re: I know I've come to the wrong place for advice, but,

I feel better now about my family

They make vegan hotdogs

If she never eats any meat at all and you drop a bunch of hot dogs on her, she is gonna spend the night shitting like a mule. I wouldn't do it....

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give it to her and tell daughter they were vegan dogs.

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That’s a good idea but you better go find some real vegan dogs and throw a few out if you are going to go that route. Mom will check.

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give her the hot dog. If they are forcing her to be vegetarian, it'll all fall apart one day anyway.

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On the principle... I’m iffy about going over the parents heads on this, but in practice absolutely not. This girl hasn’t produced the digestive hormones to digest meat. If she eats meat, then she’ll be fricking sick. She’ll have stomach cramps and vomit.

You can’t do it, even if you want her to eat meat. The parents have to change or she has to want it once she knows the consequences of her actions.

Your relationship with your family is more important than giving a kid a hot dog. Don’t do it and make sure you tell your daughter that you didn’t. It will build trust

That’s your grand baby

Grandparents are supposed treat them like gold

Do it

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Honestly, speaking from experience as the one dealing with grandparents who wouldn't follow our wishes..

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Did your daughter tell you not to give them hotdogs or other animal based protein?

I only know three adult vegans, but none of them force their children or spouse into it. They just won't make any animal based foods for them, which means the children and spouse are vegans by default since the vegan is the one preparing all of the meals.

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My Mom and Dad are dead as well as most of my relation.

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Who talks like this?

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I reached out to my Aunt but she isn't answering

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If you talked like that to me, I wouldn’t either.

Do you feel compelled to ask the following?