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re: People who are 'emotionally immature' always use these 12 phrases, say experts
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:12 am to Dadren
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:12 am to Dadren
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In a relationship, your goal should be to be reconciled with your SO, not beat them into submission with logic and facts like you’re Ben Shapiro owning a lib or whatever
A LOT of people cannot comprehend this
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Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:15 am to JohnnyKilroy
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In a relationship, your goal should be to be reconciled with your SO, not beat them into submission with logic and facts like you’re Ben Shapiro owning a lib or whatever
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A LOT of people cannot comprehend this
It gets into "You can be right or you can do the right thing." territory.
There does have to be a balance of logic/facts and considering the other's feeling and point of view. Straight logic tends to not be the best answer.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:16 am to TigersSEC2010
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Add “I said what I said” and “my truth”
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:17 am to 777Tiger
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I was just joking!
Well that’s your problem, not mine.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:18 am to LordSaintly
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]5. 'Yeah, whatever.'
This makes me see red.[/quote]
Yeah, whatever
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:18 am to NorthshoreTiger76
This looks like a ChatGPT article.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:18 am to Willie Stroker
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Well that’s your problem, not mine.
I don't have to explain myself to you!
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:19 am to 777Tiger
What about "PIIHB"?
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:20 am to SoFla Tideroller
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What about "PIIHB"?
always acceptable around mature adults
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:31 am to NorthshoreTiger76
Pretty sure I tick most of those boxes.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:36 am to NorthshoreTiger76
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You're talking about the past.'
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:37 am to Joshjrn
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I think people in this thread are missing the “always” part. Sure, everyone says at least one of these on occasion (though there’s a few I would never say), but emotionally immature people always respond to these when confronted. No opinion on right or wrong, but that’s what’s being conveyed.
If anyone reads that list and thinks “I always respond with one of those because…” then yeah, they are probably emotionally immature
You are definitely overreacting.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:42 am to Dadren
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In a relationship, your goal should be to be reconciled with your SO, not beat them into submission with logic and facts like you’re Ben Shapiro owning a lib or whatever.
Men generally have to learn this the hard way as our default setting IS logic and facts. And humans are both fact-based and emotion based. Neither is 100% correct. That's something most men learn through trial and error (this guy included). There probably isn't a woman alive who hasn't had to explain that to a man. We tend to be slow that way.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:43 am to NorthshoreTiger76
I see someone came close with "I was just trying to help"... If someone had just walked up and heard that saying would know there was a big eff up that happened and someone was trying to get out of it...
There were two common words my mom would use "Always" and "Never"... I remember I had it with those two words and one day I said "Don't you know any other words?"
There were two common words my mom would use "Always" and "Never"... I remember I had it with those two words and one day I said "Don't you know any other words?"
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:47 am to Lsupimp
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Men generally have to learn this the hard way as our default setting IS logic and facts. And humans are both fact-based and emotion based. Neither is 100% correct. That's something most men learn through trial and error (this guy included). There probably isn't a woman alive who hasn't had to explain that to a man. We tend to be slow that way.
Truth. And I’m preaching to my self because I still f this up after 24 years of marriage.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:48 am to NorthshoreTiger76
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'I don't need to explain myself to you.'
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You can almost imagine a little kid saying this one
Not mine.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 11:54 am to Dadren
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Truth. And I’m preaching to my self because I still f this up after 24 years of marriage
The post argument is important. It's important that one partner know how to leave the home (the man) and the other partner learn to LET them leave the home without blowing them up with phone calls and texts. Sometimes, when one is upset, silence is golden. Women often wanting instant resolution and men just wanting to GTFO until their heads clear. You shouldn't try to fix something until you actually process it.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 12:04 pm to Lsupimp
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overestimate their relationship grievances and underestimate their relationship blessings
Ha! My best friend and I were discussing this very thing yesterday and how we can try to help our daughters navigate relationships with their boyfriends. For example, women tend to talk things out (beating a dead horse) but guys don't, so women interpret that as being disinterested, when really their man has already made peace with the situation and is thinking about his golf swing. Every interaction like that feels like rejection to a young woman. Thus, the large numbers of "grievances" she tallies.
We were cracking up at how emotionally needy we were as young married women. It's almost like we wanted our husbands to act like us, but then we grew up and finally realized that we'd hate them and find them completely unattractive if they had been as emotionally needy as we were.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 12:12 pm to Aguga
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The next person to use gaslighting is going to get pistol whipped
I despise this term.
Only people that use it is women when then can't admit they are wrong.
Posted on 2/6/25 at 12:18 pm to LordSaintly
So "shut the frick up, bitch" is not on there. I knew I was fully mature and this confirms it.
Does claiming to have a big dick make me immature?
Does claiming to have a big dick make me immature?
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