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re: Rock (wife) between (me) Hard place (my family)

Posted on 9/2/23 at 11:54 pm to
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
13921 posts
Posted on 9/2/23 at 11:54 pm to
quote:

my sister said she didn’t trust my wife…now, my wife hadn’t done anything to warrant that comment but my sister said it



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So i ask…..why does my wife put me in this situation



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I’ll hang up and listen…,


Sounds to me like your sister put you in that situation and not your wife, dumb arse.
Posted by UnrealMFer
Georgia
Member since Aug 2023
145 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 12:31 am to
quote:

She said she wouldn’t go not that you couldn’t.


I think it's implied given that she obviously carries his balls in her purse.
Posted by Irregardless
Member since Nov 2021
2237 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 12:49 am to
Your wife did not put you in this situation.

Check the mirror and man up.
Posted by tjohn deaux
GA
Member since Feb 2007
10398 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 2:05 am to
You are not responsible for your wife's relationships.

You can't make someone trust/respect your wife. That's her problem.
Posted by shoelessjoe
Member since Jul 2006
11183 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 3:50 am to
Your family sounds like my family. I would do whatever would ensure pissing off your sister and other family members the most. My brothers wife won’t talk to me, my wife or my mother, so I try to piss her off as much as possible. Your wife is the only one that matters. If it pisses her off, you side with her.
Posted by josh336
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2007
82005 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 6:16 am to
Sounds like your sister suspects your wife cheats on you.
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7673 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 6:30 am to
Is it possible your wife is a narcissist ?
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44890 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 6:31 am to

Sounds like you’re the one creating the problem by not addressing the issue.

Also, if my sister told me that she didn’t trust my husband, I’d demand to know why. If my husband wasn’t treated well or was made uncomfortable around people bc they didn’t like him, I wouldn’t go either. My wedding vows said that I would love, honor and protect him above all others.
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
22316 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:13 am to

If your sister can't control her mouth, tell her that's why and stay away.

Life's too short. Staying away from the assholes in your family is liberating.

Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78162 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:30 am to
Why doesn't your sister trust your wife? Is going to steal items out of the house? Is she going to report the goings on to the CCP? This is a necessary detail.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78162 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:31 am to
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If your sister can't control her mouth, tell her that's why and stay away
We don't know why the sister has issues with the wife. Maybe his wife is a loser and addict and that's why she doesn't trust her.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
71012 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:41 am to
Sounds like you have some issues with your wife if she hasn’t done ANYTHING as you say in the OP and you’re blaming her.

If your wedding was like mine you stated vows to your wife on the altar. YOU are the common link between your wife and family and YOU need to man up and communicate.
Posted by rondo
Worst. Poster. Evar.
Member since Jan 2004
77493 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:50 am to
Does your sister play with your peen? Then side with the one who does


Eta: your sister seems to be the problem here
Posted by latxwoman
Member since Mar 2019
814 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 7:56 am to
As someone who is a woman ( no pics) and who has been mistreated by a toxic family like this-- do the right thing. Stand up to them. My husband did, but it was to his dad. He never said a thing to his sisters and Mom, so they continued unabated.

They are vicious and manipulative and love drama. We are on the verge of divorce over this, and we've been together for a very long time. The drama and manipulation keeps my husband free to do all they need him to do without my involvement. They run him ragged, catering to their every whim, because there's no partner or wife to stand up for him. It's especially bad now that we are older and his parents are too. I refuse to be around them, and have not associated with any of them for about 6 years.

The best advice I can give is to move away. They will end your relationship, and once they are gone you will be alone. Not fair to you, and apparently they do not care.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:01 am to
Sounds like your sister has put you in that situation.

Also…this double entendres.
quote:

i have to tell my sister that we aren’t coming


Posted by partsman103
Member since Sep 2008
8633 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:01 am to
Go back and re-read your weddings vows. There are 3 key words you must have skipped over..."forsaking all others".

Your wife (and kids, if you have or plan to have) are priority #1.

Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27591 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:06 am to
Sounds like something you needed to take care of a couple years ago.

Have kids with the wife?

If not, take off for a few days. No wife. No family.

Have kids? Probably fricked.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62470 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:10 am to
quote:

kywildcatfanone


quote:

My wife


All this time I thought you were a woman.
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
4897 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:25 am to
You forgot to groom your wife the first 6 months of the relationship. That’s like never house breaking your dog.

Good luck.
Posted by TideSaint
Hill Country
Member since Sep 2008
83232 posts
Posted on 9/3/23 at 8:37 am to
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850SaintsGator


You're a huge pussy.

You CHOSE your wife. You didn't choose your family.

If you can't figure out whose side to take in this situation then you shouldn't be married.

What a bitch.
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