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re: Has Anyone Here Had Their Heart Truly Broken Before?

Posted on 5/23/18 at 10:55 pm to
Posted by Tigerlaff
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 10:55 pm to
Don't worry, baw. The sun will go supernova one day and reduce whatever trace elements are left of both of you into subatomic particles and it will be like y'all never existed.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:04 pm to
Why is good looking the only thing you can say about her?
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
4580 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:09 pm to
My heart was broken by cancer. My wife and I had a wonderful marriage. One day she was complaining about a pain in her chest. We got it checked out and she was diagnosed with Stage 3 pancreatic cancer . 17 months later she was gone. Nothing will ever ease that kind of pain. Of watching the love of your life slowly die.

The OP needs to realize we cant always see why things happen. All you can do is pick yourself up and try to move on with your life.
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
21153 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:14 pm to
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Has Anyone Here Had Their Heart Truly Broken Before?


Yes...married twice but was ready to go both times. The other one who broke my heart was a different story...been TKO'd for three years now as for looking to date again, just knocked my legs right out from under me. Took me 40 years to truly feel real heartbreak but it was bad when it happened and scary honestly as a new feeling at that age.
Posted by Lsupimp
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Member since Nov 2003
86490 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:15 pm to
This is one of the rare areas in life where I have an empathy- deficit. If your dog had died I might get choked up. If you just got fired or your kid was having a health issue I’d worry about you across the Internet. But as much as I try, break-ups kind of make me giggle. I’ve never seen a breakup in my life that in the long run wasn’t a good thing. Including the one that made me puke for a month and my parent’s divorce. Get over it. The less angst the better you’ll feel.
Posted by OMLandshark
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:19 pm to
Posted by JuiceTerry
Roond the Scheme
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:29 pm to
quote:

My heart was broken by cancer. My wife and I had a wonderful marriage. One day she was complaining about a pain in her chest. We got it checked out and she was diagnosed with Stage 3 pancreatic cancer . 17 months later she was gone. Nothing will ever ease that kind of pain. Of watching the love of your life slowly die.
I honestly don't think I could deal with it. My heart truly goes out to you, and I hope you have some sort of peace and family and friends to lean on. Sincere condolences, amigo.
Posted by MMauler
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Member since Jun 2013
24755 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:30 pm to
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Had her best friend text me wanting to plan how I propose to her


There's your answer -- f*ck her best friend.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:45 pm to
There are many ways that have your heart broken.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18342 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:45 pm to
I have. My wife left me about a year into our marriage. Luckily I met my 2nd wife about 2 weeks later and we’ve been together ever since.

Keep your head up, champ.
Posted by MrLSU
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Member since Jan 2004
30073 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:49 pm to
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise.


Quit dating girls from New Iberia with the New Iberia haircut and you’ll never be disappointed again.
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
19848 posts
Posted on 5/23/18 at 11:58 pm to
Damn bud

The only option now is to frick her best friend
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 12:04 am to
time heals all wounds, but the journey getting there is a bitch.

i know everyone on here is like get under another girl .... and yeah that’s pretty true. distract your heartbreak with other girls.
eventually it gets better. eventually.
This post was edited on 5/24/18 at 12:08 am
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
30130 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 12:11 am to
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise.

I've never felt this kind of heartache before.

I thought that... until I found the love of my life. A genuine connection will make the next love of your life just as beautiful, if not more so than the last. This was obviously not meant to last. Keep your head up... I know it sucks, but this too shall pass. Lean on family and friends, work out, stay busy, and try to remove reminders (social medial, trinkets, etc.). Good luck friend.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26445 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 1:48 am to
Aw nevermind
This post was edited on 5/24/18 at 1:57 am
Posted by Conner4real
Earth
Member since Sep 2017
455 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 2:15 am to
Start working out. Eat right. Play golf. Go fishing. Go out and have drinks with your buddies. Go to work events. Be social. Make your own money and start preparing to set yourself up for the next chapter of your life. Your still in your 20’s, there’s no rush to be in a relationship. I know the thought of starting over emotionally is a scary one, but you’re not in a bad spot. Eventually start going on a casual date every once in a while, but be relaxed about it and don’t put any pressure on the situation. The right woman will show up one day, and when she does, you’ll feel it. Your thoughts and emotions will be directed at her and the one who just rolled out on you will only be an after thought that pops up on occasion and you’ll do nothing more than giggle and shake your head as you wonder how she ever even made you feel so shitty. This happened for a reason bro. Find a way to be glad it did.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135035 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 2:54 am to
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise


Not with that attitude.

Look,’we’ve all dealt with this. You “fall in love” and you fall deep and when it ends it feels like the end of the world.


And then 5 years later you are eating out a girl much hotter on your back porch.

Trust me, it gets better.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 5:54 am to
School of hard knocks lol. Tough guy here
Posted by reddy tiger
Mandeville
Member since Aug 2012
1602 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 6:35 am to
Relax. She'll probably get fat.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34743 posts
Posted on 5/24/18 at 7:14 am to
quote:

This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise.


Looks fade, and someone like that is always going to be obsessed with her looks. My advice is to find yourself a girl that you love to hang with and be friends with. This is what lasts when beauty fades and the fiery passion tames down. Find someone who shares your interests and you can have fun with.

A person will always show you who they are. The problem is, what are you making them out to be because of what you want or need? I am sure that pretty little thing showed you what a narcissist she was, but you just couldn't see past that towering pedestal you put her on.

Right now you are blinded by the pain, but after some reflection, you will start to realize some things.

Get away alone into the outdoors and clear your head.
Chasing the strange will only muddle things up and prolong your agony because buried feelings never die.
Take care of yourself.
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