re: Hold old is the oldest virgin that you know and would you help a lady out if she was one?

Capt Sam Quint '75

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"Here lies the body of Mary Lee, died at the age of 103. For 15 years she kept her virginity, not a bad record for this vicinity."

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A friend of mine was a 30 year old virgin as of last year.

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He makes it so painfully obvious he’s never gotten laid in his life.

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I’ve got kids bruh

She is 29 now. She is a bigger girl with a pretty face. Never had sex in highschool. Around age 23 she decided it was too late to bone some random dude so she was going to wait on it. Seems like an awful life being a female incel by choice.

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she is going to make who ever she dates waiting until they are married

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That’s nice. My wife made me wait until we were married. But I showed her, after the wedding night I held out just to show her who’s the boss. In fact, I’m still going just to drive the point home.

This bad, even for you, David. This thought experiment is disturbing and unnecessary. You and everyone else knows damned well there's always at least one sorry bastard who frick anything. Alternatively, there's always someone who will do anything for enough money.

The causality of stale virginity would naturally influence my willingness to intervene. Bad hygiene or lifestyle is self inflicted, I ain't getting involved. Bad genetics? the universe is evil and I'm not that much of a saint, sorry.

A niche case would be a lady who was involved with some cult requiring celibacy. If she was otherwise in good condition and her problems were all in her head, then she's not beyond redemption. I just might help her exorcise her confusion.

This situation would start off as, I meet an OT10 and she says "I used to be a nun". We take it from there. You might be surprised at how many highly, physically attractive ladies claim that they are indeed virgins. It doesn't mean it's a fact, but it ain't my place or interest to disprove it.

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Sex should be reserved for marriage only. Many of the social ills we are experiencing today have at their root the belief that extra and premarital sex are perfectly acceptable. Movies and TV have encouraged this debased sexual ethic and many communities are crumbling as a result. Please do not also encourage this amoral belief that sex is trivial.

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This is a dying line of thought. Nobody is going to follow this anymore. But I suspect most men think they are going to find a beautiful sophisticated virgin that they will deflower the first time. Ain't going to happen. Sex is pleasurable and both sexes know it.

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24, looked like 90s Liv Tyler, and told my wife she was too tight to take cock. Yeah, I'm sad I was friend zoned by the wedding ring.

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Your sister friend zoned you?

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If you aren’t having sex I don’t know what you are doing with your social and dating scene to not be married by age 25. Seriously, you have to have some fairly serious social and psychological issues you should seek professional help for if that’s the case.

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My early 20s were dominated by stress due to school and other unfortunate circumstances in my life. I had no time or energy to pursue relationships. I didn't even get serious about dating until I got a good paying job post college, around 23 or 24. I learned around then that relationships and being around people actually fueled me. I'm in the best place of my life now socially going on 27. No girlfriend currently, but it's not for lack of attempts. And I'm fine with that, as long as I'm trying.

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about the only way I can think of a woman being a virgin in this day and age past the age of 30 would to be a really devout Catholic nun!!!!!!

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I know a former LSU bat girl who still lives + works in BR that is a early 40s virgin. she used to babysit my neighbor's kids. she's down for everything else. but still holding out for the ole wedding band.