re: Insufferable C-word (who happens to be Asian) questions if her bf has an asian fetish

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Been dating an Asian for a few months

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What is an Asian vagina like?

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San Francisco people are a different breed bro. They’re probably chastising him for whitesplaining and racism

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The bros out there even have to know when a chick is batshit crazy. This is Portland level crazy, which is shockingly worse than San Fran.

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So I returned to him with homework.

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so in an article where she is complaining about possible Asian fetishizing, she does the most Asian thing imaginable?

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:racist:

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I wasn't going to mention that some Orientals are extreme racists. I have not had interaction with this girl and cannot say, with certainty, that she is, or isn't.

Something sure is bothering her though. I don't think she will every be transparent about the real reason(s) she is going to run ole baw off.

If you want her, she will be available soon.

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Even if he does have an "asian fetish" why would she be bothered by that?

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“You need to both be blind to my race and respectful of it.”

I kinda get her hangups here. There’s a big difference in being attracted to Asian women and having an Asian fetish. Attraction is mostly based on appearances or behaviors you see in the moment. A fetish is based on stereotypes. Asian women are stereotyped as publicly reserved, shy, innocent, feminine, intelligent, physically weak, and emotionally submissive, but behind closed doors are nimphomaniacs with rape and tenticle fantasies.

Basically, the stereotypes of how Asian women behave in relationships are literally the antithesis of modern feminist thought, and the men who crave such a relationship thus must be the picture of that toxic masculinity that must be combatted.

Basically, she fears that he is attracted to her not based on who she really is but only due to stereotypical assumptions and possibly latent desires to engage in abusive behaviors. So, she responds in the most stereotypical way possible and gives him homework

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What is an Asian vagina like?

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It’s pretty damn amazing. I didn’t have an Asian fetish before dating her, but I might now. Holy cow was it awesome!

He could do better. Mentally, I mean. Crazy comes in all colors, shapes, and sizes.

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He was there for a party I was hosting, and he didn’t hit on me. He asked me questions and listened to my answers. We discovered we had gone to the same college, had the exact same self-made major, were both left-handed, loved to write, didn’t drink and couldn’t handle spicy food. A mutual friend we both loved was sick, and we initially started seeing each other just to visit her in the hospital.

One evening we found ourselves alone together. I told him my plan to be single for a long time and that we could only be friends. He told me that he honestly felt more but would respect my needs. He never pushed, but we kept seeing each other, kept asking each other questions, listening to the answers. It never got boring.

As I started to consider lifting my relationship ban, that old white ghost came back again: the whispers of Asian fetish. He has a pattern of dating Asian women. Do you know how many Asian girlfriends he’s had? He just might have an Asian fetish.

“What the frick?!” I demanded of him.

“I’ve never seen it that way!” he insisted. “I grew up in Cupertino, so most of my classmates were Asian, and not all of my girlfriends have been Asian … but yes, most I guess. I just never thought about it.”

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Wow. This has to be one of the saddest things I've ever read in a "relationship" column. I don't know if she realizes it, but this makes her look like an absolutely terrible person. She basically described how great of a person he is before she had to berate him for the atrocious crime of allegedly being attracted to Asian women.

That, ladies and gentlemen, is how disturbing and dysfunctional modern radical progressivism is.

It basically turns you into a secular Torquemada, always at the ready to strike up the Inquisition and destroy those around you - even loved ones - because they dare make the "heretical" mistake of offending your progressive sensibilities and defying SJW doctrine.

I’ve never met a woman that wasn’t insecure. That’s just a designed feature. The key is identifying whether that insecurity manifests itself in healthy behaviors or unhealthy behaviors that you cannot deal with. The insecurity in this chick leading to her questioning the motivations of her boyfriend is the kind of insecurity that would be fatal to a relationship. I hope she talked out this thought process with her boyfriend before publishing this op-ed, but I doubt it.