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re: Married Men: Your Opinion

Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:12 am to
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:12 am to
So she cheated during the first year - year and a half, but upon him moving there with her she's been devoted? I'd give her a pass...and I wouldn't believe your friend if he said he had no strange during that same initial time period.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52929 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:12 am to
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Sounds like something a sexual predator would say.

Not me I vote republican
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83534 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:12 am to
damn this would be hard

I would need to know exactly how long she was doing it because if it was the entire 2 years, I'd be gone

If it was for like the first 3 months, we would probably work something out, but it would be hard for me to trust her, and relationships without trust rarely, ever work

basically this relationship is pretty much doomed IMO
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9572 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:13 am to
If she had been forthcoming, he should get over it.

However, since she only admitted after being forced to then tell her to frick off.
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
73142 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:15 am to
I think I know who you're talking about
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38945 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:15 am to
Sounds like the initial 2 years were just long distance...another 2.5 years of real dating, then married for 1.5.

If she broke it off with the ex when ole boy said he was moving to her city to be with her...that's about as much as you can ask. Who knew he would do that? She was just hedging her bets.
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
41880 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:18 am to
quote:

said he found out by talking on facebook to the ex. he asked the ex about the past cause how she was acting towards him back then was how she was acting recently.


It's over
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59448 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:18 am to
quote:


ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES.


Tell us some good whore stories about your mom. She does anal for her pleasure I'm sure. Or tell us about the time your grandma blew 12 sailors in the back alley for fun. That was a good one.
Posted by crispyUGA
Upstate SC
Member since Feb 2011
15919 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:22 am to
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Bitch move. Seriously, stay out of other people's relationships.



I don't want to be involved in anyone's relationship but if someone keeps pestering me, then I'm going to frick with them. Tell him that every Tuesday night when he thinks she's at women's bible study, she's actually at my house licking on my b-hole.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83534 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:23 am to
quote:

Sounds like the initial 2 years were just long distance...another 2.5 years of real dating, then married for 1.5.


the first 1.5 years of me and the wife's relationship was long distance, we basically only saw each other on the weekends

I would have been pissed if she was "hedging her bets" during the week
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73674 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:23 am to
Bitch move...plain and simple.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131320 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:23 am to
So he set himself up? Shame he brought it up himself by confronting the ex after 6 years.

He still needs to split. It will always be in the back of his mind. If he stays with her he will just wind up an alcoholic and she'll end up in bayou manchak.

The ex is a real dick too. He shouldn't have narced her out.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66902 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:23 am to
quote:

If she was banging both guys at the time, is he certain the child


Maybe the other guy only PIIHB so she wouldn't get pregnant. No biggie, guys.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26973 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:26 am to
quote:

said he found out by talking on facebook to the ex. he asked the ex about the past cause how she was acting towards him back then was how she was acting recently.



This.

Facebook + Ex GF + cheating = he's looking for a reason to cheat and priming a piece of arse to cheat with.

Justified or not.

Tough though. Wife and I had a month or two early on. VERY early on when we started seeing each other. She was leaving an ex and I had moved out. Nothing happened, but I could see it. Anything past that? I'd be gone or be like the guy in the OP. I'd feel like I had a "free frick" card and would be combing Facebook or fricking Tinder trying to seal a deal. That's no way to be married or fix problems.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73674 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:26 am to
quote:

Maybe the other guy only PIIHB so she wouldn't get pregnant. No biggie, guys.


Spinoff thread....more pissed she was cheating when yall weren't 100% committed, or that she let him PIIHB and hasn't let you.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:27 am to
quote:

Tell us some good whore stories about your mom. She does anal for her pleasure I'm sure. Or tell us about the time your grandma blew 12 sailors in the back alley for fun. That was a good one.


Tell me where they touched you...

Dude. That mom stuff doesn't phase me. I'm not a woman hater, been married for years. She's a whore, they are all whores.
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
7980 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:29 am to
quote:

Either divorce is inevitable, or she sucks up her whore-ish morale and gives him a free pass to bang whoever he pleases 2 times.


Wtf. You mean bang whoever he pleases for 2 years, right?

Girl getting hammered multiple times a week for years is not equal to 2 free passes.
Posted by BigSquirrel
Member since Jul 2013
1880 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:29 am to
You guys are sad. The answer is clear as can be, the only way to handle a wife who cheats (once a kid is involved) is to cheat. You're going to want to tell her which of her friends you've fricked of course, and make it someone she's typically jealous about if possible. Or tell her the only way you'll trust her again is after a few threesomes and leave her for the other girl. Elementary stuff good chaps.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8118 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:33 am to
I think there are different rules for dating, especially early on, as opposed to marriage. Would have to know exactly when she was screwing around with respect to length of time they'd been dating and how long it continued. Just because she got slammed a few times the first couple months they were together doesn't mean she would whore around now. But what I'd have the biggest issue with is the fact she has lied to him continually for 6 years.
Posted by Bojangles
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2008
2088 posts
Posted on 1/25/17 at 7:34 am to
My Thoughts are that your friend's dumbass selfish wife should have kept it to herself.

7.5 years ago and she confesses?
Wow


Newsflash to everyone reading this:

Confessing is for the cheater not the cheatee.
They want to feel better about themselves.
You did it, live with it.
Ratting yourself out just causes pain for everyone.
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 7:35 am
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