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re: Measure of Wealth and Success
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:06 pm to Shanegolang
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:06 pm to Shanegolang
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Who is to say what the proper measure is?
That’s the question. What’s the measure of success and/or wealth to you?
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:16 pm to kciDAtaE
Life is about groups, big and small.
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:20 pm to Kat655
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1000% agree as an immigrant myself
The immigrants are happy.
Natural borns with the silver spoon in mouth and daddy bought them a F150 are miserable because immigrants “took our jobs.”
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:37 pm to Twenty 49
A lot of really good points in here. One thing I’ve learned is Happiness is a choice, you have to choose to be happy or as some say, let yourself be happy. I’m successful and moderately wealthy but with both of those come new issues and stress. That may also be more because what I define as successful. Neither are the main drivers for happiness. They do contribute though.
Posted on 1/23/21 at 12:12 am to kciDAtaE
I can remember being 16, 18, 20 years old and wishing I could have a glimpse of my future self 10,20,30 years in the future to see if I had succeeded. Well, it took 10, 20, 30 years for those glimpses but, I had.
My 20 year old self would have asked my older self if things would turn out out well, but my now 50 year old self would not answer. That anxiety and insecurity was a great motivator.
My 20 year old self would have asked my older self if things would turn out out well, but my now 50 year old self would not answer. That anxiety and insecurity was a great motivator.
This post was edited on 1/23/21 at 12:15 am
Posted on 1/23/21 at 12:19 am to kciDAtaE
I used to measure my success by the fact that I wanted my kids to graduate college debt free. This held my wife and I back, not that this is a negative on our families, we just want to be able to help out kids out in a way we didn’t have.
Now I’ve moved that goal post on to my grandkids. So that in of itself makes my success. Hopefully I will push additional goals out further as I accomplish them
Now I’ve moved that goal post on to my grandkids. So that in of itself makes my success. Hopefully I will push additional goals out further as I accomplish them
Posted on 1/23/21 at 1:25 am to MSUmtowndawg
I'm so bloody rich, and I only know three chords!!!
Posted on 1/23/21 at 6:35 am to kciDAtaE
To me success overall is being in a better spot then where your parents were. So it’s different for everyone. Take an inner city kid who grew up in a single parent household. If that kid graduates high school, learns a trade and makes a decent living doing say AC or plumbing work. Takes care of his family and so on. I’d say that’s a success.
Same scenario would not be a success for say Gordon McKernans son. Or anyone like that just using Gordon bc he’s well known. So success to me is all relative.
Wealth is not relative like Success in my opinion. It’s a hard number and you either have it or you don’t. Can’t say that you’re wealthy bc you live lifestyle you want and don’t worry about anything. Bc maybe that’s the case but you’re spending all of your money to live said lifestyle and not saving any money for retirement. Trying to finance every vehicle for 8 years to keep up with the Joneses etc. That’s not wealthy to me. It also varies by households. A single guy making 80K a year is more wealthy than a married guy who makes 100K a year and his wife stays at home with their 2 kids. Even though married guy makes more the single guy is wealthier.
Same scenario would not be a success for say Gordon McKernans son. Or anyone like that just using Gordon bc he’s well known. So success to me is all relative.
Wealth is not relative like Success in my opinion. It’s a hard number and you either have it or you don’t. Can’t say that you’re wealthy bc you live lifestyle you want and don’t worry about anything. Bc maybe that’s the case but you’re spending all of your money to live said lifestyle and not saving any money for retirement. Trying to finance every vehicle for 8 years to keep up with the Joneses etc. That’s not wealthy to me. It also varies by households. A single guy making 80K a year is more wealthy than a married guy who makes 100K a year and his wife stays at home with their 2 kids. Even though married guy makes more the single guy is wealthier.
Posted on 1/23/21 at 7:00 am to ZydecoTigah
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Wealth actually has nothing to do with money, but with having the abilities /things (besides money) in abundance that actually make you happy, secure, and relaxed in the ability of these things to take care of you and your family.
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wealth /welTH/ Learn to pronounce noun noun: wealth an abundance of valuable possessions or money.
I get what you’re saying, but you are literally wrong.
Posted on 1/23/21 at 7:28 am to TulaneUVA
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I came from a family of 5, household income of <$50k, and immigrant family. My measure of success is doing better for myself and my family than my upbringing. Bottom line.
I was raised by a single mother on a teachers salary, not poor by any means, but mom definitely had to say no a lot. I do well, but living in a place like Houston can really mess with you in the comparison game. So I think, what would my 9 year old self from small town LA think about future him living on a golf course with a pool and my conclusion was “we rich!”. So be happy.
I’ve found it’s so easy to get caught up in the consumerism/never satisfied culture and it’s happens when you look outward for happiness instead of asking yourself what makes you happy.
For me, I value time a lot more in my late 30’s and doing interesting work. I’ve turned away job opportunities that payed double and we’re crushing hours, because what the hell incremental happiness can I get with that money vs. losing all that time?
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:14 am to kciDAtaE
Per Alan Jackson, a very wealth man:
"Its the people you love, not the money and stuff that makes you rich"
"Its the people you love, not the money and stuff that makes you rich"
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:36 am to kciDAtaE
We’re all gonna die, eventually.
Focus on doing what makes YOU happy, and quit worrying about what people think.
Be greedy, be selfish, be whatever makes you happier.
Focus on doing what makes YOU happy, and quit worrying about what people think.
Be greedy, be selfish, be whatever makes you happier.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:38 am to TulaneUVA
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Key is extracting the hunger and work ethic in my children so that I’m not raising some sissy shits who don’t appreciate what they have. There’s a balance
We have our kids convinced that we are poor. I highly recommend it.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:47 am to kciDAtaE
Comparison is the thief of joy. - Teddy Roosevelt
As long as you judge your own worth and success by what others have accomplished, you will never be happy.
Life is not a zero-sum game. There's room for everyone to be successful in their own way.
As long as you judge your own worth and success by what others have accomplished, you will never be happy.
Life is not a zero-sum game. There's room for everyone to be successful in their own way.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:57 am to kciDAtaE
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How many people here consider themselves successful and/or wealthy...by your own definition?
I’ve always thought success is being the best at what is the most important to you. My relationships in life are the most important thing to me and I try to be the best at that. I’ve done well so I think I’m successful.
Wealth is a different story. Definition of wealth to me is the ability to live the life you want for the rest of your life. I’m not there yet. I’m living my best life but can’t say it will last forever.
What says you?
I says you’re using the wrong metrics
Happiness is what everyone is looking for. Many people think all that equates to happiness, but it really doesn’t. It just makes happiness more fun, but wealth and success is just a tool. That is all, and only if your debt is far lower than your income or wealth. Many people on this very site have great success, and make a nice living, but are also in debt up to their ears, and that builds undue stress, which makes one unhappy.
The secret to all this is income to debt ratio, and even then, that doesn’t make one happy. It just makes being happy more fun.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:59 am to BitBuster
Everybody’s definition of rich is different. I’m not rich according to my definition. I’m wealthier than some but poorer than others. I’m comfortable with where I am financially. Have no debt and zero wants. A good place to be. I always wanted to leave my kids better off than my parents left me. Am there already but it’s relative since wages have more than doubled. Rich? Not me, not by a long shot but everybody’s definition differs.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 8:59 am to kciDAtaE
I'm not in debt and am healthy. I would say I'm successful so far
Posted on 1/25/21 at 9:01 am to kciDAtaE
I think happiness matters a lot more than wealth or success, although they do play into having happiness at some level, but they don't have to.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 9:02 am to kciDAtaE
Happiness is having something to look forward to. That can have something to do with money but not always.
Posted on 1/25/21 at 9:02 am to Landmass
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If you are wealthy and miserable, you failed.
How is that more of a failure than being poor and miserable?
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