re: Society melting due to lack of fathers in the home

All part of the plan

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It makes me appreciate my father and the old school type of man that he is even more.

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That’s been chiefly on my mind for a long time now. Far from perfect, however, I am so grateful for him raising us with values, morals, work ethic, and faith, as well as the lifelong commitment he made to my mom and us kids.

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It's boomers faults. They married young and discovered this thing called divorce and used it like it was an eraser for a pencil. Then when daddy and mommy start whoring around town since they are the Jones's everyone wants to be like the Jones's. Next thing you know there are pineapples everywhere and then genital warts. Shits gone to hell and back.

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It has always been this way since the dawn of time but in our modern hubris we think we are smarter than every generation before us just because we have iPhones

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Perfect

Yet, y’all talk so much shite about single moms and moms in general. At least these moms aren’t abandoning their kids and are paying for them while these deadbeats leave with no consequences or repercussions.

I will never understand the hate these women get when they’re not the ones getting someone pregnant and abandoning them with 100% of the responsibility child raising.

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Yet, y’all talk so much shite about single moms and moms in general. At least these moms aren’t abandoning their kids and are paying for them while these deadbeats leave with no consequences or repercussions.

I will never understand the hate these women get when they’re not the ones getting someone pregnant and abandoning them with 100% of the responsibility child raising.

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First, you're a guy

Second, nobody hates on responsible single moms. We hate on single moms who take duckface selfies and bring home boyfriends to their kids. Or those who have multiple kids with multiple men.

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At least these moms aren’t abandoning their kids and are paying for them while these deadbeats leave with no consequences or repercussions.

I will never understand the hate these women get when they’re not the ones getting someone pregnant and abandoning them with 100% of the responsibility child raising.

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i know you're a dude, but do you have any idea how many of these situations are mothers keeping the kid away from the father for no good reason? it's not insignificant

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I posted a similar thread a few days ago and it got sunk with the quickness. Pretty sure because I discussed God, but I’m still not sure why.

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Maybe you're just an a-hole?

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The issues is absent parents (does not matter the combination of parents)

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This too.

The idea that kids raised in a 2 parent household turn out better simply because of that isn't necessarily the case anymore. I'd love to see research & stats on divorced homes where the kids are shuffled around every week. The environment, parents level of education, parenting styles- all these things also play a pretty significant factor.

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This is totally and utterly wrong. Just go back and edit your post. There are books dedicated to this topic that you should read

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I'd like to see these so called books, because I've seen studies saying the biggest factor is two parents, not the sex of the parents. Two parents are more financially stable, two parents are more likely to have completed higher education, two parents have the ability to give the attention and encouragement that one parent regardless of sex can offer. A two parent household is just more stable, consistent, and has more resources.

You tell me a child from a single parent household vs a child from two parent single sex household is better off? I'm calling bullshite, big time. If the options are single parent home, split custody home, or two parent gay household, the child from the two parent gay household head and shoulders above the other two has a better chance of making it as a contributing member of society.