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re: Ever met someone who no matter what you say or what position you hold

Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:05 am to
Posted by ob1pimpbobi
College Station
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Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:05 am to
My 19 year old son.
Posted by BrianKellysbuyout
Member since Nov 2025
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Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:07 am to
I married her. She wasn't like that until I was stuck with her.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36231 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:07 am to
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vice versus
I would argue that the phrase is “vice versa”
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
72103 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:08 am to
Yes. His name is Me.
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
1590 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:17 am to
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We have saved ~$100 this year" "Well we have saved $102 this year"


Proper coaching & development for this person:

Homework: Pareto Analysis reading

Action: Present in ~1 slide (or less) why this was your homework

Discussion:
When perfect is the enemy of good.
When you aim for perfection, you may miss completion.
Good enough today beats perfect tomorrow.
You don’t need perfect data to make a better decision than doing nothing.

And most importantly, it’s not what u say but how people feel. Quit pissing me off!
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
25893 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:18 am to
SFP.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6488 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:23 am to
When someone knows the truth, but tells a lie anyway - it tends to make them upset. They are unwilling to accept responsibility for this cognitive dissonance, so it makes them hostile to people that can see through their bullshite.

This is why women say things like, "I don't want you to fix the problem, I just want you to listen." It's because they already know the solution, but hearing someone else say it infuriates them.

This is the crux of the issue. You are dealing with irrational people when someone is hostile to reality.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
41105 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:23 am to
I have a close family member like that. I try my best to tune it out, but when you literally cannot make a single comment or express any thought whatsoever without them well actually'ing you, it gets annoying fast.
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Az via La
Member since Feb 2006
13259 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:24 am to
My step son love him to death but yet he always take the opposite position
He grew up to be an attorney - which is perfect for him.
I used to say he’d argue with the Pope and he’d reply “no i wouldn’t” lol
Posted by tigersbh
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2005
13154 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:26 am to
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What led to you marrying someone that disagreeable or did it change over time?


Posted by Gorilla Ball
Az via La
Member since Feb 2006
13259 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:29 am to
Same
An attractive Asian girl we or should I say I cut dinner real short and brought he arse home. I don’t even think I walked her to the door.
Posted by LittleJerrySeinfield
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Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:31 am to
I have met my enemy and he is me.
Posted by More beer please
Member since Feb 2010
46517 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:31 am to
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Ever met someone who no matter what you say or what position you hold
Snipe
They will argue with you?


Yup and then they dont work for me anymore.

The other is my wife
Posted by madmaxvol
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Member since Oct 2011
22201 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:33 am to
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Is this a personality trait? Where one cannot be agreeable in anything?



I've seen it referred to as "Oppositional Defiance"
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
15278 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:40 am to
Welcome to marriage.

A few years ago I seemed to notice this trend. So I intentionally started baiting her by taking perfectly reasonable, non controversial positions on things just to see if she’d go the other way. She’s fallen for it 100 percent of the time. At this point I think she’d argue that the sky is not really blue.
Posted by oldtrucker
Marianna, Fl
Member since Apr 2013
3502 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:46 am to
My wife is terrible about always taking the other side. I once asked her if she did it among her friends, warning her that if she did it would alienate her from them eventually.
Posted by Mikes My Tiger
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2007
3023 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:46 am to
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my wife. I could tell her that water is wet and she will disagree.


I'm not saying I disagree with you, but there are actually arguments that it isn't depending on the definition of "wet."



Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
21748 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:49 am to
My current favorite is, kid will ask "what time is it?". I'll tell them it's 9:45am. She'll bust out, well actually it's 9:48am. I give the sure, whatever.

Later that day, kid will ask for the time. "It's almost bedtime, it's 7:43pm. She'll bust out, you could just say 7:45pm
Posted by LCA131
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:51 am to
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It's called a one-upper


Yes, or 'topper'. The comic strip, Dilbert, would occasionally feature this character. Was always funny.

It's a bit of a character flaw. There was even a saying that doesn't get used much anymore that went something like this, "He'd rather tell a lie, when the truth would suit him better!"
Posted by Floating Change Up
Member since Dec 2013
13023 posts
Posted on 1/9/26 at 9:53 am to
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Ever met someone who no matter what you say or what position you hold


Every. Teenager. Ever.
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