re: Husbends who make happy birthday post to their wives on facebook

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Always have flowers delivered to their work or social group location. Never to their house. They want the big show in front of their friends and coworkers.

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When we were first married I was going to post one of those valentines day my wife is the best post as I figured she would get pissed, because I saw all the bullshite the previous year. She caught me writing it up and said yeah don't do that. I asked why and she said good men don't post that stuff. That's being posted by a guy who either has a batshit crazy woman who flips her shite if she is not worshipped online (so she does not want that stigma), a guy who is a narcissist who is really posting about how he landed a trophy, or a guy who is desperate to save his relationship. She said emotional touchy feely posts like that should only come from the wife.

to never having to stress over that.

And yes I only send flowers to our house.

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The men wishing their wives Happy Birthday are getting laid.

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In my personal experience, the couples that post the most about each other on social media are usually in the most unstable relationships.

The posts are a weak attempt to hide their struggles from others and are often a futile attempt to please the wife with social media groveling.