Dad’s psycho new wife

My dad married an insane woman that I have never been able to have any connection with even though I have tried. I am in my 30’s and was introducing her to my child’s teacher when she came in town with my dad to visit and introduced her as “my dad’s wife ____”. For some reason she has latched onto this and went ballistic about me not calling her my stepmom and won’t let it go.

For the record, they got married when I was 30 years old and has never spelled my daughter’s name correctly (it’s a simple and fairly common name).

What suggests the OT? Fire away!


Edit and additional info:

- my dad passed away
- she harasses everyone
- she is holding things with no monetary value and no sentimental value over our heads such as pictures of us when we were children and of my father’s family who she never knew or has harassed as well.

- not hot so there is no PIIHB