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Is undergrad college worth it?

Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:14 pm
Posted by Nephropidae
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:14 pm
Dad of 6 here... them all being younger side. All of my life and into early parenthood I considered college something important to strive for...get the best grades you can... get into the best and most prestigious university/scholarship possible.

There is nothing intellectually that I learned in college classes that can’t be learned online with paid courses, masterminds, resources - in modern times.

I’ve had a change of thought over the past few years and it just seems inefficient and more of a social experience unless you are going for a narrowly defined function, engineering... medicine.... which still seems inefficient with a traditional college experience.

With tuition and student loan taking over the whole industry and skyrocketing, do you really think it’s worth a 4-6 year lag in your career/expenses for a social experience?

I’m starting to think it’s not the best thing for my children and a little torn on how I will handle it given the pressure they receive for college testing/prep/peers.
Posted by Pettifogger
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:15 pm to
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Dad of 6 here


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I’m starting to think it’s not the best thing for my children




I am shocked
Posted by jkylejohnson
Alexandria
Member since Dec 2016
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:17 pm to
Send them junior baws to trade school.

Or the obligatory “learn to code”.


This post was edited on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:17 pm to
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I am shocked


No shite.

OP, you need to be on a farm with all those boys.
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:18 pm to
Encourage them to at least knock out a year or two of general courses at a community college just in case they decide they do want a degree down the road. That way they won’t have to get through 4 years of college in their 30’s with kids.
Posted by Finchboyz
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Member since May 2018
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:19 pm to
What other time is it cool to do drugs and sleep with questionable women for 4 years?
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30197 posts
Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:19 pm to
I've always felt that undergrad taught me how to learn, not necessarily made me a master of any particular subject.

That being said,I've long said vocational schools and trade schools should be pushed harder during highschool years.

Four year universities aren't for everyone and there's great money to be made via trade craft and plant work.


ETA: Fwiw, I graduated from UNO in accounting and after three years in my career,I was completely over it.

I've since had a very successful 9 years In industrial sales.
This post was edited on 8/13/21 at 7:22 pm
Posted by cgrand
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm to
if any of your 6 are mechanically inclined

-master plumber
-master electrician
-HVAC technician
-CMC machine operator/designer
-3D printer operator/designer

none of those require a degree but they do require talent and hard work. And those trades offer the ultimate American dream...business ownership
Posted by PeteRose
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm to
Undergrad degree costs more and more over time while it’s value is less and less. But people still buying into it.
Posted by GRTiger
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm to
It's definitely something to strive for. Once they get to that decision point, you can revisit the topic. Better to have the choice.

In other words, don't tell your kids it's cool to be a moron because they can just learn to plumb later in life.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm to
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Dad of 6 here


Totally understand- I have 6 too - my oldest starts at LSU in a few weeks. If my children were not math & science oriented - I don’t think it’s worth it - and I will see how that turns out.

My husband has a bachelors and I have a bachelors and masters, and for most of my life academics was very important to me.

But practical things are more important than reading fancy books that teach you fancy words.
Posted by The Third Leg
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:21 pm to
College is far more than a social experience, though that it is a huge part of it. Getting through college demonstrates the ability to accomplish a major long term objective in the face of infinite distraction.
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:22 pm to
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Or the obligatory “learn to code”.


Yea that's a worn out misconception from the early 90s dotcom bubble. Maybe back then you were getting 60k as a software dev right out of college, but it hasn't been like that in a while.
This post was edited on 8/13/21 at 7:24 pm
Posted by Nephropidae
Brentwood
Member since Nov 2018
2387 posts
Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:24 pm to
I expected this response and it’s funny. Finances do play a part in this thought process but not the full part. We are adequately saving for all of them but I feel a better return on that money for them would not be old school college.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98203 posts
Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:25 pm to
Probably not for a lot of people. That said, without a degree you're going to be locked out of a lot of fields. Even in areas that don't require a degree, you'll need one to move up the ladder very far. It may not matter to you, you can make a great living as a tradesman. But if you aspire to be sitting in an office when your 50 instead of still out on the shop floor, you're probably going to need that sheepskin. You don't have to do it as a full time student from 18-22, but somewhere along the way you'll need to pick it up.

And, you're not getting into grad school without an undergrad degree.
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
3829 posts
Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:29 pm to
Some very good questions. I'm about in mid-life and asking myself those same questions, first about my education, then about how to pay for others' college.

Item 1: My pops paid for both degrees and I wish he didn't. I'm not asking to pay him back, but putting me on the hook for a piece of each would probably have given me a bit more direction.

Item 2: Of any practical skills I took away from college, I could have absolutely learned them from a far cheaper community college or tech course. Also, all of those skills and lessons were significantly amplified because I worked a lot during college and grad school. My practical experience really amplified my learning because I was already out there doing things they talked about. That was a big positive.

Item 3: The benefits of a college education were the network it got me, learning how to network better, soft skills, etc... I have had quite a few hookups in life because I worked the connection magic like crazy, and I wish I had done more!

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With tuition and student loan taking over the whole industry and skyrocketing, do you really think it’s worth a 4-6 year lag in your career/expenses for a social experience?


Free advice here, take it for what its worth since I don't know you. But if I had six kids and an income short of magnificent, this is what I would do:
- make it clear when they are 12-14 that they are on the hook for half of undergrad
-promote some exposure to different careers, internships, co-ops during high school, maybe a year of work in sales or something in-between high school and undergrad. This will lend some real-world perspective that will give direction and amplify lessons in classes like accounting or econ
-in-state college, very useful degree (business, engineering, education, etc)
-minimum 3 years after undergrad for graduate, if not 5-7.
-make sure they understand college is not about getting a card punched, IE average grades and dorm life. Participation in extra-curriculars will be a plus. Club sports, greek life, internships, study groups, a professional relationship with professors, all have served me really well in life. These things will teach your kid to embrace a tough situation, negotiate, give-and-take, get in the door, burn the midnight oil, and generally exceed the expectations.

Also some follow-through after college is important. Even if only for a few years, life in a big city working and socializing with a bunch of young professionals is a huge deal for your career. Living in apartments near hundreds of other up-and-coming guys and girls in places like Atlanta, Chicago, etc.. is a great way to get a better job, meet friends, have a dating life, and overall amplify your twenties. We've all scattered across the country now but still stay in touch with our twenties friends from the city as much as our college friends.

Of course all this assumes they want college. I know a lot of guys in my industry that kick some major arse and make six figures with a trade school education. They are very productive and spent a few years in the field then graduated to management. This path, despite being "not cool" according to assholes like Joe Biden and his friends, will be available for plenty of years to come.
This post was edited on 8/13/21 at 7:38 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:30 pm to
Not any more. Trade school
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:31 pm to
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Is undergrad college worth it?

Nope. Just jump straight to overgrad college.
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:32 pm to
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I’m starting to think it’s not the best thing for my children and a little torn on how I will handle it given the pressure they receive for college testing/prep/peers.


They put pressure on them because that’s their job.

If college was such a good deal, why would we have a student loan crisis?

You may find this article by a Dad who retired early discussing his son’s high school education and likely passing on college helpful. LINK
Posted by wm72
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2010
7798 posts
Posted on 8/13/21 at 7:34 pm to
It depends on the kid but I'd say that a good college education's greatest value lies in honing critical reasoning skills.

The "facts" don't really matter compared to the confidence and tools that allow one to take competing/proposed "facts" and navigate them intelligently throughout life.


I certainly wouldn't try to discourage a kid that wants to go to college by pretending that the value of higher education is reducible to the number on a future paycheck stub.
This post was edited on 8/13/21 at 7:39 pm
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