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Taking this to the OT for advice.

Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:03 am
Posted by Tvilletiger
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:03 am
My daughter (18) no pics mfs.
She went from Tally to Gainesville to get her boyfriend (he is not allowed his car there) and drove back home yesterday afternoon.
Hurricane is coming bad idea already.
They made it back here.
She then late night decides she is going to stay with him at his parents house.
I said hell no.
I get that they do this when they are away in college.
Not here though.
Am I wrong on this?
I am still so pissed.
My ex then decided to be her best friend (she is jealous that she is here with me) and say that she should be able to do that that made things about 100x worse.
Huge fight ensued.
Am I wrong?
She ended up here but it was not pretty.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 8:06 am
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
24002 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:05 am to
She’s an adult and can go get dicked down during the hurricane if she wants
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 8:06 am
Posted by BengalShark
Member since Jul 2017
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:05 am to
You’ve come to the right place
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:06 am to
quote:


My daughter (18) no pics mfs.


quote:

She then late night decides she is going to stay with him at his parents house.


quote:

Am I wrong?


Yep. You're wrong. Get over it.

The only leg you'd have to stand on would be not allowing them to share a bed in YOUR house.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 8:08 am
Posted by Boss13
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Member since Oct 2016
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:06 am to
No, you are absolutely right. She is not mature enough to make that kind of decision and you have no idea if

a) she is telling the truth
b) what kind of supervision she will have

She is a child and where she goes and what she does is your decision until she moves out.

Congrats on the grandchild by the way...
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 8:07 am
Posted by Tvilletiger
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:06 am to
I disagree. Call me old school if you want.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70353 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:07 am to
Would you prefer her boyfriend pork her under your roof or his parents’ roof?
Posted by Alyosha
Member since Nov 2020
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:08 am to
Do you pay her bills?
Posted by TCO
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:08 am to
quote:

She is a child


No she’s not.
Posted by Tvilletiger
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Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:08 am to
Guys she showed up home crying in freaking pajamas. It was a huge fight. Her mom was almost egging it on.
WTf
Posted by MrWhipple
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Member since Jun 2016
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:09 am to
My philosophy was when they are paying 100% of their bills then they can make 100% of the decisions.
Posted by CrazyTigerFan
Member since Nov 2003
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:09 am to
quote:

I disagree.
Then why ask for outsiders' opinions? Daddy needs affirmation?
Posted by terriblegreen
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Member since Aug 2011
12267 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:09 am to
Grow some balls MF. You sound like a pussy.
Posted by Tvilletiger
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Member since Oct 2015
5989 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:10 am to
I do. Just waking up to this. I don’t think I am wrong on this but the entire female side of my family appears to.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70353 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:10 am to
Just hug her, let her inside, and be glad she’s safe. Figure out whether you should discipline her later and how. Ask yourself how you would have handled that situation when you were 18 with your girlfriend.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
24225 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:11 am to
Overbearing parent to an adult sounds awful.
Posted by Tvilletiger
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Member since Oct 2015
5989 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:11 am to
It would not have even been a question when I was a kid.
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
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38896 posts
Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:13 am to
Are you paying all her bills?
Posted by Loup
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Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:13 am to
Is she still dependent on you? That's the only way you really have a leg to stand on. She's an adult, not much you can do if you can't threaten to cut her off. It's happening without you knowing when she's at school, why does it bother you so much at home?


It always seems like a dude forgets women like to frick too after he has a daughter
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 11:15 am
Posted by SUB
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 8:13 am to
quote:

I get that they do this when they are away in college. Not here though.


Why do you care more about the location that your daughter sleeps with her boyfriend than the act itself?
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