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re: How many of your friends are happy with their marriage?
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:14 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:14 pm to Eli Goldfinger
The problem with most marriages today is people don’t understand what it means to love someone. They think it’s an involuntary reflex that just happens. That’s why so many marriages end when one or both decide one day they’ve “grown apart”.
There is nothing involuntary about love, it’s a willful action. You choose to love someone. And it’s not just words you say. As I said, love is an action. You act out your love for your significant other by daily acts of love for them. People don’t seem to know this any more. That’s why so many marriages fail.
There is nothing involuntary about love, it’s a willful action. You choose to love someone. And it’s not just words you say. As I said, love is an action. You act out your love for your significant other by daily acts of love for them. People don’t seem to know this any more. That’s why so many marriages fail.
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Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:17 pm to Yat27
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she's hot and treats him like a king
So, she at least earns the effort. Lol
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:19 pm to Landmass
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she's hot and treats him like a king
So, she at least earns the effort. Lol
A relationship built on mutual advantage. I can get behind that. Lots of women think they can shite on their husband nonstop but still expect the Royal lifestyle.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:20 pm to Robin Masters
I married my best friend 53 years ago and through three great kids and 20 years of living in the Middle East and Far East we have done extremely well. Retired at age 51 for good and continued to travel through western US and Alaska. Sex at 73 is great.
Key is to marry your best friend
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:26 pm to imjustafatkid
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I'm pretty happy in my marriage. My wife is a fantastic mother.
But that’s not the same thing as being a fantastic wife.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:32 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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How many of your friends are happy with their marriage?
Happy is such a subjective term.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:32 pm to East Coast Band
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FTR, my wife and I are the only ones of our combined siblings ( me 2, her 1) that are not divorced.
I'm the youngest of 5 kids and only one of my siblings had both married and stayed married.
Can't help wondering if our parents had something to do with that. They probably should have gotten divorced at some point a long time ago.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:40 pm to Havoc
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But that’s not the same thing as being a fantastic wife.
After her view of and faith in God, it's the most important quality of a fantastic wife.
This post was edited on 11/7/21 at 9:41 pm
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:48 pm to Eli Goldfinger
From my perspective, nearly all of my friends seem happy with their marriage.
But you never know I guess. I have one or two that are divorced, and one or two more that bitch but only slightly more than the usual petty shite we all vent about. I have a few whose marriages are envious. They happen to be exceptional men so it makes sense.
I'd change my entire being if it meant keeping my wife. But because I have such a great one, she inexplicably doesn't want me to change too much. Drink a little less, go to church a little (a lot) more. Which are both fair and things I continue to work on because she ain't wrong.
But you never know I guess. I have one or two that are divorced, and one or two more that bitch but only slightly more than the usual petty shite we all vent about. I have a few whose marriages are envious. They happen to be exceptional men so it makes sense.
I'd change my entire being if it meant keeping my wife. But because I have such a great one, she inexplicably doesn't want me to change too much. Drink a little less, go to church a little (a lot) more. Which are both fair and things I continue to work on because she ain't wrong.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 9:49 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Me and pretty much all of my circle of friends are happy in our marriages. We are all mature, intelligent and well adjusted.
Of course, we are also all getting old and the few who were in bad marriages got out of them some time ago.
Of course, we are also all getting old and the few who were in bad marriages got out of them some time ago.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:13 pm to Eli Goldfinger
My wife probably bitches about me more than I do her. I probably don't deserve her but I got her.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:24 pm to obdobd918
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:31 pm to fallguy_1978
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I can be friends with someone that I don't speak with very often. I have lifelong friends that I haven't seen in a decade. Just kind of the way it goes.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:34 pm to Eli Goldfinger
quote:You’re not in their marriage so how do you know exactly what goes on?
not at all bad husbands
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:38 pm to deltaland
quote:You sound like despicable trash.
we wouldn’t give them the time of day if not for that gash between their legs
Posted on 11/7/21 at 10:55 pm to Methuselah
Being intelligent and happy marriages aren't necessarily mutual.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 11:06 pm to Eli Goldfinger
I have a wonderful girlfriend that I plan on putting a ring on when the time is right... But geez man biatches gonna be biatches and sometimes a man needs to vent.
Posted on 11/7/21 at 11:06 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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This post was edited on 11/7/21 at 11:16 pm
Posted on 11/7/21 at 11:16 pm to Eli Goldfinger
The rise of social media is the downfall of the modern marriage.
Women and men can connect easier with old friends/flames, find hook ups online, listen to so called experts that cause them to have misconceptions about their marriages, get unhealthy advice about their problems, etc…..
Social media makes it easier and easier to find and have a extra marital affair.
Women and men can connect easier with old friends/flames, find hook ups online, listen to so called experts that cause them to have misconceptions about their marriages, get unhealthy advice about their problems, etc…..
Social media makes it easier and easier to find and have a extra marital affair.
Posted on 11/8/21 at 5:02 am to donRANDOMnumbers
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unless you end up with a unicorn
My first wife was borderline.
My second is a unicorn.
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