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re: Holding the household together since the hurricane but I’m a piece of shite
Posted on 9/8/21 at 8:22 am to tduecen
Posted on 9/8/21 at 8:22 am to tduecen
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Yall make me appreciate the worst batching I've heard is "it's hot let's go get drinks at a restaurant " as she has helped with cleanup, picked up gas, and even cut the yard while I was dealing with the roof...
Mother fricking same. My wife has worked her arse off this whole time
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Posted on 9/8/21 at 8:28 am to LSUSkip
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My wife does this to me with everydamn thing. Gives me a list of a zillion things to do, adds to it before I can finish it, then bitches because I don't watch the kids enough and it's always her(not by a longshot) and heaven forbid I forget or didn't hear something on her everchanging list of things to do. Sometimes I think about having an affair bit then I remember that I don't like being around my wife, having a girlfriend on the side would ve way too much trouble.
God damn.
I always knew I had a good, happy relationship but reading some of y’all’s, I honestly couldn’t have a better one.
To all those struggling, keep your head up, you’ll get through it.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 8:59 am to TDsngumbo
Well, maybe you should be even more willing show her that you can certainly understand all she is going through during this uncomfortable situation by going the extra mile to restore some normalcy.
Drop her off at a shelter until the power comes back on.
Drop her off at a shelter until the power comes back on.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:00 am to wadewilson
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Absolutely, yes. A marriage is past that. You literally take a vow to become 1 person.
How I wish those words weren’t so cheap
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:13 am to TDsngumbo
Sounds like you need to move. Why put your family through this crap when there are so many other states and areas to live?
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:53 am to TDsngumbo
A woman get's extra extra bitchy if there's inconvenience. Not all women, but a majority do. My wife is the same. I sit for a little bit after work, but after that I'm picking up, cooking, cleaning (I'm just a neat freak and hate clutter), trying to get time in with the kids, whole 9. But 1 little fkg mistake, you'd swear I sleep all day. Then I just lose my shite. But it blows over and it's marriage.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:00 am to TDsngumbo
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This post was edited on 9/8/21 at 11:01 am
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:04 am to The People
quote:Damn, I feel for you. You sound like a hard worker/provider and a shockingly calm person to have handled this like you did.
The People
Get the hell away from those people. They are ungrateful and they are taking advantage of your generosity. You will see that leaving them to fend for themselves will simplify your life in so many ways.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:33 am to The People
That woman could take you for every penny you have and it would be worth it to get away from all those people.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:36 am to BregmansWheelbarrow
Is there an update? Did the OP sit that woman down and lay down the law?
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:39 am to broadhead
quote:She read this thread and immediately changed her tune to one of appreciation and gratitude.
Is there an update? Did the OP sit that woman down and lay down the law?
The OT saves another life!
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:40 am to TDsngumbo
Just frick here bro she’s gonna feel better makeup sex
Posted on 9/8/21 at 11:53 am to bpinson
quote:This.
Been married 38 years. It's a 2 way street. I take care of the outside shite, she takes care of the inside shite. I work outside the house, she works inside the house. Small kids are a wrinkle,, ours are grown and gone. I always have a hot and damn good meal. Our money is our money no separate accounts. We live the good life and suffer mistakes together. I can't tell you what to do, but I've been managing expectations for 40 years. Good luck.
Don't make it more complex than it needs to be.
I think of my marriage (conceptually) as two folks back-to-back...
Posted on 9/8/21 at 1:45 pm to TDsngumbo
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Don’t fault the mother in law too much, you’d do the same for your child and grandchild too.
No. No I would not. If my kids are being little bitches I’m not going to stand up for them. They need to learn it’s stupid to be stupid.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 2:05 pm to TDsngumbo
Same here brother! I am just happy I dont have an infant to throw into the mix.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 2:27 pm to TDsngumbo
Well OP you’ve gotten all the attention you were whoring for. Even your wife has acknowledged you.
Back to babe threads.
Back to babe threads.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 2:43 pm to TDsngumbo
This should be expected. Sounds like your wife just had a baby so her hormones' are all out of whack. Also, watching said kid is stressful enough. Trust me, I much rather do manual labor in the heat all day than try to keep my baby girl entertained all day. Besides, just like you come to TD to vent, she's just looks to you, her most trusted partner to vent. And that's all she's doing. So just let her and try to see it from her perspective. And then, when everyone is in a better headspace tell her how your feeling through all of this. You are both stressed out so give each other some space.
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:10 pm to The People
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step daughter
How hot is she?
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:12 pm to The People
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But I will never forget when I first noticed the winds change. We were on our honeymoon and for the first time I saw her selfish, unwillingness to go with the flow or support the things that I wanted to pursue that week. Looking back, I could have never known what I would be in fo
I am shocked her daughter is a total piece of work too
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:15 pm to The People
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In true OT fashion, she literally has only put any effort into our family when it comes to committing to travel to endless weekend tournaments
LOL! This dude is awesome
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