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re: Is it upsetting to hear that a couple doesn't want children?

Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:15 pm to
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:15 pm to
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We have all had friends like you and we already know how this movie ends. You either have a baby or you split up



I know this much. You don't have any friends like me. People like me aren't friends with people like you.

Also, if we split up because we couldn't find enough happiness together without a baby, then we probably weren't a good fit.

Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:17 pm to
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Why do people with children seem upset when other people say they don't want kids?


A. The vast majority of people that say this are sub-35 and end up changing their minds (it's beyond rational thought, it's biology).

B. Women who don't have children end up being cuckoo.

C. If you're not having children why are you getting married? All you're doing is dating. And eventually you will divorce because there's no point to your marriage.
This post was edited on 5/15/17 at 2:18 pm
Posted by Blue Velvet
Apple butter toast is nice
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:17 pm to
The irony of all these white folk who believe it's their duty to the state ( ) to have white children to cancel out the poor black kids is that the white folk having a ton of kids are often still retarded, hyper-religious, and overall shitty parents. Sounds pretty racist too, right? The smart folk around the world see kids as one or none. You really think that the inbred, college-football-obsessed, drunk rednecks of the OT with 4+ kids are super supportive of those kids and are monitoring their education and future? Got a problem with blacks having 10 kids? Stop paying them to do so and giving them handouts, dumbass. Look how this state votes. You really think the solution to this Idiocracy is "cancelling out" the children of some moron who gets paid to have a dozen kids? Jesus.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:17 pm to
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So you're in to seeing children get injured and kiddie porn?

Well done, Pecker. Don't reproduce.




Why can't you handle the banter when it goes the other direction? I would obviously wait until she was 18. Even in states where the age of consent is lower, I would wait out of respect for you.
This post was edited on 5/15/17 at 2:23 pm
Posted by Dont_Call_Me_RAY
Member since Feb 2017
1439 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:18 pm to
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Why do people with children seem to not mind their own business when other people say they don't want kids?


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Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10526 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:19 pm to
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Good people who have kids understand that it is the greatest most fulfilling thing you could ever do in your life.


I'm sure this is true for a lot of people (I'm not a parent myself), but fulfillment in regards to your life is something defined differently by every person. OP and his SO have a much better grasp of what will fulfill their lives than the friendly couple or anyone else.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Member since Jul 2009
50941 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:20 pm to
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You either have a baby or you split up


I truly pity people who think having a baby is necessary for a successful marriage.

If you need kids to stay married, you don't have a very good marriage.
Posted by mikelbr
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Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:22 pm to
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Why can't you handle the banter when it goes the other direction? I would obviously wait until she was 18. Even in states where the age of 18 is lower, I would wait out of respect for you.


Isn't ironic(hell I don't know for sure) that, in a thread about fricking tards not wanting kids,
One of you also doesn't see the difference between a "redirection of banter" and fantasizing about ejaculating on a man's teenage daughter.


Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
23099 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:23 pm to
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will say that the people who continue without kids (by choice) and don't ultimately change their position often aren't the nicest or most likable people, on average.


Most, not all, but most couples that I've come across that don't want kids have an extremely inflated sense of self worth.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83168 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:23 pm to
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I would say bitter, selfish, unfriendly, more likely to be liberal or atheist. Not claiming those are accurate.



You do realize that being liberal or atheist doesn't go hand-in-hand with bitter, selfish, or unfriendly.. right? Plenty of good-hearted caring people don't believe in jesus, and frankly, it is the attitude of "only faith can make you a good person" that turns people away from christians.

There's a whoooooole lot of believers who are shite people. Shitheads come from all backgrounds. Half the child abuse stories you read are from people with devoutly religious parents.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:25 pm to
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Also, if we split up because we couldn't find enough happiness together without a baby, then we probably weren't a good fit.



Sweet Baby Jesus(or Rays) Let's revisit this at his 5 year wedding anniversary. All bitches/wives wanna baby one day. Often time it hits them when they realize they're with the wrong person to give them one.

I don't give a frick about pulling it up for you but you can go find stats supporting kidless marriages and the wife remarrying and having a kid ASAP. FACTUAL AND ACTUAL , kiddo.
This post was edited on 5/15/17 at 2:25 pm
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:25 pm to
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Let's revisit this at his 5 year wedding anniversary.


I say this in all of his threads.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:25 pm to
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There's a whoooooole lot of believers who are shite people. Shitheads come from all backgrounds. Half the child abuse stories you read are from people with devoutly religious parents.


im gonna take it you had some bad experiences with spiritual leaders when you were younger....?

but you are correct you dont have to be a believer in jesus just to be a caring person or vice versa. Anyone who thinks that probably isnt all there.
This post was edited on 5/15/17 at 2:42 pm
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:26 pm to
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Isn't ironic(hell I don't know for sure) that, in a thread about fricking tards not wanting kids,
One of you also doesn't see the difference between a "redirection of banter" and fantasizing about ejaculating on a man's teenage daughter.




I didn't know her age, as it was never provided. I even promised to wait until she's 18 (lawfully of course - and out of respect). If you can't say things about my fiance and I can't say things about your future of-age daughter, then I don't want to live in this world anymore.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:26 pm to
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Half the child abuse stories you read are from people with devoutly religious parents.



AMEN SISTA.

Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86726 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:26 pm to
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You do realize that being liberal or atheist doesn't go hand-in-hand with bitter, selfish, or unfriendly.. right?


I don't think that is what Petti was inferring

just that those characteristics are the stereotypes for the "childfree movement"
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:27 pm to
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All bitches/wives wanna baby one day.


Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:28 pm to
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I didn't know her age, as it was never provided. I even promised to wait until she's 18 (lawfully of course - and out of respect). If you can't say things about my fiance and I can't say things about your future of-age daughter, then I don't want to live in this world anymore.


I said she was in a fricking school talent competition you no reading rocky-top hillbilly motherfricker you.

And Stop downvoting me!!

This post was edited on 5/15/17 at 2:30 pm
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46211 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:29 pm to
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without ever wanting to reproduce, I'd say that person has some type of mental or biological defect

For some it's not that simple. Not being married made having kids fairly difficult. I didn't want to be a single parent. It's not something I set out to do, but it's also not something I can change. I can look back and cry and lament about not having kids or I can accept that that's the way my life went and be content with the experiences I did have.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87748 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 2:31 pm to
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Well, 8-9 couples you know certainly seems like a wide enough sample to make such fantastically idiotic statements...



Oh I see

quote:

MusclesofBrussels


Is a total fricking idiot who wants so badly to refute an argument that he'll invent one where it doesn't exist.


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