have no idea how many women out there who have lived with financial struggles trying to raise a baby without a father OR the number of adult women who live with the guilt of having aborted a baby when they were young.
OP is just a dad who is trying to help his young daughter grow into a wise adult woman. The type of woman that is prepared to raise great grandchildren of his.
OP- I don’t question your heart or your intent but I can question your anger. Get that right so your little girl can hear your wisdom.
It is our job as parents to help our kids become independent adults. Adults that learn how to balance risks and benefits.
The issue I would have focused on was the idiocy of driving south with a major storm headed that way and an entire state evacuation in process. Her actions there tell me she acts in emotion (I need my boyfriend) and not logic (I can’t make things better for him in a wise manner).
I assume her having sex with him takes on the same decision process. The fact that her mother “took her side” just reinforces the fact that she has been taught by an emotional mother to be an emotional adult.
OP: your biggest mistake was getting in an argument with your daughter and for that you need to take the lead and apologize (for anything you said out of anger). But tell her you will never apologize for being overprotective of her safety (driving south) or overprotective of her future (having sex while young which could transform her life).
For those of you who say “everybody has sex that young and dad needs to chill out”. You have no idea how many women out there who have lived with financial struggles trying to raise a baby without a father OR the number of adult women who live with the guilt of having aborted a baby when they were young.
OP is just a dad who is trying to help his young daughter grow into a wise adult woman. The type of woman that is prepared to raise great grandchildren of his.
OP- I don’t question your heart or your intent but I can question your anger. Get that right so your little girl can hear your wisdom.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:42 pm to Tvilletiger
So you’re pissed. Your daughter is upset. Y’all had a huge fight. All you did was cockblock. They’re already boning and they’ll continue to bone. Stopping her from getting dicked this one night isn’t accomplishing anything. Except now she is pissed and is going to make sure to dicked extra just to spite you.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 10:50 pm
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:50 pm to Tvilletiger
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She went from Tally to Gainesville to get her boyfriend (he is not allowed his car there)
Why TF didn't his parents go get him?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:51 pm to Packer
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She went from Tally to Gainesville to get her boyfriend (he is not allowed his car there)
Why TF didn't his parents go get him?
bro, did you ever college hormone?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:54 pm to jizzle6609
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There are no financially independent people in there 20s right now
are you this fricking stupid? Are you saying the majority of 20-29 year olds in the US aren't financially independent?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:57 pm to Midtiger farm
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Are you saying the majority of 20-29 year olds in the US aren't financially independent?
yeah, I let that one go, my daughter bought her first home in her mid-twenties, paid it off and has upgraded to her swankier second home
Posted on 10/9/24 at 4:59 pm to 777Tiger
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bro, did you ever college hormone?
As a Dad, you would have let your son's 18 y/o GF go pick him up when a storm is coming? Or would you have went and got him yourself?
I'm not calling into question two horny young adults, I'm questioning the beta Dad.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 5:00 pm
Posted on 10/9/24 at 5:00 pm to Packer
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As a Dad, you would have let your son's 18 y/o GF go pick him up when a storm is coming? Or would you have went and got him yourself?
didn't read all of this but I get the impression she did it and then told him
Posted on 10/9/24 at 5:00 pm to Tvilletiger
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Her mom was almost egging it on.
Was she "egging it on" or was she just disagreeing with you?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 5:16 pm to Green Chili Tiger
Update.
Do t feel guilty at all. I just cooked them dinner at my place.
His mom is just as strict and would not even stay here either so… Both families agree.
Do t feel guilty at all. I just cooked them dinner at my place.
His mom is just as strict and would not even stay here either so… Both families agree.
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