re: Judge gets Red Pilled 51 years too late.

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If he raised them, they are still his sons. Yeah wife cheated on him but that shouldn’t matter as far as the sons go.

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Nope. A relationship founded on a lie doesn't mean the bond should remain.

I get his sentiment on the situation, but I’m not sure I could walk away from my sons, grandkids, and great grandkids just because my wife cheated on me decades ago.

Divorce? Absolutely. But my boy is only 4 and I can’t imagine a scenario where I’d walk away from the love I’ve built for him. These kids are 40 and 42.

The whole “deadbeat” angle makes things a little different I guess. I wonder how he felt about them before he found this out. If they were that bad maybe this is his chance to walk away relatively clean? Who knows. But then you’re still walking away from grandkids who did nothing wrong and don’t deserve to lose a grandfather. It’s a tough situation.

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42 plus years of being lied to. I think I'd kill a bitch.

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In non western countries, you can usually file a lawsuit and get all the money back you spent raising the kids. We need a law like that here in America.

The sons just lost who they thought was their father for the past 40 years. They're a victim to their mother's infidelity as well.
(The whole deadbeat thing is something else.)

“From her lips drip honey, but underneath she is bitter as wormwood “

Sucks he married a whore. He probably thought she was a gorgeous prize the whole time. If I loved those sons I’d consider them mine. Sounds like they are as pathetic as the dads though. Kinda makes a difference

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From where is this money going to materialize? You think his wife has her own bank account with enough cash she earned to recoup the million + dollars it most have cost him for raising these sons over the past 40 years?

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The Jodys. They have likely accumulated significant assets over forty years and he had to raise their children. If nothing else, he can bankrupt them. It would pale in comparison to what they’ve done to him.

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These guys are in their 30s. If he doesn’t want to be their dad anymore he doesn’t have to. They should be mature enough to understand the situation. I swear we have a society of simps.

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What does anything in your post have to do with the word "simp?"

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That’s really sad. I feel so bad for the guy.

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It's way more common than men think.
Most married men are naive, they all think that they married a unicorn.

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I’ve heard it estimated this type of situation(unknowingly raising another man’s child) is around 3-10% of all pregnancies.

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The old country folk had a statement describing this situation:

“Mama’s baby, Papa’s maybe”

Maybe I don’t understand “red-pilled” but why does this qualify? I thought its use, outside of the movie, was to signify someone who had switched to the conservative viewpoint.

Also, they might be someone else’s kids, but he took responsibility for raising them. It’s half his fault they are screw-ups.

Genghis Khan’s wife was raped and impregnated. He adopted the kid. I certainly would not have done so if I knew my wife had cheated, but given that I didn’t know, I would have raised them to be good men.

Tl;dr: That guy is a simp, and it’s no wonder his wife ran around on him.