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Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:18 am to Gusoline
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and i saw a missed spot on her wiping when we were making love one day

Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:21 am to Saunson69
I’d pick the same woman… she was the best thing to ever happen to me… the only major change would be that I wasn’t a full blown drunk for most of the time we were together. I didn’t deserve her.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:30 am to Billy Blanks
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Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:48 am to Saunson69
Her being connected spiritually and having a strong sense of identity (doesn’t need validation, doesn’t compare herself to others, etc)
Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:56 am to Saunson69
Their family dynamic is important. Pay attention to their parents relationship. Are they married? Divorced? If so, why. All those issues in some way molded that person you are considering marrying.
Personality
Attractiveness
Career Goals (don’t marry a broke woman)
Financial Literacy
Religious Beliefs
Personality
Attractiveness
Career Goals (don’t marry a broke woman)
Financial Literacy
Religious Beliefs
Posted on 2/13/25 at 10:59 am to UptownJoeBrown
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Is this mumble rap?
The opposite. It's quality
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:02 am to Saunson69
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Married OTers, if could go back to single, look for wife again. What would you value most?
Value most: Find someone that has as much to lose as you do & knows how to say I'm sorry. This alone will check a multitude of boxes.
Then: Be a good dude but certainly, "exert your dominance."
Enjoy the good life. I've got it better than I deserve.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:05 am to Saunson69
Find someone that when you get a minute from the hectic pace of work, life, kids…all the shite…you immediately realize again how much you love but also like this woman.
Life is crazy and most of it probably won’t be like the first couple of years together especially if you meet/get married in your 20s.
Life is crazy and most of it probably won’t be like the first couple of years together especially if you meet/get married in your 20s.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:05 am to Saunson69
I’m someone who very much enjoys being left alone. I like time to myself and all that good stuff. I knew I had the one when I found someone who I wanted to be with them more than I wanted to be alone. Don’t get me wrong, I still like having some time to myself each day but she’s super respectful of it and I still catch myself ready to be back with her at the end of it.
We don’t see eye to eye on everything which is fine and our major interests are vastly different but we always find middle ground and take the time to be interested in what the other person is interested in. I think when I saw how easy it was for us to work despite there being a lot of differences and the fact I was naturally prioritizing time with her over what I’d normally want to do that’s how I knew she was it.
All that to say if I could go back and change anything I wouldn’t because I wouldn’t want to end up with anyone different than who I have now. I’m happy. She’s happy. That’s all that matters to me.
We don’t see eye to eye on everything which is fine and our major interests are vastly different but we always find middle ground and take the time to be interested in what the other person is interested in. I think when I saw how easy it was for us to work despite there being a lot of differences and the fact I was naturally prioritizing time with her over what I’d normally want to do that’s how I knew she was it.
All that to say if I could go back and change anything I wouldn’t because I wouldn’t want to end up with anyone different than who I have now. I’m happy. She’s happy. That’s all that matters to me.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:06 am to greenbean
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You need a Latina.
She was a Latina
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:13 am to Saunson69
One that shaves her pussy.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:13 am to Saunson69
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Posted on 2/13/25 at 11:32 am to Pedro
I’m at the point where I know what I want, I just don’t know if I can handle the process of dating to get it. I feel like my life would be easier if I just packed it in and accepted a life of solitude.
Dating apps suck. Matches are few and far between. I’m tired of the texting games. Feeling happy one moment, lonely the next. I guess it’s all a part of rebuilding myself. I don’t have the type of game where I can walk up to a woman in the grocery store and chat her up. I never thought of myself as unattractive until I got into this situation.
Dating apps suck. Matches are few and far between. I’m tired of the texting games. Feeling happy one moment, lonely the next. I guess it’s all a part of rebuilding myself. I don’t have the type of game where I can walk up to a woman in the grocery store and chat her up. I never thought of myself as unattractive until I got into this situation.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 12:23 pm to TexasTiger08
I can relate to much of what you just posted.
Or the ones that I match with, or they initiate first -- whatever the situation, and then they don't text.
I've gotten better at this, partly because I challenged myself -- and partly because I am 50 and why not. The answer with always be no, or I wonder ... if I didn't ask.
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Dating apps suck. Matches are few and far between.
Or the ones that I match with, or they initiate first -- whatever the situation, and then they don't text.
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I don’t have the type of game where I can walk up to a woman in the grocery store and chat her up.
I've gotten better at this, partly because I challenged myself -- and partly because I am 50 and why not. The answer with always be no, or I wonder ... if I didn't ask.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 1:35 pm to Geauxld Finger
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Religious Beliefs
Only matters if the individuals involved are too narrow minded to accept others' views. I was an atheist when I met my wife, almost to the point of militancy. She belonged to small southern Baptist church in her hometown and was still pretty actively going to church when we met. She is now more of an atheist that I am....I am more agnostic who leans toward atheism today, she is almost as arrogant about her lack of faith as most Christians are about their abundance of faith. People change.
Common career goals are also over-rated. My wife and I were both committed DINKs for the first 10 years we were together. She changed our mind LOL. Thank goodness....I can't imagine not having kids now but when we got together it was not in the plan and the plan changed and its the best thing that I ever did.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 1:41 pm to Saunson69
I genuinely got very lucky with my wife. We are very similar yet different in which we complement each other.
Posted on 2/13/25 at 1:43 pm to Saunson69
I’d never get married again.
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