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re: I think schools confiscating a phone from a child is strange.

Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:17 am to
Posted by tigersmanager
Member since Jun 2010
8130 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:17 am to
You and your wife are the problem
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41109 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:18 am to
I never said she was upset with the school…not even close.
Posted by yaherrdme
The Place to Be
Member since Feb 2004
5653 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:21 am to
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I guess they’re supposed to turn in their phone to the office each morning…and my son has not and does not…


So the rule was to turn it in each morning and he basically told them to F off he was not doing that ? Seems like he was being blatantly disrespectful and deserves whatever punishment he received. I saw you mention is was an all boys school, so obviously it is a private schools. Very easy decision, either follow the rules or choose a different school.
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
51672 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:21 am to
Mama must have been a leftist
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
36380 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:21 am to
If you taught you're kids to follow the rules this wouldnt be a problem now would it?
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
19062 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:21 am to
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Our school keeps it until end of day the first time and students can pick up their phone before going home.

After the first time, the parents have to go to the school to pick it up. How long it stays there is up to the parents. The point is to make the, aware of the issue and inconvenience them so they address it at home.

Chances are that the school keeping it for the week isn't the 1st or 2nd punishment either.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
19062 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:25 am to
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Parents did not know and for the most part did not care where their kids were. The only time it became an issue was if the parent needed the kid for something, like running to the store for cigarettes, of the kid had done something and another adult asked the parent about it. Our parents did not know where were, who we were with and what we were doing...and they did not care as long as we was home before it got dark or before curfew when we started driving

Sounds like you had some shitty parents. Mine wanted to know where I was and who I was with; they had very little ability to verify and simply trusted us to be honest, but they still wanted to know what we were doing and with who.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
3797 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:26 am to
Is it any wonder why kids are so lazy and entitled these days?

Be the boss, you're the parent.
Posted by winkchance
St. George, LA
Member since Jul 2016
5217 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:28 am to
OP - the image of what the problem is in society today.

Don't even consider that your little lamb had it confiscated for a reason or possibly the young squire is lying to you (Because that is what teenage boys do when they f#ck up).

And, his phone was so important that working out was more important than checking in with parents. How about you teach your son to follow the school rules and be a little more responsible.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2229 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:31 am to
If they took it, then he had it out and was playing on it instead of doing whatever he was supposed to do.

I never tracked my son’s location. Never felt the need to. If my daughter got her phone taken, she would have to tell me where she was going and get back when she said she would. I track it now because she often gives other kids in the band rides and goes to places where she isn’t familiar. Plus her car is unreliable. I too was from the generation where we had to be home by dark and our parents usually didn’t know where we were. I sort of feel sorry for today’s kids, being “plugged in” all the time. My generation was happier and less anxious.
Posted by NOLALGD
Member since May 2014
2527 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:31 am to
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I don’t keep track of his location (I don’t share my location with him or my wife)…but my wife sees the top speeds and talks to him about it. I bought him a new sports car, so she likes to make sure he’s keeping it safe


You gave a 17/18 year old a new sports car and get mad at him when he speeds?????
Posted by double d
Amarillo by morning
Member since Jun 2004
16865 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:35 am to
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I bought him a new sports car,


sports car, kicker....yep he's a beta. Should have got the baw a truck!
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
35210 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:36 am to
quote:

kids aren't drinking, smoking, or having sex and this has been a trend for years
Sounds lame
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
75114 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:37 am to
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 I bought him a new sports car, so she likes to make sure he’s keeping it safe
Is this real? Even if you can easily afford it, why would you indulge your kid like that. I could buy my kids nice sports cars too, but I told them kids need something safe but humble as their first car, especially because they aren't paying for it. They're poor, I'm not.
Posted by winkchance
St. George, LA
Member since Jul 2016
5217 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:38 am to
quote:

I never said she was upset with the school…not even close.


Gaston- confused about a lot it seems.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41109 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:39 am to
I only get mad at him when he picks up door dings in parking lots…gotta park that shite far away:

Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41109 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:40 am to
She was upset because she didn’t know where he was, not at the school. Keep up.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
17977 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:43 am to
Sounds like you need to pop your titty out of his mouth.

quote:

but it’s odd to take something we pay for and utilize for ‘safety’ purposes…to punish him.


Then don't send it to school
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
7275 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:43 am to
We had a large group meeting for work last month and everyone starting talking about their kids. I realized my wife and I were in a small minority of people who don’t track their kids movement somehow.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58785 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 9:44 am to
quote:

I think giving a phone to a child is strange.



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