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Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:29 am to fareplay
Why do you care faggie stick to dudes like you do
Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:31 am to fareplay
Disappointed that 3 pages in there are no examples of this trend to judge based solely on T&A.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:33 am to fareplay
I ain't saying she's a gold digger, but she ain't messing with no broke ninjas
Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:39 am to tadman
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Long time ago I had a girlfriend start telling me what my dog was going to do if we got engaged, "or he's going to find a new home". Guess who found a new home first. Not the dog.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:39 am to fareplay
1.....I ain't raising some other dudes kid.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 11:57 am to Packer
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Cougar who got divorced once the kids went off to college: 2-3
this. one of my wife's friends is a perfectly nice lady that is divorced from an a-hole with 3 kids. he's settled down, remarried and is in their life, but was an a-hole at the time.
she's not my type but a nice, pretty lady. Degree and gainfully employed.
In another world if i were single at this point, i'd be fine dating somebody in that scenario and being a step dad.
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Young, dumb bimbo who got knocked up by a deadbeat and wants someone to take care of her and the kid: 1
i'm not raising somebody else's kid.
This post was edited on 7/8/25 at 12:02 pm
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:01 pm to fareplay
If you’re white and the woman is white BUT the kids are mixed, then you are officially a sucker not only support her and kids but her black baby daddy
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:03 pm to Lake08
Depends on your age. If you’re young the number is zero. If you’re in your 40’s good luck finding someone in your age group that doesn’t have any kids. Unless you just want to date around or don’t mind starting a family in your 40s.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:04 pm to tadman
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Long time ago I had a girlfriend start telling me what my dog was going to do if we got engaged, "or he's going to find a new home". Guess who found a new home first. Not the dog.
That's why dogs are so great.
He saved you from a lifetime of misery just by being your dog.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:10 pm to fareplay
There’s a big difference between the widow who was loyal and loving to the end, and the woman who decided that her first husband simply wasn't good enough anymore.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:12 pm to fareplay
I had two kids with my first wife so after we split, I had a hard rule not to date a woman who had more than two kids of her own. I really didn't plan on getting married again but you never know when cupid's arrow may strike and I didn't see how my house could accommodate more than 6 people total.
A dozen years post divorce, after a couple of LTR's and numerous flings, I found out a woman whom I had known since the early 90's was recently divorced after being with her first husband for 19 years. She was still easy on the eyes and self-sufficient but she had four kids. Had I not already known her, and had a positive opinion of her for so long, I would have passed on the opportunity to go out with her. But I decided that there was no harm in a dinner date to catch up on things and hopefully, she would be up for some grudge sex since hubby #1 had an affair.
She wasn't up for the grudge sex but we had great chemistry so that led to a second date, then a third. Eventually I met her kids and they were all great kids. We married a couple years later and just had our 10th anniversary. I've never been happier.
So the moral of the story is, regardless of how many kids you think is too many, there are exceptions to every rule. Most anything can be overcome when you find someone that enhances your happiness and you look forward to seeing them and hate saying goodbye.
A dozen years post divorce, after a couple of LTR's and numerous flings, I found out a woman whom I had known since the early 90's was recently divorced after being with her first husband for 19 years. She was still easy on the eyes and self-sufficient but she had four kids. Had I not already known her, and had a positive opinion of her for so long, I would have passed on the opportunity to go out with her. But I decided that there was no harm in a dinner date to catch up on things and hopefully, she would be up for some grudge sex since hubby #1 had an affair.
She wasn't up for the grudge sex but we had great chemistry so that led to a second date, then a third. Eventually I met her kids and they were all great kids. We married a couple years later and just had our 10th anniversary. I've never been happier.
So the moral of the story is, regardless of how many kids you think is too many, there are exceptions to every rule. Most anything can be overcome when you find someone that enhances your happiness and you look forward to seeing them and hate saying goodbye.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:13 pm to fareplay
I had to many bad experiences with single mothers.i don't think most of them are the victims society likes to paint them as and most of them are in that position due to their bad choices.
This post was edited on 7/8/25 at 12:15 pm
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:13 pm to Godfather1
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No matter. You are never going to be her priority.
if a new man in her life has priority over her kids, I wouldn't want to be with a woman like that.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:28 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
I heard this from Dr. Drew on his podcast. He was talking about dating and age and he said something I believe to be true.
Women are in one of these 3 stages in life:
1. They want to make a family with someone.
2. They want someone to help them with their existing family emotionally and financially.
3. They have kids who are independent and so now they are focused on having a good time and are looking to share experiences with the person they are dating.
I’m not interested at all in # 1 or 2.
Women are in one of these 3 stages in life:
1. They want to make a family with someone.
2. They want someone to help them with their existing family emotionally and financially.
3. They have kids who are independent and so now they are focused on having a good time and are looking to share experiences with the person they are dating.
I’m not interested at all in # 1 or 2.
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:32 pm to fareplay
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single moms post their (mostly mixed) babies and say if you won’t take care of them, leave me alone.
if she says this she isn't dateable to me
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:38 pm to Tiger Prawn
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The need for her to arrange babysitters so you can take her out on dates? Or her not being able to go out with you at certain times because its her turn for the weekend or holiday with the kids.
Just let me know when you're free.
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Then if there's long term potential, eventually you two will be going places with the kids too.
We're talking about dating. Not a relationship.
This post was edited on 7/8/25 at 12:39 pm
Posted on 7/8/25 at 12:38 pm to Godfather1
And the man should realize he’s not the priority. If he doesn’t like that then he should not get involved.
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